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Lavender CrystalSwan
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posted October 11, 2014 12:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For those of you who have been following with my story and are aware of my situation lol, you may know about a certain someone who I refer to as "Virgo guy".
Well finally after 6 years of hiding under a rock, Im gonna take the next step forward...

There is an annual event pertaining to my job that takes place every year in different countries. This year it was held where I'm located, but I didn't get a chance to go. I was really upset that I missed it, but I told myself that no matter where it is held next year, I'll be on the next flight there lol. Its really important for me in regards to my career.

So now I find out that next year it will be held in his city, which is only a 2 hour flight from where I live. Lol.
I'm a little nervous cause it'll be my first time travelling alone out of country. But I'm excited for it.

I'm not specifically going there to see him, although I would like that to happen, definitely. But I'm not going to make that my main focus. Im going for the event and to enjoy myself. I feel I need this mini vacation.
But if I were to bump into him then that would be like the cherry on top lol. I'm not scared of meeting him anymore. I feel I'm ready. Its time.


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posted October 11, 2014 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good luck! :big hugs:

I know a lot of people don't 'get' what it's like to finally meet someone who's 'been with you' for years before you ever met. But I do. Ohhhhh, do I.

I've been listening to Duran Duran's 'Out of My Mind' a lot today. You ought to.

Sometimes the only way to get them out of our heads is to get them into our lives!

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posted October 11, 2014 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are the transits happening for the event.

(Disregard the Moon and angles for the chart cause I'll be there for 4 days so theres no specific timing).

Interesting that Eros and Psyche will be in the same sign as well as Osiris and Isis.
But there will be an exact parallel between Osiris/Isis.

Tr. Sun will conjunct my n. Desc-ruler 2'
Tr. Venus-Mercury will conjunct my n. Desc 0-1'
Tr. Juno-Isis will conjunct my n. Asc 0-1'
Tr. Union will conjunct my n. Juno 0'
Tr. Psyche will conjunct my Saturn 0' (Desc co-ruler) and oppose my Sun 0'

Tr. Juno-Isis will oppose his n. Vertex 0'
Tr. Venus-Mercury will conjunct his n. Vertex 0-1' and square his Pluto 1'
Tr. NN will conjunct his n. Venus 3'
Tr. Saturn will conjunct his n. IC 0'
Tr. Psyche will conjunct his Desc 0' and oppose his Sun 0'

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posted October 11, 2014 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 11, 2014 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like the EROS/PSYCHE and ISIS/OSIRIS stellia! Very nice!

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Lavender CrystalSwan
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posted October 11, 2014 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Good luck! :big hugs:

I know a lot of people don't 'get' what it's like to finally meet someone who's 'been with you' for years before you ever met. But I do. Ohhhhh, do I.

I've been listening to Duran Duran's 'Out of My Mind' a lot today. You ought to.

Sometimes the only way to get them out of our heads is to get them into our lives!


Aww thank you Auby

Haha yes. Well its comforting that atleast you and a few others here do get it
Its nice to know were all nuts here together.

And I so agree with you. Sometimes you realize that enough is enough and you just gotta do something about it, eventually lol.

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posted October 11, 2014 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll be back with the progressions and solar return charts.

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posted October 11, 2014 07:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I totally keep my fingers crossed for you.

Is there any possibility he might be, I don`t know,visiting the event, too, as a guest maybe?
I mean could something like that be arranged?

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posted October 11, 2014 08:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruden123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone should sing little mermaid sabastian's "kiss the girl" when you meet him

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posted October 11, 2014 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's great news Lavender! I'm so excited for you and can't wait to hear how it goes!! 💙

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Lavender CrystalSwan
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posted October 14, 2014 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your all sweet words everyone.

Ceri,

Yeah its possible that he could be there. Its a very Venusian event and he loves gatherings like that. Venus/Mercury in Libra lol
They're planning a tour for next year as well so who knows, maybe he will visit with his makeup artist to get some inspiration for stage makeup? LOL

If he doesn't attend there's still a chance I may see him somewhere. I'll be there for about 3-4 days anyway.
But I won't obsess over it lol. If we meet then yay, if not then still yay, there will be more times ahead lol. Thats why I'm trying to use astrology to find out

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posted October 14, 2014 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ruden123:
Someone should sing little mermaid sabastian's "kiss the girl" when you meet him

Hahaha

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posted October 14, 2014 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok so I had a look at our progression/solar returns and compared them to our natals.
There was a lot of significant stuff I found happening in January involving Venus, the angles/angle rulers, the 5th & 8th house rulers. But its too much of a long list and I don't wanna bore you guys lol, so I'll share some of the ones that especially made me go

Overall I noticed a strong theme of Venus-Mars greatly highlighted for us. Could this mean an artistic collaboration of sorts or a meetup at a Venusian event? Or does it only entail the obvious, sexual, fluffy stuff? Geez :/ Idk how I feel about that during a first meeting. Please tell me it can mean other things too.

Oh and a funny DW/mirroring I noticed was:
his Pr. Venus/Mars mp conjunct my n. Venus
my Pr. Venus/Mars mp conjunct his n. Mars


For me, in my progressions I'll have:

pr. Mars square n. Venus 1' a
pr. Venus trine n. Mars 1' s
pr. Venus conjunct n. Jupiter 0' s
pr. Asc conjunct n. Venus/Mars mp 1' a
pr. Part of Fortune conjunct n. Desc 0' a
pr. Juno conjunct n. Jupiter 2' a


He'll have:

pr. Sun conjunct n. Juno 1' s
pr. Sun conjunct n. Venus/Mars mp 1' s
pr. Venus sextile n. Mars 1' a
pr. Venus conjunct n. Pluto 2' s
pr. Jupiter square n. Juno 2' s
pr. Chiron square n. Venus 0' a
pr. Valentine conjunct n. Venus/Mars mp 0' s
pr. Union conjunct n. Venus/Mars mp 0' s


Progressed Synastry:

his pr. Jupiter trine my pr. Venus 0' a
his pr. Venus conjunct my pr. Jupiter 3' s
his pr. Venus quincunx my pr. Moon 1' a
his pr. Venus conjunct my pr. NN 0' s
his pr. Venus trine my pr. Chiron 0' a
his pr. Venus/Mars mp conjunct my pr. Mercury 1' s
his pr. Saturn trine my pr. Venus 2' a
his pr. Neptune trine my pr. Venus 0' a
his pr. Pluto conjunct my pr. Venus 3' a
his pr. Moon square my pr. Pluto 0' s


Progressed - Natal Synastry:

my pr. ASC/DESC square his n. IC 1' a
my pr. Moon opposite his n. Venus 1' a
my pr. Venus conjunct his n. Pluto 2' a
my pr. Venus/Mars mp conjunct his n. Mars 1' a
my pr. Vertex square his natal Venus 0' a

his pr. ASC square my n. Vertex 0' s
his pr. IC conjunct my n. Vertex 1' a
his pr. Venus/Mars mp conjunct my n. Venus 1' s
his pr. Venus conjunct my n. NN 1' a
his pr. Moon square my n. Pluto 0' s
his pr. Vertex opposite my n. Mercury 2' a

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posted October 14, 2014 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love our solar returns even more.

*I should mention that because we share the same birthday (different years), our Solar return charts are almost identical, but the Moon and angles are different.

I'll start with the synastry first cause its the most exciting lol

my Sr. ASC conjunct his Sr. DESC 4' (too wide though but still in the same sign)
my Sr. Moon conjunct his Sr. DESC 2'

my Sr. ASC conjunct his n. Pluto 2'
my Sr. IC conjunct his n. NN 3'
my Sr. Vertex conjunct his n. Jupiter (DESC co-ruler)1'

his Sr. DESC conjunct my n. NN 2'
his Sr. Moon conjunct my n. Pluto 1'
his Sr. Vertex conjunct my n. Venus 0'

our Sr. Mars conjunct his Sr. DESC 1'
our Sr. Saturn conjunct his Sr. DESC 1'
our Sr. NN conjunct his Sr. Vertex 3'

our Sr. Venus conjunct his n. SN 1'
our Sr. Mars conjunct my n. Pluto 3'
our Sr. Uranus opposite his n. Venus 0'
our Sr. NN conjunct his n. Venus 3'


In my SR:

Moon conjunct ASC 2' a
Venus conjunct MC 1' a
Venus (DESC ruler) square Mars (ASC co-ruler) 2' s
Saturn conjunct ASC 2' a

Sr. ASC square n. ASC 1' a (which means its also conjunct the midpoint of my n. Asc/Desc)
Sr. ASC conjunct n. NN 1' a
Sr. Moon conjunct n. NN 0' s
Sr. Sun semi-square n. Venus 0' a
Sr. Venus semi-square n. Moon 0' s
Sr. Venus sextile n. Venus 0' a
Sr. Venus semi-square n. Mars 0' a
Sr. Venus square n. Pluto 1' a
Sr. Valentine conjunct n. Asc 1'


In his SR:

Moon square Venus 0' a
Moon conjunct DESC 3' a
Mars (DESC co-ruler) conjunct DESC 1' a
Venus (ASC ruler) square Mars (DESC co-ruler) 2' s
Mars (DESC co-ruler) conjunct Moon 1' s
Saturn conjunct DESC 1' s
Vertex conjunct NN 3' a

Sr. ASC trine n. Moon 0' s
Sr. ASC trine n. Mars 1' s
Sr. Venus conjunct n. SN 1' a
Sr. Venus sesquiquadrate n. Neptune (DESC ruler) 0' a
Sr. Uranus opposite n. Venus 0' s
Sr. Neptune conjunct n. DESC 2' s
Sr. NN conjunct n. Venus 3' s
Sr. Pluto (Sr. DESC ruler) conjunct n. Neptune (n. DESC ruler) 1' a
Sr. Psyche square n. Eros 1' a

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posted October 14, 2014 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he will have an applying New Moon from progressed to natal, exact in january 2016, which of course will also pass over his ASC. So for him the period leading up to this should be very important in terms of relationships.
Moon rules his 11th house, so it has to do with the reception of love I guess, how he receives and returns love.

Of course the progressed Moon touching natal planets is a quick mover, so it will not last as long, but it usually is a good timing tool anyway.

In may 2018 he is going to have the New Moon in progressions, on 6 Libra, right on his chartruler Mercury - so I`d say he is definitely coming into a relationship-prone phase. Possibly the date of 2018 might even be stronger.
Especially with p Mars also being on 6 Libra.


the square to saturn might put some brakes into this, however Saturn rules his 5th house, so it could also relate to a serious love affair.
Especially with Jupiter, traditional DESC-ruler, being part of the parcel as well. And actually the progressed New Moon plus Mars and the natal chartruler happen to fall onto the midpoint of 5th/7th ruler.
New developments in relationship is decidedly a possibility for him in that time period, 2018 mainly.


you on the othr hand are not in a Sun-Moon-relational cycle, at least not on first glance, as we are using 4th harmonic aspects. However I wonder if that antiscion of p Moon to n Sun, or the aplying sesisquare of p Moon to n Sun might make up for that.
I am not sure yet, we need to keep an eye on that though.


You are in a Venus-Mars-cycle though, as your p Mars is applying to square with your n Venus. Mars is a slow one to build though, having come into 2 degree orb this october. So just NOW.

It will peak in March 2018.

You are also going to have a p Venus-Jupiter-conjunction - it is fascinating HOW often that one comes up! And especially if Jupiter rules an angle (for you he rules pDESC - I think that counts though plus ruling n 5th house, so definitely romance-related Jupiter here)


Of course in the current timeframe you have a separating trine of pVenus and n Mars, leading right into the pMars-square-n-Venus phase.


The only thing that makes me wonder is that you donīt have either natal or progressed planets on 6 Libra.
If you have something to do with the major relationship-development in his life, you should connect to that New Moon of his (and he to your Venus-Mars-cycle).

however. your Moon is on 8 Cancer, just 2 degrees of a square and his Sun and Mars are progressing to the exact square, though it will take some time, 2 years after his 2018 New Moon, but 2 degree orb is valid, so it might fit afterall.


However he does not connect to your pMars-n-Venus-cycle at all.
He does not link to your pVenus-Jupiter-either, unless we count Pluto. Maybe it counts. I`d like to see more personal planets in play here, though, or relationship rulers, which Pluto is not for him.

However somewhen between 2015 and 2018 your p Venus must have been trine his p Jupiter, right?
Jupiter rules both of your DESC, his n and your p I think. So it is an interesting link there.

eDIT
If I see it right, you will also have an ASC-ASC and ASC-Sun link through progressions. I suppose if these come into one degree orb applying up to exact, these will be indeed windows of opportunity to meet

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posted October 14, 2014 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ceri,
Thank you so much for taking the time to look at our charts.

"The only thing that makes me wonder is that you donīt have either natal or progressed planets on 6 Libra.
If you have something to do with the major relationship-development in his life, you should connect to that New Moon of his (and he to your Venus-Mars-cycle)."

I have my Moon's duad on Libra 8 if thats of any significance. As well as my Mercury's antiscon on 5 Libra.

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posted October 14, 2014 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don`t think the Duad of a sign is "enough". However I am certainly not ruling out the antiscion, that might work, especially together with your Moon on 8 Cancer, which is still in orb.

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posted October 14, 2014 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I don`t think the Duad of a sign is "enough". However I am certainly not ruling out the antiscion, that might work, especially together with your Moon on 8 Cancer, which is still in orb.

Makes sense, thanks.

How likely will you say are the chances though that I meet him this coming winter? Very slim then huh

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posted October 14, 2014 06:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Apart from the method you used, I also suggest a progressed composite/Davison with transits and a comparison between the progressed composites and your composite/Davison and your natals to see if a meeting is suggested. An alignment of Vertices with something, Vertex nodes (if you have exact TOBs), planets on angles, more than one aspect in this respect (a complex of aspects, DWs) may suggest a possible meeting. If the aspects go both sides, both people will take part in the meeting. if the aspects are unilateral, the aspected person will meed the other from a distance - like seeing them from a distance.

If you have dates for actual events, these are even more revealing - comparing the event chart with the permanent charts will show if a possible meeting is likely.

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posted October 14, 2014 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Apart from the method you used, I also suggest a progressed composite/Davison with transits and a comparison between the progressed composites and your composite/Davison and your natals to see if a meeting is suggested. An alignment of Vertices with something, Vertex nodes (if you have exact TOBs), planets on angles, more than one aspect in this respect (a complex of aspects, DWs) may suggest a possible meeting. If the aspects go both sides, both people will take part in the meeting. if the aspects are unilateral, the aspected person will meed the other from a distance - like seeing them from a distance.

If you have dates for actual events, these are even more revealing - comparing the event chart with the permanent charts will show if a possible meeting is likely.


I hadn't thought of that, thanks for suggesting Leeloo

Btw I was able to find out the exact timing of the event so the angles and Moon are corrected now.

Event chart:


Natal composite:


Progressed composite:


Davision:

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posted October 14, 2014 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some stuff I noticed off the bat:

Event chart Mercury: Aquarius 15°44
Event chart Venus: Aquarius 17°04
My n. DESC: Aquarius 14°20
His n. Vertex: Aquarius 13°48
Davison Moon: Aquarius 14°20
Davison Venus: Aquarius 15°16
(Progressed Composite Vertex: Aquarius 19°13)
Natal Composite Moon: Leo 13°46
Natal Composite Mars: Leo 1 3°57

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Event chart DESC: Virgo 27°50
Event chart Vertex: Virgo 29°04
My n. Mercury: Virgo 24°48
My Pr. Sun: Virgo 28°06
His Pr. Mercury: Libra 0°04
Davison Mercury:Pisces 27°01
Progressed Composite Sun: Libra 0°46
Natal Composite Mercury: Libra 0°15


Lol one can wish.

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posted October 14, 2014 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you also post both synastries with the event (your natal inside, the event outside, no orb reduction) Vertex, Juno, Pholus, Karma included?

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posted October 14, 2014 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Could you also post both synastries with the event (your natal inside, the event outside, no orb reduction) Vertex, Juno, Pholus, Karma included?


Event synastry with my natal


Event synastry with his natal

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posted October 14, 2014 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lavender,

Honestly, I think you ARE ready (for a relationship to begin) with the pVENUS trine nMARS, and pMARS square nVENUS. I like his pVENUS sextile nMARS, but what I'm seeing here that's missing is the pSUN or nSUN. In my experience, that tends to be present when a relationship begins.

Do either of you have pVENUS to nSUN or pSUN to nVENUS anytime soon?

When my relationship began with my Guardian Soul, he had pSUN conjunct nVENUS, and I had pVENUS conjunct nSUN -- exact degrees -- applying. The kicker was my pVENUS is also 2š applying to his nMARS.

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posted October 14, 2014 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lavender,

Honestly, I think you ARE ready, for a relationship to begin, with the pVENUS trine nMARS, and pMARS square nVENUS. I like his pVENUS sextile nMARS, but what I'm seeing here that's missing is the pSUN or nSUN. In my experience, that tends to be present when a relationship begins.

Do either of you have pVENUS to nSUN or pSUN to nVENUS anytime soon?

When my relationship began with my Guardian Soul, he had pSUN conjunct nVENUS, and I had pVENUS conjunct nSUN -- exact degrees -- applying. The kicker was my pVENUS is also 2š applying to his nMARS.


Yes, but I didn't list them since they were minor aspects.

I'll have my Pr. Venus sextile n. Sun 1' s and he'll have Pr. Venus semisquare Pr. Sun 2' a

I feel ready too.

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