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Topic: Mother/Daughter Synastry
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Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 22, 2014 03:57 AM
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KarmicMoon Knowflake Posts: 611 From: Moon, Milky Way Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 22, 2014 03:26 PM
Hi there,Just quickly looking at your synastry you have a lot of aspects creating tension and power struggles. Your Mars oppose her Mars Your Mars cj her SN (SN has a restraining influence on Mars which Mars doesn't like. Mars owes the SN a karmic debt.) Your Moon conjunct her Mars Your Pluto opposes her Mercury/Saturn/Venus. Pluto in opposition to Mercury=arguments Your Pluto conjuncts her Moon Your AC conjunct her Mars and NN Sun inconjunct Sun-you just don't "get" each other. You will have to make adjustments in order to understand where the other is coming from. That's a lot of Mars and Pluto. When these planets aspect our Moons it can sometimes feel uncomfortable. If this was a synastry with a romantic partner you'd be able to release some of that tension with a sexual outlet but with your Mom, no release of the tension except through arguing. You both have a lot of fixed sign placements, too, so neither of you are very flexible.
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Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 22, 2014 08:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarmicMoon: Hi there,Just quickly looking at your synastry you have a lot of aspects creating tension and power struggles. Your Mars oppose her Mars Your Mars cj her SN (SN has a restraining influence on Mars which Mars doesn't like. Mars owes the SN a karmic debt.) Your Moon conjunct her Mars Your Pluto opposes her Mercury/Saturn/Venus. Pluto in opposition to Mercury=arguments Your Pluto conjuncts her Moon Your AC conjunct her Mars and NN Sun inconjunct Sun-you just don't "get" each other. You will have to make adjustments in order to understand where the other is coming from. That's a lot of Mars and Pluto. When these planets aspect our Moons it can sometimes feel uncomfortable. If this was a synastry with a romantic partner you'd be able to release some of that tension with a sexual outlet but with your Mom, no release of the tension except through arguing. You both have a lot of fixed sign placements, too, so neither of you are very flexible.
Power struggles... that is true. We are both hot headed and too stubborn.
Thank you for answering.
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Heather Knowflake Posts: 41 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 22, 2014 08:46 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60021 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 22, 2014 08:57 PM
Welcome!You both have nessus conj the Suns( and yours is conjunct the NN making it even more pivotal for you) and this is quincunx. Watch out for violence with her! ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 2083 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 12:10 AM
BOTH NESSUS-SUN? Ohhh, gracious. And you're a MOON-PSYCHE ...I want to hug you. That's rough. Unstoppable force meets immovable object squared. IP: Logged |
Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 08:14 AM
aww I really appreciate all the honest replies!I will show her this thread and maybe it will help us understand each other more. IP: Logged |
Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 08:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: BOTH NESSUS-SUN? Ohhh, gracious. And you're a MOON-PSYCHE ...I want to hug you. That's rough. Unstoppable force meets immovable object squared.
what would Moon-Psyche indicate? It also conjuncts my Asc. I can just FEEL its importance but I'm not sure what it means?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60021 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 23, 2014 08:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Down The Rabbit Hole: aww I really appreciate all the honest replies!I will show her this thread and maybe it will help us understand each other more.
With this kind of difficulty, you should try to get a professional reading from someone who understands asteroids because it is NOT your fault or not her fault. It is the chart make up. xxx ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 2083 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 02:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Down The Rabbit Hole: what would Moon-Psyche indicate? It also conjuncts my Asc. I can just FEEL its importance but I'm not sure what it means?
You're naturally a very soulful, soft, sensitive, and gentle person. Think of PSYCHE. Having a NESSUS-SUN is definitely going to harden that, to an extent, or it might be a conflict within your own nature: the balance of the driven, obsessive 'go getter' versus the receptive, non-initiating 'reaction-oriented' individual who tends to go along with whomever or whatever. They're two separate energies which CAN be very useful together if integrated. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 2083 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 02:07 PM
Also: for mothers and daughters, CERES (1) and DEMETER (1108) with relationship to PERSEPHONE (399) and PROSERPINA (26) are very useful for understanding core dynamics.IP: Logged |
Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 07:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: You're naturally a very soulful, soft, sensitive, and gentle person. Think of PSYCHE. Having a NESSUS-SUN is definitely going to harden that, to an extent, or it might be a conflict within your own nature: the balance of the driven, obsessive 'go getter' versus the receptive, non-initiating 'reaction-oriented' individual who tends to go along with whomever or whatever.They're two separate energies which CAN be very useful together if integrated.
Oh. This makes a lot of sense actually. Thank you for explaining this. I would like to think I blend the two energies well.. or at least I'm just used to it. I'm not sure really.
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Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 07:47 PM
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Heather Knowflake Posts: 41 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 08:58 PM
Wow. seriously wow this chart. The first thing I noticed is sado being right there on your sun unfortunately I dont have much experience with asteroids so I wont be able to give you info on these. but very interesting chart to look at.
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libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 24, 2014 10:18 AM
Wow, look at these charts. I sincerely hope you both have the space to take a breather from one another because this is all very, very dynamic. Not only are the Sun/Nessus conjunctions inconjunct, but so are the Mercuries. For one, as both Ami and Auby have mentioned, you both have prominent Nessus conjunct Sun, she near her AC, making it important for her personality and very visible, and you on your NN, making it important for your direction in life and the way you grow as an individual. Ok, don't think I'm trying to give you unsolicited advice here, but I just really want to warn you to keep yourself AWARE of how likely it is that you're learning a lot of negative lessons from your mother and unconsciously applying it to yourself and your life. It might seem to you that there's no way you could be like her; with the inconjunction you just can't see the similarity, but the fact is that the pattern is the same, and it replicates itself from her AC(appearance, knee-jerk instincts) to your NN(development in life, point of striving). Do you get angry when someone tells you "you're just like your mother"? If you don't allow yourself to take long calming breaths and think things through before reacting, you might get a lot of that in the future. Meditation would be a wonderful tool for you to use in every day life. You have the depth, undoubtedly, learning to use it for positive results will be a lifelong journey for you. I can only imagine what the fights are like, it seems like she instigates and you escalate and things just don't end up well. You both want apologies, but you don't speak one another's language enough to actually say them the way the other wants to hear them. IP: Logged |
Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 24, 2014 10:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Wow, look at these charts. I sincerely hope you both have the space to take a breather from one another because this is all very, very dynamic. Not only are the Sun/Nessus conjunctions inconjunct, but so are the Mercuries. For one, as both Ami and Auby have mentioned, you both have prominent Nessus conjunct Sun, she near her AC, making it important for her personality and very visible, and you on your NN, making it important for your direction in life and the way you grow as an individual. Ok, don't think I'm trying to give you unsolicited advice here, but I just really want to warn you to keep yourself AWARE of how likely it is that you're learning a lot of negative lessons from your mother and unconsciously applying it to yourself and your life. It might seem to you that there's no way you could be like her; with the inconjunction you just can't see the similarity, but the fact is that the pattern is the same, and it replicates itself from her AC(appearance, knee-jerk instincts) to your NN(development in life, point of striving). Do you get angry when someone tells you "you're just like your mother"? If you don't allow yourself to take long calming breaths and think things through before reacting, you might get a lot of that in the future. Meditation would be a wonderful tool for you to use in every day life. You have the depth, undoubtedly, learning to use it for positive results will be a lifelong journey for you. I can only imagine what the fights are like, it seems like she instigates and you escalate and things just don't end up well. You both want apologies, but you don't speak one another's language enough to actually say them the way the other wants to hear them.
I appreciate the honesty. I wanted the harsh truth and you gave me that. It's a lot for me to think about.
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libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 26, 2014 09:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Down The Rabbit Hole: I appreciate the honesty. I wanted the harsh truth and you gave me that. It's a lot for me to think about.
Aw, it's doesn't have to all be bad. I believe that anything between two people can be resolved, with a little patience and a conscious decision to try and understand the other side. There are a lot of good lessons you can learn from one another. Try to focus on the good things and meditate on how you can redirect the energy between you when it starts getting resentful. Solve things slowly, untie the knots one by one. As I mentioned, I think meditation would be a wonderful tool for you, you're probably a natural and you'll learn a lot from practicing daily.
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Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 27, 2014 06:48 AM
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Heather Knowflake Posts: 41 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 27, 2014 09:17 AM
I am aware this is none of my business, But how is your relationship with your father?IP: Logged |
Down The Rabbit Hole Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 27, 2014 10:48 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60021 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 27, 2014 11:32 PM
YIKESHer sado conj your vertex. She will bring you sadism imo My mother has Moon conj sado, exact, and she is all that sado would be though to be xxxxx ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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kaianna Knowflake Posts: 535 From: Nassau Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 27, 2014 11:54 PM
yup mercury opp mars is classic for petty arguments and someones mercury is basically unaspected, so one cant really connect how they communicate with the relationship and with that argument aspect thats what you get.IP: Logged |