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Topic: Progressed synastry with a colleague
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2014 12:48 PM
I have a colleague who seems to have a particular liking for me. He is married with children, so nothing romantic, nevertheless I couldn`t help noticing that he seems to be really attentive towards me and how his eyes always lighten up when he sees me.Now he sometimes offers me a ride home, which he really doesn`t have to, but on the other hand I am taking the bus otherwise, so it is sometimes convenient and we can chat about workrelated things a little. Nevertheless lately he seemed to be even MORE attentive than usually and this week was a bit in the category "nice, but weird". Actually another colleague had offered me a ride to the busstation, and on our way we were stopping at a parking place at a mall as she needed to have some things before; well and this other colleague, who had been in the car behind us, followed us to the parking place, asking me to switch cars, because he could bring me home, instead of just to the busstation. It was a nice offer, but it was a bit much effort/ thought put into this I thought. It was also kinda funny actually. Anyway so I was thinking to have a look at our progressed synastry.
his p Mercury conjunct my p Venus 1.14 a his p Venus conjunct my p Sun 0.07a his p Mars trine my p Sun 0.06 a his p Venus trine my n DESC 0.28a his p Mars conjunct my n DESC 0.31 s his n Sun conjunct my p Sun 2.33a his n Venus opposite my p Moon 2.14 a and some more exotic ones: ---------------------------- his p Pluto opposite my p Juno 1.20a his p Eros conjunct my p BML 1.26a (lately I seem to appear as Lilith a whole lot in some male`s charts)
his p Sun trine my n Eros 0.50a his p Mercury conjunct my n BML 1.25 a his n Sun trine my p Pluto 0.02a his n Juno opposite my p Moon 0.42a his n Psyche conjunct my p ASC 0.02 s The interesting thing for me was acutally some thing in his natal progressions.
He is heading towards an exact conjunction of p Psyche on his n Eros - on 25.57 Capricorn. What makes this so funny is that I remember, when I met Mr Sag, he was having p Sun conjunct n Venus on 25.55 Capricorn. Now the weird thing is, that this does not seem to have any connection to me whatsoever. I mean I have Sun on 25.56 Sagittarius, but that is a semisextile, and that would be really grasping for thin air I suppose.
But it still struck me that both men had this same degree emphasized. I really dont have anything there unless we count my Moon/Venus-mp on 26°37 Capricorn. Currently Mr Sag has his sa Neptune on 25°53 Capricorn conjunct his natal Venus, and just when it had come into a closer orb (21 minutes), it was when he suddenly started to pay so much attention to me, that even I couldnīt help but notice.
(Neptune rules his 1st house btw and Venus is ruler of his intercepted Libra in 7th house). Hmm, I know these are just two guys, but two guys sudenly displaying a similiar bheaviour towards me and at the same time and coinciding with the same degree emphasized.
If this is not a coincidence, I really wonder, what does this degree in Capricorn have to do with me? Or what is my relation to it? As I said I do not have a planet on 25-26 Capricorn, nor on Cancer nor Aries nor Libra (except for my Draconic Venus on 25 Aries, but it should appear in the tropical as well I think). Nor Taurus or Virgo. The only planets I have on 25-26 degrees are Sun and mercury, but in Sagittarius. A mystery. lol IP: Logged |
Delilah423 Knowflake Posts: 355 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 27, 2014 01:01 PM
25-26 Cap is pretty significant in my chart, being the location of my Antivertex and Duad Moon (and Davison Sun and helio composite Sun/Moon in my current relationship).How can I help? I don't think you need much more than the Sabian though: A Nature Sprit Dancing In The Iridescent Mist Of A Waterfall EDIT: And don't underestimate the power of semisextiles. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2014 01:08 PM
Yesm, I love the Sabian. As for semisextiles in Cap/ Sag, they often coincide with a parallel of declination I think. I am never sure about semisextiles to be honest. That degree is important in my Draconic chart though as I have Dr MC on 24.48 Cap and Dr Pluto on 28.55 Cap. However I was looking for something more, I don`t know, directly and straightforward in the tropical? I do have Sun/Moon-mp and Avx on 21 Capricorn, but that is 4-5 degrees away. Doesn`t quite fit.
Well, my Mars is on 5°10 Sagittarius,w hich means its Antiscion is 24°50 Capricorn, which is at least interesting.
EDIT I just feel I am missing something vital here. It is like I am looking at a picture and I know it is there, but despite looking at it, I can`t quite grasp it, you know? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 506 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 27, 2014 01:10 PM
COLLEAGUE, right, Ceri? As in, this man has nothing to do with your employment, or has no degree of superiority?IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 27, 2014 01:14 PM
No, in fact I was there before him, and we are equal colleagues, yes. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 1753 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 27, 2014 02:05 PM
I was going to suggest the antiscia, but you beat me to it! Off topic, I replied to you in PR yesterday (I think it was yesterday ). ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 6530 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 27, 2014 02:37 PM
Maybe your Moon/Venus is reactive, and in turn it produces an uncoscious (or conscious)reaction in those men It's not uncommon for one gender to react to the unconscious (and it can also be something biological, like pheromones lol) reaction they produce in the other. Moon/Venus is a very feminine mdp. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 1753 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 27, 2014 06:11 PM
You got me into checking prog synastry with Mr. Cap.. *sigh*My pSun conj his nMoon (separating) My pSun trine his nMercury (sep) [since it's ruler of natal Asc and MC] My pSun trine his nNN (applying, 2 deg) My pMoon conj his nVertex (partile but applying) His pMoon squares my NVertex (partile but separating) My pMoon will trine his nUranus in the following months His pMoon will conjunct my n/pUranus in a few months My pMoon will conjunct his pVenus in a few months My pMercury is square his pVenus (applying) My pMercury is trine his pMercury (applying) - that's why we can have good conversations despite the bad synastric Mercury aspects! His pMercury is sextile my nAsc (app) My pVenus trines his pVenus (applying) and I imagine this one will be pretty much forever since they have similar speeds. Since I currently have a pVenus conj pNN and pValentine, his pVenus is trining those too. His pVenus is square my nChiron (ouch, it's exact right now - here we go, this is why it hurt quite a bit!) His pVenus app to sextile my nMars, nMoon, nNeptune and trine my nPluto and my nNN (3-4 deg orb), at a much later time it will trine nSaturn (pSaturn sooner as it's Rx) - if we were to marry I suppose this would be the timing for it.. I think it might be around the same time I'll have pSun conj nVenus, will have to check. His pSun will be conj my nJuno around that time too. My pMars is conj his nLust (sep) and nPOF, as well as quincunx n/pUranus (partile) His pMars trine my nJuno (app) My pAsc is conj his nDC (applying by 2 if I use the rectified chart that puts his Asc in 12 Virgo and is consistent with his divorce time frame). His rectified pAsc is conjunct my nSun (partile, applying) - if I use the TOB he gave me it's applying by 2. Kind of a bittersweet bunch.. I like the DW pMoon-nVertex especially since the FMC wasn't long ago, kinda cool for a meeting to be facilitated by those. I rectified his chart to Asc 12 Virgo because it puts SA Asc conj nUranus at the time of divorce, and pAsc opp nChiron. Sadly, pChiron has progressed 1.5 deg since natal position, so it's not yet over, it explains why it will be dragging on in court some time to go (the custody appeal and division of goods) and why he won't be healing any time soon. Good to know.. What do you guys think overall? ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1993 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 27, 2014 08:09 PM
quote: I have a colleague who seems to have a particular liking for me. He is married with children, so nothing romantic, nevertheless I couldn`t help noticing that he seems to be really attentive towards me and how his eyes always lighten up when he sees me.
Sun-Venus, easy. quote: his p Venus conjunct my p Sun 0.07a
^^It's not as exotic as asteroids/sabians/harmonics, but it's still a every powerful aspect. Least we forget, the Sun is the most attractive thing in our "Solar" system, EVERYTHING gravitate around it. For me, this is why you felt comfortable spending time with him outside of a professional setting. Sun-Venus is very social. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1993 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 27, 2014 08:32 PM
quote: I just feel I am missing something vital here. It is like I am looking at a picture and I know it is there, but despite looking at it, I can`t quite grasp it, you know?
I'm not quite sure about Psyche & Eros, so I can't say there is a pattern with 25.6 Capricorn. However, if I remember correctly you're experiencing a Sun-Moon in a 4th harmonic aspect. In my research, this often points to relationship formation. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 506 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 27, 2014 10:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: No, in fact I was there before him, and we are equal colleagues, yes.
Good, good. Otherwise, ohhhh, these things can get out-of-hand. Jobs can be lost. Reputations ruined. Bad things. IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1673 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 27, 2014 10:52 PM
quote: Least we forget, the Sun is the most attractive thing in our "Solar" system, EVERYTHING gravitate around it.
Great reminder! IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1993 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2014 09:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by mir: Great reminder!
Thx, Mir. Recently I read that the Asc is as vital as the Sun. I'm finding this to be true. I easily/effortlessly attract people whose Venus conjuncts either Sun or Asc. A colleague recently got married after their pVenus conj nAsc. Looking at my progressed synastry, I've noticed through the years I've progressively/sequentially attracted people whose Sun I touch with my pSun, and separately with my pAsc. If the Asc is unknown, this may be a way to gauge what it may be by looking at the signs you attract in a progressive manner. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 12:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Thx, Mir.Recently I read that the Asc is as vital as the Sun. I'm finding this to be true. I easily/effortlessly attract people whose Venus conjuncts either Sun or Asc. A colleague recently got married after their pVenus conj nAsc. Looking at my progressed synastry, I've noticed through the years I've progressively/sequentially attracted people whose Sun I touch with my pSun, and separately with my pAsc. If the Asc is unknown, this may be a way to gauge what it may be by looking at the signs you attract in a progressive manner.
I have come to wonder and muse in the last months, if we might underestimate the power of the Sun, including Sun-Sun or Sun-ASC aspects. in the case of this colleague, I think he might have been trying to get closer to me when we originally met, which was about 7 years ago, and even then we had Sun-Venus-progressions.lol, as I remember he was repeatedly asking me to join him and sometimes a smaller group for lunch. Anyway, I didn`t quite get it back then, and well was very unapproachable and defensive, and also not really interested romantically (which I still am not), and he eventually met his future wife and married her. Still we have a rather good rapport, and even though there is nothing romantic between us, I can see how the Sun-Venus-progression makes us just enjoying each other`s company (though he seems to seek out mine more than I do) and it makes us very cooperative, which is a decided plus for a work relation. BTW Leeloo, do you want to guess which sun sign he has?
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Tulipe Knowflake Posts: 1582 From: France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 28, 2014 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: BTW Leeloo, do you want to guess which sun sign he has?
He must be an Aqua guy ------------------ what goes up must come down, so when you're feeling down, the only way to be is up IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 8715 From: Mordor Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 28, 2014 02:11 PM
Ceri, how could you not recognize your soulmate?! ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 6530 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 28, 2014 02:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Tulipe: He must be an Aqua guy
Really, Ceri? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 02:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Really, Ceri?
Indeed. Sun on 9 Aquarius Mercury on 22 Aquarius conj. Jupiter on 20 Aqua Venus on 00 Aquarius Too bad he never was my romantic type and just simply didn`t do it for me, not even when we were both single.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 02:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Ceri, how could you not recognize your soulmate?!
Nope sorry. No soulmate this time. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1993 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2014 02:40 PM
Sun conj Moon, another oldie but goodie.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Sun conj Moon, another oldie but goodie.
Well, we don`t have Sun conjunct Moon, they are just in the same sign. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1993 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2014 02:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Well, we don`t have Sun conjunct Moon, they are just in the same sign.
Yet, here you are in a Sun-Moon pairing. Curious. I'm not always a stickler for orb rules. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 03:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: I'm not always a stickler for orb rules.
Well, I am. However, we do have of course Sun-Moon-progressions nevertheless. As my secondary progressed Moon will eventually oppose his natal Sun, even though it is still some months away, and I saw that my tertiary progressed Moon will also oppose his natal Sun, next month. IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1673 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2014 03:48 PM
^ Ceri.. your pVenus/pSun conjunction with this guy must have been already in orb 7 years ago, not? I mean.. pSun/pVenus usually (can) take(s) a decade for 2 degrees to pass!
quote: Recently I read that the Asc is as vital as the Sun. I'm finding this to be true. I easily/effortlessly attract people whose Venus conjuncts either Sun or Asc.A colleague recently got married after their pVenus conj nAsc. Looking at my progressed synastry, I've noticed through the years I've progressively/sequentially attracted people whose Sun I touch with my pSun, and separately with my pAsc. If the Asc is unknown, this may be a way to gauge what it may be by looking at the signs you attract in a progressive manner.
Wow! Well then it's finally time to share my progressed synastry with the guy I had the MOST erotic/tantric experiences of-my-life with! (not comparable with *ANY-thing* before ~ I even discovered I'm not-at-all an A~sexual (or frigid or so) u know haha.. and with that my own sexuality! - I was even thinking afterwards; I'm the very *MOST* sensual/sexual being on this entire plane! And something like; well.. so those A-sexuals *MIGHT* be the figurehead for *SENSUALITY* underneath ~ without even knowing it themselves!.. etc etc. yeayea.. u get me! Ok, apart from the probable cause; verry strong Venus/Mars/Mars/NN/NN/SN/SN clash synastry/geometry... (and yea our true liliths *exactly* conjunct Ceri ); My progressed VENUS applying conjunct to his natal ASC by only some minutes! (0'18 or so) ^ his birth-time was completely SURE to-the-minute! Well, that's ^ ALL we had... ;D No biggies furthermore.. no biggies to expect either.. nothing! BUT.. it was enough to be temporarily completely obsessed by the guy... AND ofcourse to experience such .. (yea well I can find no more words .. words are simply a poor construction of it all..) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 15497 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 28, 2014 04:13 PM
"Ceri.. your pVenus/pSun conjunction with this guy must have been already in orb 7 years ago, not? I mean.. pSun/pVenus usually (can) take(s) a decade for 2 degrees to pass!"Actually there was even more. my p Sun 29.40 Cap his n Venus 29.58 Cap my p Sun 29.40 Cap his p Venus 2.23 Aquarius since his Venus had just turned direct her speed was so slow that my p Sun actually could pass her. "Wow! Well then it's finally time to share my progressed synastry with the guy I had the MOST erotic/tantric experiences of-my-life with!" WOW! I second that. "and yea our true liliths *exactly* conjunct Ceri );" True LIlith is not shy when it is about breaking taboos, totally smashing your ideas you had about yourself, esp. in relationship terms, she is not very good at compromise, but demands the truth, no matter that it sometimes means you have to totally shift yuor perspective. And well, you know, I have the opposition between true Liliths, and it is rather intense. lol "My progressed VENUS applying conjunct to his natal ASC by only some minutes! (0'18 or so)" That sounds very attractive to me. Of course if that is all there is, it usually is not enough, but for the initial spark to ignite, definitely on the plus side. "BUT.. it was enough to be temporarily completely obsessed by the guy." How much was Veus separating when you stopped being obsessed? IP: Logged | |