posted October 17, 2014 05:39 PM
The Sun is the ego. The use of the word ego means the central core of the person. The Moon is one’s deepest emotions. This is quite different. Hence, the Sun is more outer oriented. More people will identify one by one’s Sun than any other planet. This is due to the fact that the Sun is always the most important planet in the chart. The Moon would be second.In a synastry, one would not want colliding of Suns. If this were the case, there would be power plays. On the upside, different Suns provide different point of views and a very different lens for looking at life. This can be marvelous in friendships but may be a minefield in marriage.
To conceptualize the Sun further, think of a bull charging. He is bringing all that he is as he charges toward his goal. That majestic animal could symbolize the Sun. The Sun is the planet that would be “all that we are”. Hence, in relationships, the Sun has great importance. Let’s look at the Sun in synastry and I hope it will become clearer.
Unaspected Sun of one Person to the Other Person
If I see this, I say the relationship is a “no go”. If I see the Moon Unaspected to the chart of the other person, I say the relationship is a “no go”. In some relationships, people do not choose with whom they interact. This would be the case in parent/child, boss/employee, neighbor/neighbor etc. In such cases, I would advise people not to expect emotional closeness. There will be a lack of understanding between the two people. It is the nature of the charts. This lack of simpatico cannot be overcome, in my opinion
Sun Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
The first three are positive. A Sun conjunction in synastry would be, almost, like twins. There would be little need for explanation, as to the motivations of each person. The Sun trines and sextiles would make for an easy flow between the two people. Think of two room mates who live together for years and rarely fight. That would be the Trine and the Sextile. The opposition would make for different world views. This is wonderful in friends but may be hard in a significant other relationship. The Sun squares would not be positive. I envision it as locked egos such as when an argument gets polarized and neither side will budge. I am not saying that people cannot be in relationships with squared Suns, but I imagine there would have to be compensating factors such as Moon trine Moon, for example.
Sun/Moon Conjunctions, Trines,Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Moon in positive aspect( Conj,Trine and Sextile) is a classic best friend’s aspect. The ego of the Sun person bonds with the heart of the Moon person. The Sun person may be the leader. The Moon person may be like a beloved child, just to get a sense of a feel for this aspect. The Sun person may feel protective of the Moon person. The Moon person may look up to the Sun person. The conjunction is, always, the strongest, with the trine second and then the sextile. Best Friend aspects are not soul mate aspects.Soul mate aspects are Moon aspects. Best friend aspects are marvelous. However, in a long term relationship, there may still be an emptiness.
The Sun/Moon opposition may be fine for a friendship but I think that in a long term aspect, it may make for quite a bit of friction. There may be a sense that one cannot really fathom the other person. Sun/Moon squares would be the hardest of all. There may be a locked in feeling between the two the way that exists in international relations with the detente.
Sun/Mercury Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Mercury is the planet of the mind. Sun/Mercury involves the ego of one person relating to the mind of the other. Some conjunctions are negative. Some are positive. With this, it is very, very positive. There will be a mental bonding between the two people. The conjunction would be perfect for business partners, teacher/student or in any situation in which the mind of one person needs to relate to the ego of the other. With the trine and sextile, the same applies.
With the opposition and square, there may be a discordant relationship between the two people. Think of a supervisor who simply does not like an employee. The supervisor’s Sun may be square to the employee’s Mercury. Through no fault of either person, there would be a sense of disharmony, which would, probably, be more of a dislike. Neither would understand why. If one could check the charts, the answer would be apparent.
Sun/Venus Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Venus Conjunction makes for a mutual love. The Sun person finds the Venus person pleasing. Venus is not a sexual planet, per se, but more of “liking the way of the person”. The Sun/Venus in trine and sextile act in a similar way as the conjunction. This is not the case in all conjunctions but it is with Venus/Sun.
Sun oppose Venus may result in an opposites attract. I would not like Sun square Venus. This may make for a dislike of the mannerisms of the Venus person by the Sun person. The Venus person may not feel the Sun person acts in a seemly or dignified manner.
Sun/Mars Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Mars in conjunction is not positive. It is an aspect of contention. The Mars person may be aggressive toward the Sun person. The Sun person may feel a visceral dislike to the Mars person. In this case, the conjunction is not positive. However, trines and sextiles are, always, positive. With the Trine and Sextile, the Mars person appreciates the ego of the Sun person. The Sun person respects the drive of the Mars person. Sun/Mars is not a sexual or romantic aspect, per se. It is more of a business relationship or platonic aspect. Mars square Sun may make for an instant dislike. The Mars person would be the likely one fomenting the dislike. However, if the Mars person was aggressive enough to the Sun person, the Sun person would respond with dislike of his own. Usually, the Mars person is the aggressor in theses cases.
Sun/Saturn Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Saturn in conjunction is not really a positive aspect. The Saturn will want to be parental to the Sun. The Sun will want to lash out against the Saturn person. This aspect can exist in a synastry which has other positive bonding aspects BUT the parent/child dynamic it will be a factor in the relationship. Saturn in Trine or Sextile makes for a grounding in the relationship. It can provide for a glue such as when people stay best friends for life. The Saturn will be more of the parental figure. The opposition and the square may make for an unhappy “parent/child” relationship in which the child wants to run away from home and the parent bemoans the day he fathered the child, so to speak.
Sun/Jupiter Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun conjunct Jupiter is very positive. The Jupiter person brings joy and optimism to the Sun person. The Sun person has a warm, liking for the Jupiter person. The Trines and Sextiles operate in the same way. With the oppositions and the squares, the Jupiter person may be too rash and too extravagant for the Sun person. The Jupiter person may want to gamble away thousands of dollars. The Sun person will be the stabilizing force to stop him. That is the nature of Jupiter in opposition and square.
Sun/Neptune Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Neptune in conjunction is not positive. Neptune fogs and clouds what it touches. In the case of the conjunction, neither person would see the other for who he is. This may be a classic example of a relationship in which both people rue the day they met because at the end, they realize they never KNEW the other person. Neptune in conjunction, opposition or square in synastry poses a great risk for seeing the prince when he is really the frog. For Neptune in Trine and Sextile, there may be a lovely dreamy feeling to the relationship akin to feeling as if one is in a musical.
Sun/Uranus Conjunction, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Square
Sun/Uranus in conjunction is not really positive. Let me explain. It is a jarring aspect. It could be positive in a relationship in which one person jars the other out of his mediocrity, for example. However, for a long term relationship, I do not see it as positive. The Uranus person lights an electrical fire under the derriere of the Sun person. The Sun person may have to talk the Uranus person off the ledge. In the Trines and Sextile, the relationship would still be jarring but manageable. With the squares and oppositions, the relationship may not feel settled or stable.
Sun/Pluto Conjunctions, Trines, Sextiles, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Pluto in conjunction may be a positive aspect and may not. It would depend on the bonding in the rest of the chart. The Pluto person may try to control the Sun person. The Pluto person may see to the core of the Sun person. This does not have to be bad. It may be good. However, one would have to see how this power was used and that would depend on the rest of the chart. Pluto in Trine and Sextile would confer a primal connection which would be very nice. There would be a sense that one could share his primal core with the other. The Opposition and Square may spell power plays. Hence, unless the rest of the chart is very bonded, this relationship may not feel harmonious. It may be filled with power plays and one ups man ship.
Sun/Chiron Conjunction, Trines, Sextile, Oppositions and Squares
Sun/Chiron in conjunction is not favorable for long term success. Sun/Chiron is like Sun/Uranus in that it can be jarring and life changing. However, Sun/Chiron is harder than Sun/Uranus. Sun/Chiron great, great pain. The Chiron person brings the pain to the Sun person. The resulting pain, usually, defines the relationship. If this conjunction is in the natal chart, the person had severe abuse from the father. The person carries that pain through life. Chiron in Trine and Sextile may allow for the parties to deal with pain in a positive way. Chiron in Opposition and Square may undermine the relationship. Chiron is a very strange planet in synastry. The relationships starts as very intense but it’s intensity seems to be it’s death knell, as well. I have articles on Chiron in synastry, so I will refer you to those for more information. Chiron in Square and Opposition may make the relationship too painful to continue. In these cases, I would want to see very warm bonding aspects such as Moon trine Moon to infuse a balance. If not, I would not have much faith in the longevity of the relationship
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