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Virgo28
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posted September 26, 2014 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you ever fell in love or were attracted to someone that didn't make any aspect to your Venus???

I know other planets bring attraction but I mean love(Venus).

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lovebug7
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posted September 26, 2014 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovebug7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a guy who venus was unaspected. The love was not there, nice guy but the relationship did not last long

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posted September 26, 2014 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Gisele Bündchen and Tom Brady have an unaspected Venus in their synastry?

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tgem
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posted September 26, 2014 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd say look to see what the 2nd and 7th house rulers are (ruled by Libra) and what aspects they are making. Also don't forget to look for declinations (parallels especially) and see if venus is aspecting any of the important midpoints like sun/moon and venus/mars.

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posted September 26, 2014 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lovebug7:
I dated a guy who venus was unaspected. The love was not there, nice guy but the relationship did not last long

ditto this. his venus was also retrograde, so that didn't help. usually something else in synastry is bringing the people together.

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Virgo28
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posted September 26, 2014 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tom Brady has a very well aspected wallet.

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posted September 26, 2014 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus is aspected by Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus, Pluto. <--- You can imagine.

Her Venus is aspected by trine Pluto, opp Neptune.


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Bluejay
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posted September 26, 2014 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, I have only truly been in love with one person, and we had many mutual Venus aspects. I've had unrequited love for another man for years and we also have mutual Venus aspects. In both cases Venus aspects Moon, Mars, Pluto, and Neptune, going at least one way, with some double whammy aspects.


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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Tom Brady has a very well aspected wallet.


Gisele makes A LOT more money than he does. His net worth is around 120 million(I believe this includes his contract through 2017) while she is worth well over 300 million. I found 350-390, and counting! She's one of the highest paid models in the world, even while giving birth to 2 of their children in the last few years. I think it's safe to say she didn't marry him to get her hands on his money!

If there is a gold digger here it's him, although men never get accused of marrying for money. It's his Venus that's unaspected afterall, not hers.

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posted September 26, 2014 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Virgo28:
Tom Brady has a very well aspected wallet.


So does she.

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posted September 27, 2014 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Virgo28:
Tom Brady has a very well aspected wallet.


Hahahahahaha! That was a clever quote!!

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posted September 27, 2014 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If Venus is not aspected on the synastry then another personal planet must be, but usually it doesn't last. I know a couple who have a double whammy Sun conj. Saturn but they were never in love. They 're trying so hard to be... Saturn will keep them together for a while, and so will Mars conj. Mars making an interesting sex life, but it's gonna end. There's no emotional bond. In my opinion, if there's no Venus, at least there must be a strong Moon.

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posted September 28, 2014 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Bluejay:
No, I have only truly been in love with one person, and we had many mutual Venus aspects. I've had unrequited love for another man for years and we also have mutual Venus aspects. In both cases Venus aspects Moon, Mars, Pluto, and Neptune, going at least one way, with some double whammy aspects.


Gisele makes A LOT more money than he does. His net worth is around 120 million(I believe this includes his contract through 2017) while she is worth well over 300 million. I found 350-390, and counting! She's one of the highest paid models in the world, even while giving birth to 2 of their children in the last few years. I think it's safe to say she didn't marry him to get her hands on his money!

If there is a gold digger here it's him, although men never get accused of marrying for money. It's his Venus that's unaspected afterall, not hers.


Thank you. Exactly what I was thinking.

Clearly Tom Brady is such just a gold digger. Of course, she's not difficult to look at. And men ARE accused of marrying just because the woman is good looking.

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posted September 28, 2014 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Thank you. Exactly what I was thinking.

Clearly Tom Brady is such just a gold digger. Of course, she's not difficult to look at. And men ARE accused of marrying just because the woman is good looking.


LoL... We're just too pure to marry for money. 0=)

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posted September 28, 2014 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Same experience unforgiven_soul.

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posted November 07, 2014 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My venus is un-aspected in my husband and I's synastry if you only look at planets. HOWEVER it sits on his Sun/Moon midpoint exactly.

I have been with him for 10 years and I fell HEAD OVER HEELS for that man. I still adore him. I still find him to be one of the sexiest men alive. When we met, we didn't see the outside world, our friends, no one for nearly 6 months. It was heaven.

Have I wanted to end the relationship dozens of times? Yes, he will even tell you that. However Uranus is making a transit through my 7H right now as well. I will say sometimes I don't feel love from him. I was telling him last night, I don't feel it sometimes, regardless how much he tells me he loves me. We are both Venus in Leo and THAT has been tough. We both want to be doted upon, but he wins always. I am very giving to him, and it is often not returned. He is also a 12th House Venus.

The problem REALLY lies in when I meet another guy who aspects my Venus. Especially Pluto. I have someone in my life who shares this aspect and it's like "HELLO!!!" When my Venus is aspected by another guy, then I'm really screwed, I get super intense about the person and I can't help it. I'm suddenly like "Oh wow! This is how this feels when Venus is aspected!" which has proven to be a problem at times in our marriage. He, and this marriage, have been one of the biggest teachers in my life. I love him deeply.

I do agree, you have to look at the 7H ruler and the house that your 7H ruler also rules. For example, Pisces rules my 7H. Generally, I don't blend well with strong Pisces people. However when people's planets fall in my 12th I love them. When people contact my Neptune I adore them. It also means that I have some interesting psychic connections with these people, often dreaming about them or just "knowing" things about them.

My Mars conj my husband's Venus. We have a wide Sun/Moon Conj. His Moon and Venus fall in my 12th, Pisces being my 7th House ruler. My Neptune (7H ruler) trine his Venus. His Moon conj my Anti-Vertex. We're both Virgo Asc. He has 7 retrograde planets as well. We also have an Isis/Osiris conjunction in our Composite.

Anyway, I don't think it's a deal breaker. You have to analyze all the components of 7H things.

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