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Topic: Why am i so unlucky in love?
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Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 11:35 AM
  
I was in love once and we ended things in less than 6 months, that was 2 years ago and i still think about her to this day since i met her. i liked her because she was the only who understood me, and she seemed to like me at first i couldnt believe a girl like that would like me, i spent about 3 months talking to her, falling in love, then out of the blue she told me she had a boyfriend i was devastated. i couldn't believe this was going to happen with me, but she agreed to be with me nonetheless but i felt bad for her boyfriend but i gathered he is a terrible person that must be why she likes me. it didnt end well,there was jealousy from my part and it felt like she was using me, i havent seen her in 2 years but still i can't let go. i dated another girl after her in 2013, she was 2 years older than me, we dated for 3 months, then she left me for an older guy. i was heartbroken and this was after my first love, i just wanted closure and the worst thing is i still see her from time to time and she just ignores me, but i can let that go. 2 months after that in 2013, i dated someone who i thought really liked and she did, and i learned to like her and i almost loved her. she was a beautiful girl but was still insecure but i liked that about her because she seemed real to me, she would talked her insecurity openly sometimes and i listened even though i knew i couldn't help her in anyway other than cheap words. there were problems, but we cared for each other still. her friends were different than me, they didnt like me and because of that she started spending more and more time away from me, then on december 15, 11 days before my birthday, she broke up with me and the thing made me cry is that she left me for someone else, and the guy she left me for was someone who hated me and despised me since school days, that hurts me the most,knowing him he probably manipulated her, and the poor girl fell for it. that was the day i fell out of love with the word itself, i havent dated anyone since, there was another girl who liked me, i liked her too. she was a really nice girl, and she had the most beautiful smile, i kept thinking i can't invite her to my problems and... i didn't want that smile of hers to be tarnished for someone like me so i didn't try, school days are over, i haven't seen her since the last day of school, i had to be cruel to her in the cold way i am and i'll never see her or her smile never again. i'm in university now, i'm not sure how to feel about girls anymore it's about a year since i felt someone's comfort, my heart feels an empty place to be in, there was a time that felt like every girl liked me, but that is in the past, i've spent months doing nothing but think about what could have been. somebody help me, even if it's a minute i'd like an answer to what is wrong with me.
my chart:
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astra7
Newflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 11:54 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreaking stories. You are still young and you haven't met THE person yet. From quick look on your natal, tr Uranus is in your 7th house of relationship so until Uranus moves out of there (which is quite sometime), you will be either having many short relationships or will have unstable relationships I'm afraid. This Uranus is currently squared by powerful tr Pluto which is right on your natal Mars which rules your values (2nd house) and also sexuality and relationships (7th house) so no wonder you are going through tough time with this powerful square. But I think, this experience will make you realise what you want in relationship in the long run. You have Libra Asc and you naturally want to be in relationship all the time so this is extra tough for you. There is nothing wrong with you, it just that not the right timing to establish a long-lasting relationship. The transit is making you work to realise what is an important relationship. Also, Saturn is transiting your 2nd house so he is making you work out about your values.I'm sure someone else will come along and shed light on your question. IP: Logged |
Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:02 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreaking stories. You are still young and you haven't met THE person yet. From quick look on your natal, tr Uranus is in your 7th house of relationship so until Uranus moves out of there (which is quite sometime), you will be either having many short relationships or will have unstable relationships I'm afraid. This Uranus is currently squared by powerful tr Pluto which is right on your natal Mars which rules your values (2nd house) and also sexuality and relationships (7th house) so no wonder you are going through tough time with this powerful square. But I think, this experience will make you realise what you want in relationship in the long run. You have Libra Asc and you naturally want to be in relationship all the time so this is extra tough for you. There is nothing wrong with you, it just that not the right timing to establish a long-lasting relationship. The transit is making you work to realise what is an important relationship. Also, Saturn is transiting your 2nd house so he is making you work out about your values.I'm sure someone else will come along and shed light on your question.
thank you for the reply, i don't know how to look for complex astrology on my chart, so i really appreciate you helping me 
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Virgo28
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Miami, FL
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted September 25, 2014 12:12 PM
You got the 7th house ruler afflicted and conjunct uranus/neptune. That means relationships that start/end suddenly in dissolution and cause great deal of emotional wound.IP: Logged |
Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
You got the 7th house ruler afflicted and conjunct uranus/neptune. That means sudden relationship that end in dissolution fast.
thanks for replying, um is that transit or natal? IP: Logged |
Virgo28
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Miami, FL
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted September 25, 2014 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by Astroboy888:
thanks for replying, um is that transit or natal?
Thats your natal.... The most important thing is your natal chart. IP: Logged |
Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:15 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Virgo28:
Thats your natal.... The most important thing is your natal chart.[/QUOplease can you tell me who my 7th house ruler is? IP: Logged |
Virgo28
Newflake Posts: 16
From: Miami, FL
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted September 25, 2014 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by Astroboy888:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Virgo28:
[b] Thats your natal.... The most important thing is your natal chart.[/QUOplease can you tell me who my 7th house ruler is?[/B]
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astra7
Newflake Posts: 5
From:
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:23 PM
This article is long but you might find some points relevant to you since you have Libra Asc. http://starcounsell.wordpress.com/category/counselling/ If you go back to Astro.com and choose 'Natal * transit', you will produce a natal chart with current transit (in green planets on the outside of the wheel). IP: Logged |
Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:28 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
This article is long but you might find some points relevant to you since you have Libra Asc. http://starcounsell.wordpress.com/category/counselling/ If you go back to Astro.com and choose 'Natal * transit', you will produce a natal chart with current transit (in green planets on the outside of the wheel).
thank you, the article seems to be with my pace haha its funny the article says the transit started in 2008 and 2007 was the last time i recall being happy. and it says people who have any libra placements will be affected, thats the best part out of the 4 girls i dated, one girl had a libra moon, one had a libra sun and another had libra planets, maybe they are going through what i am going through as well, um lots to think about. i am on my transit chart now, yeah i found it. IP: Logged |
Astroboy888
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: London
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 25, 2014 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by Astroboy888:
thank you, the article seems to be with my pace haha its funny the article says the transit started in 2008 and 2007 was the last time i recall being happy. and it says people who have any libra placements will be affected, thats the best part out of the 4 girls i dated, one girl had a libra moon, one had a libra sun and another had libra planets, maybe they are going through what i am going through as well, um lots to think about. i am on my transit chart now, yeah i found it.
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