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Topic: Help me out?
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ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 17, 2014 05:52 PM
  
Would anyone mind reading the chart for compatibility. Is there anything of great importance that stands out? Is a long term relationship possible with these two? Thank you in advance for the help. I read tarot if anyone wants me to pull some cards in exchange. Thanks!  IP: Logged |
libran_dream
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posted October 17, 2014 06:07 PM
Wow, yeah, lots of things. Can you tell us a little bit about the relationship, what are we looking at here? And whose chart is which?IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted October 17, 2014 06:09 PM
If you post composite chart I can tell you how good or bad the relationship will be..IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 17, 2014 06:16 PM
Red is female, myself. Blue is a man. It is a new relationship and it's very much taken me by surprise. I'm trying to figure some things out...see where it's going...why I feel like I do...am I walking into a fire or could it be a great thing? You know...being afraid and uncertain IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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posted October 17, 2014 06:22 PM
 Is that what you need or is that the wrong one? IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 17, 2014 09:15 PM
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Aubyanne
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posted October 17, 2014 10:23 PM
I say we all need at least one time a man's MARS conjoins our VENUS. Give it a go.I'm also intrigued by your MARS on his PLUTO; I have this, but in the reverse. For us, it's quite intense. We're extremely polite with each other -- but the intensity is still very much there. IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted October 18, 2014 12:33 AM
I'm not trying to be rude, but if you're still married, get a divorce. You can't have any chance of a serious relationship until you're single. I remember you from about a year ago, and I apologize if I'm wrong, and your situation has changed, but you can't find a worthwhile man if you're still married. Again apologies if you're now single, but I get the feeling you fear being alone, and are looking for a man before you leave. It's counterproductive, especially with kids.I loved your poetry by the way... You could have the world's best synastry, and my advice would be the same. IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 18, 2014 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I say we all need at least one time a man's MARS conjoins our VENUS. Give it a go.I'm also intrigued by your MARS on his PLUTO; I have this, but in the reverse. For us, it's quite intense. We're extremely polite with each other -- but the intensity is still very much there.
What does it mean that his Mars conjoins my venus? IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 18, 2014 12:56 AM
I've been separated for almost 8 months and our attorneys are working on finalizing the divorce, thank you for your concerns. He has moved on to a new relationship and I've been focused on my music career (most of my writing becomes song lyrics) and my children. I went back to school to finish up my MA and met this particular friend. Still studying astrology as well. I was just thinking today that I haven't posted any poetry on this site in some time. I should. Again, thanks for your concern. IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted October 18, 2014 01:27 AM
^I know divorce is difficult, but in order to truly start a new chapter, that chapter needed to be ended. It sounds like you're well on your way to a new beginning! That's amazing that your poems are being put to music as lyrics, you speak from the heart. I'm sure you have a lot of material to draw from! I didn't look too much into the charts, but your Venus as a woman smack dab on a man's Mars=SEXY. You're close in age, so there are many contacts, but that aspect pretty much ensures sexual attraction....in the ME Tarzan YOU Jane kind of way. Very primal!
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted October 18, 2014 04:59 AM
It's a very nice synastry. Could you post the composite as well (from astro.com)?------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 18, 2014 05:30 AM
 Here is the composite chart IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 18, 2014 03:56 PM
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ProudLeo
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posted October 19, 2014 01:42 PM
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astra7
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posted October 19, 2014 03:27 PM
Your Sun is on his Asc which gives him that warm feeling.Mars-Pluto and Mars-Venus conjunction, Venus sextile Mars (DW) gives you HOT sexual attraction. Not so keen on Saturn sq Venus or Saturn conj. Moon. As for composite....Saturn on the Asc? To me, this seems like a short relationship than a long term meaningful relationships. HOT sex, yes! Just seems substance is missing. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted October 19, 2014 03:32 PM
Why Saturn on comp ASC short? I'd like to know your opinion.I thought this aspect gives a difficulty in getting together, once together very stable OR not getting together at all. ------------------
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astra7
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posted October 19, 2014 03:44 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Why Saturn on comp ASC short? I'd like to know your opinion.I thought this aspect gives a difficulty in getting together, once together very stable OR not getting together at all.
Saturn on Asc is difficulty/heavy so unless there are many good aspects to sustain it (not just sexual attraction aspects), then if they get together, may be the couple would not have sustainable energy to carry on after the initial sexual attraction diminishes. I know There are a couple of Saturn contacts in the synastry but Sq and conj. boths are hard aspects and not even reciprical harmonious DW aspects to counter balance it.Her Sun is on his Asc but he is not reciprocating from his side. Just overall, it seems slightly one sided. IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
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From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 19, 2014 04:28 PM
So one says it's a very good synastry and another says it's only sexual and it won't last. So what should I do...just cut him out if my life or should I be advised as to things to look for in the relationship, problems that might arise, things to avoid, things to do that would help? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted October 19, 2014 04:41 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:Saturn on Asc is difficulty/heavy so unless there are many good aspects to sustain it (not just sexual attraction aspects), then if they get together, may be the couple would not have sustainable energy to carry on after the initial sexual attraction diminishes. I know There are a couple of Saturn contacts in the synastry but Sq and conj. boths are hard aspects and not even reciprical harmonious DW aspects to counter balance it. Her Sun is on his Asc but he is not reciprocating from his side. Just overall, it seems slightly one sided. [/B]
I disagree.  Saturn IS sustainable energy, by definition. And hard aspects between luminaries and Saturn in synastry/composites is a common aspect in long term marriages. The problem with Saturn on comp ASC is that it may be difficult/delays in getting together or a restriction in getting together: the relationship never gets off the ground. But if the delay/obstacles are overcome, Saturn becomes like a rock, it's the guiding star of the chart. Hard to break.
ProudLeo, nothing to avoid, just live the relationship I'll try to explain some aspects for you when I have more time.
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astra7
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posted October 19, 2014 05:45 PM
I think if the couple shares prominent Saturn connection e.g. Cap Asc, Cap Sun or many Saturn aspects etc....then they are used to this energy and might handle it better. But this couple has nothing to do with Capricorn. They are both Leo, have nothing in Cap. I wonder how well dramatic Leos would handle the restriction of Saturn.I have seen Saturn-Moon conjuction marriage fail. I think harmonious aspects such as sextile or trine are better than hard aspects. Saturn becomes critical as time goes by and moon person would feel the coldness. IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 19, 2014 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by libran_dream:
Wow, yeah, lots of things. Can you tell us a little bit about the relationship, what are we looking at here? And whose chart is which?
What insight do you have after the information that's been presented? IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
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posted October 19, 2014 11:31 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I disagree. Saturn IS sustainable energy, by definition.And hard aspects between luminaries and Saturn in synastry/composites is a common aspect in long term marriages. The problem with Saturn on comp ASC is that it may be difficult/delays in getting together or a restriction in getting together: the relationship never gets off the ground. But if the delay/obstacles are overcome, Saturn becomes like a rock, it's the guiding star of the chart. Hard to break.
ProudLeo, nothing to avoid, just live the relationship I'll try to explain some aspects for you when I have more time.
Thank you so much. I would.really appreciate you explaining the aspects to me when you get a chance IP: Logged |
ProudLeo
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: Aubrey, Texas, 76227
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 20, 2014 01:33 AM
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astra7
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posted October 20, 2014 05:02 AM
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I disagree. Saturn IS sustainable energy, by definition.And hard aspects between luminaries and Saturn in synastry/composites is a common aspect in long term marriages. The problem with Saturn on comp ASC is that it may be difficult/delays in getting together or a restriction in getting together: the relationship never gets off the ground. But if the delay/obstacles are overcome, Saturn becomes like a rock, it's the guiding star of the chart. Hard to break.
ProudLeo, nothing to avoid, just live the relationship I'll try to explain some aspects for you when I have more time.
Yes I agree with you that Satun is sustainable and also I'll give you an example. A couple had moon-saturn conjunction but now divorced but what's binding them together is their children. One partner told me that if it wasn't for the children, the couple wouldn't in touch. So there you go that's binding but does not necessarily means a happy binding. However, I'd imagine easier aspects such as trine or sextile is much better OR if the couple have a hard aspect, need to be compensated by harmonious aspect from the other person which in the above case lacking.
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