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posted September 17, 2014 11:36 AM            

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Hello there,
I'm a newbie here and would like to talk about my synastry chart with my boyfriend. He said it was love at first sight for him but I should confess I developped deeper feelings later on, not instantly. I love him but when I look at our chart I merely see a significant angle (e.g: I do not aspect his venus in any way). But I must say we care about each other in a very nurturing way. He becomes very posessive sometimes but I'm also jealous so, not much of a problem. So, I'm posting it here, let me know if you see anything.

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posted September 17, 2014 11:51 AM            

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Welcome!

Why do you say you don't aspect his Venus?

His Venus/Pluto conjuncts your Vertex sextile your Jupiter and squares your Saturn. these are significant aspects.
You also have major planet/angle contacts: your Venus/his MC, your Moon/his IC, his Sun stellium in your 7th house (house of partnerships)

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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posted September 17, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Thanks for the comment
Well, that's right. I'm not sure the way I experience his stellium. It seems like he is the one who turned things into a proper relationship and I'm somewhat supporting/approving him.

Btw, I must say that I feel that venus square saturn aspect deeply. I'm the saturn and my parents were very much cynical about him, it's getting better with time but we had to (and we are still) put too much effort there.

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posted September 17, 2014 12:17 PM            

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and I wonder,
why do you think he says it was a love at first sight and I say it developped with time. do you think an angle makes it? or is it because I'm a virgo sun and he is a sag sun?

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posted September 17, 2014 12:34 PM            

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It's probably his Neptune square your Sun or his Uranus on your DSC

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posted September 17, 2014 01:45 PM            

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that's great insgiht thanks. but I also read that sun-neptune angles are not favorable as they tend to include deception in some sort. what would you think about that?

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posted September 17, 2014 01:57 PM            

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Usually, what we call angles are ASC, DSC, MC and IC. I think you're talking about "aspects" and the major ones are: conjunction, opposition, square, trine and sextile (red and blue in the chart). Neptune is his "falling in love" planet, so a square to your Sun (a dynamic, compelling aspect) would explain the love at first sight.

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posted September 17, 2014 02:24 PM            

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lol yes! I meant to say aspect excuse my newbie-ese.

thanks a lot! any other comments from any other user are very much welcome

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posted September 17, 2014 05:00 PM            

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uhmm. I really dont wanna start a new topic for the same chart above. so can anyone please talk to me long term implications of the chart? and some possible threats maybe?

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posted September 17, 2014 06:00 PM            

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*bump*

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posted September 18, 2014 07:48 AM            

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Your chart has expired. Go to tinypic and upload it there, then copy the "IMG link for forums" and paste it here and I will tell you what the prospects for long-term are.

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posted September 18, 2014 09:17 AM            

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here's the chart with additional eros, isis and sappho

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posted September 18, 2014 09:20 AM            

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triple post

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posted September 18, 2014 09:23 AM            

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triple post

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posted September 18, 2014 09:30 AM            

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Could you post the composite as well?

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posted September 18, 2014 09:32 AM            

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The Blue person's moon on the red IC is interesting to me. A past-life emotional tie, perhaps unfinished whatever (not necessarily a relationship/marriage)

Where does Karma sit?

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posted September 18, 2014 09:34 AM            

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there goes to composite;

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posted September 18, 2014 09:43 AM            

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I like your charts. His Saturn is not strongly aspected by you, but your Venus is on his MC. The house overlays are very good. Both charts suggest that whatever will be, will be beautiful, and if the spark ends, it will turn into a beautiful friendship.

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posted September 18, 2014 09:47 AM            

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My karma is in my 3rd house (his 9th house)
his karma sits on my 5th house and his 10th.

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posted September 18, 2014 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by VestaFlake:
My karma is in my 3rd house (his 9th house)
his karma sits on my 5th house and his 10th.

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Hi Vesta

I'm a newbie too

So I can't put that together without seeing it. Can you repost synastry with Karma?

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posted September 18, 2014 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by carm76:
Hi Vesta

I'm a newbie too

So I can't put that together without seeing it. Can you repost synastry with Karma?

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there you go

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posted September 18, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I like your charts. His Saturn is not strongly aspected by you, but your Venus is on his MC. The house overlays are very good. Both charts suggest that whatever will be, will be beautiful, and if the spark ends, it will turn into a beautiful friendship.

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intresting. we both feel that if some day we break up, we will be full of resentment and won't be able to make it as friends. if only the spark never ends

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