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Topic: Arranged Marriage. Want to know if we are compatible. Charts provided.
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noorie
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 03, 2014 10:55 AM
  
Hi contributors,
I am new to this forum. I came to this site because I always liked Linda and her writings.Coming to my request for personal readings, let me tell a bit abt myself. I am an Indian origin settled in abroad since almost a decade. My life until now has been with ups and downs, mostly downs i wud say. I have faced humiliations, felt degraded among my relatives. Hence, I always felt isolated even when so many people were around me. I never had been in a relationship because I am from dysfunctional family (as my parents dont get along, my dad and brother dont get along), I have always seen them quarrelling. I hardly remember the last time I enjoyed my life fully. But, inspite of all these I tried to stay strong, stay happy but I think sometimes I fail to do so and I start feeling low. This matrimonial alliance actually came a month ago through a relative. I met him twice and spoke a few times on phone. He seems to be very careful and cautious while speaking expresses his interests but the problem is with me I am not able to be open to him, not able to share anything. And he did kind of said that I am speaking very less. I know I am supposed to but since all these years (even now) I had lot of tensions/stress at home and staying abroad I loose connection with all my near ones, I am falling short of words to speak to him. What my main concern was that will we be happy together? How are we both compatible? I am not scared of adjustments but scared of heartbreaks. I know every marriage has ups and downs but, I wanted to know If I am the one who will be more problematic in this relation. then i will control myself. What is his personality like, in aspect of mentality, relationship, physical relationship? Synatry his chart outside 
composite with his chart  Thank you IP: Logged |
astra7
Newflake Posts: 20
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 03, 2014 11:53 AM
Can you post a synastry and composite chart?IP: Logged |
noorie
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 04, 2014 01:22 AM
hi thank you for suggesting. i have posted the charts
awaiting for replies
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noorie
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 04, 2014 10:55 AM
any inputs?IP: Logged |
mir
Knowflake Posts: 1702
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 04, 2014 12:00 PM
Hai Noori,I'm always a bit hesitant to say this and I'm not familiar with arranged marriages but I will be honest to you. I had a deep look at your progressed synastry together (which shows the [future] potential) but I come up with a very clear "NO - don't". I only see upcoming Venus squares - without anything nice/better to compensate - for the (near) future which doesn't bode well. I can only say now, take a deep look within yourself; do you really want to marry this guy? If you're completely sure, then ofcourse, just leave my advice for what it is. But if not, then don't. You'll get better chances and there's a nice upcoming Sun/Venus conjunction for you wich will reach its peak in the spring of 2017. With this guy it will then be exactly square his progressed Sun. To me that says that he'll keep you from reaching your own full potential. The squares point to too much tension and obstacles unfortunately. IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 2499
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 04, 2014 02:29 PM
This guy might appear like an escape route from your present circumstances - offering you a change in status, independence from your family and even a voice of your own. But these are very important goals which must be accomplished first before you embark upon building a healthy relationship. Trying to build a relationship with a man who is a veritable stranger while you also wish to be saved from the life you find yourself trapped in is a no-goer. Could I ask if you are studying or working? Life in Canada must offer other avenues for you to explore, to find your independence through your work perhaps. You need to feel secure within yourself, that is establish a sense of your own self-worth before you begin to negotiate your path through a relationship. IP: Logged |
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