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Topic: Very good composite?
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Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 24, 2014 05:45 PM
Hey everyone,I met a guy a few days ago and for the first time in my life a normal guy (so no creep) has been interested in me from talking to me in real life, without first chatting to me online which I think is pretty different. The guys I've talked with until now I first met them online. Anyway. So I got his birth info (he initiated the talk about astrology - also a first!) and this is how the synastry and composite look like. Doesn't the composite look pretty good though? I'm not an expert in reading composites so yeah. Except personal planets in the 6th house (which isn't THAT big of a deal I think with Brangelina's composite in mind) it looks very smooth. What I also noticed, is the fact that every angle of his conjuncts a planet of mine. So my Neptune/Uranus/NN conjuncts his AC, my Sun (widely) conjuncts his IC, my Venus conjuncts his DC and my Pluto conjuncts his MC. What do you guys think? Is there something that stands out? I'm on the inside btw. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 3305 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 24, 2014 06:08 PM
yeah composite looks really good. communication would be tough at times but its not a big deal. with 6th house emphasis you two would be interested in health subjects together. health would come into play in one way or another.IP: Logged |
kaianna Knowflake Posts: 492 From: Nassau Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 24, 2014 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: yeah composite looks really good. communication would be tough at times but its not a big deal. with 6th house emphasis you two would be interested in health subjects together. health would come into play in one way or another.
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1471 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 24, 2014 08:27 PM
It's all right. The cVENUS/MARS=SUN trine cMOON is the best part of it. Its chartruler conjunct cCHIRON is curious. Does this feel like a 'Chiron relationship' to you?An unaspected cMERC is rough in the long term. Even sex gets old. But communication is the real ticket to longevity. IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 24, 2014 08:38 PM
Thanks for the replies As for the composite mercury... How is this "unaspected"? It squares saturn and trines neptune and uranus. Don't they count as aspects? Also, I can't tell if our "relationship" feels like a chiron relationship, because I just met this guy. lol There hasn't been a date yet. but i'm a bit anxious about that part now that you mentioned the chart ruler conjuncting chiron. Doesn't sound that promising... IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 582 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 24, 2014 10:16 PM
This is the most regular pattern composite that I have ever seen. It's almost perfectly symmetrical. To be honest, that worries me. I've seen thousands of charts and this is the first time I see something like this. Must be a reason why couple's charts aren't geometrically perfect.Anyways, your Composite House Chart Jupiter/Chiron is RIGHT on the composite H12 Pluto. Honestly, that is something to think twice about. Adding Saturn on the NN in H2, it all just seems so heavy. He has a Grand Cross of Nodal Axis and Sun-Pluto opp, and the composite triggers all sorts of things between your widely conjunct Suns. I don't know, something about this feels weird to me. A spidey sense, I don't know. But I don't want to sound fatalistic. Just for our edification, can you plug in some asteroids? And make sure to put in Nessus. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1471 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 01:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bearee: Thanks for the replies As for the composite mercury... How is this "unaspected"? It squares saturn and trines neptune and uranus. Don't they count as aspects? Also, I can't tell if our "relationship" feels like a chiron relationship, because I just met this guy. lol There hasn't been a date yet. but i'm a bit anxious about that part now that you mentioned the chart ruler conjuncting chiron. Doesn't sound that promising...
In a composite, I prefer MERCURY to be involved in some sort of a stellium -- especially with a luminary. While a 5º square to SATURN is applicable, yes, it's likely that the individual expressing that cSATURN (whoever might have a point falling on that degree, +/- 6º) will do so to the detriment of the communication of the relationship. There's a loose trine to cURA; 5º is wide for a trine. I don't count an aspect to cNEP. That's out of orb. I say, just go on your date with the guy and enjoy yourself. I hadn't read the part about your just having met until after I read the composite. I try to be as unbiased initially as possible. IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 25, 2014 06:28 AM
@libran_dream hmm sounds pretty negative haha but hey we'll see what happens.. Which asteroids exactly do you want me to add?@Aubyanne I understand.. Communication is so important though ;( especially for me I guess. I lose interest in someone when I notice the communication is off or if I can't talk about anything with him. (mercury conjunct dc in my natal) IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7946 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 08:57 AM
It looks like a possible friendship to me.I think it's a bad idea to request astrological analyses with someone you just met, you never know who answers and what they answer, especially on a public forum where anyone can say anything, and it may influence you a lot and spoil that thing for you, because it's inevitable you will approach that person with preconceived ideas. In my opinion, astrology should be used to understand things that already exist. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 25, 2014 10:54 AM
@LeeLoo2014 You're right. I like to analyze everything, also possible outcomes, so that's why I quickly grab astrology in these kinds of situations, but as you said, this can result in preconceived ideas. I think I will let this as it is. Not gonna further investigate the charts (or the FMC) ;p and just go with the flow.IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1499 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 25, 2014 12:46 PM
i like looking at the synastry too when i just meet someone or get a new bf, but you're actually better off looking at their natal so early on, and try to get an idea of who they are as a person. a composite is for established couples, it's useless in your caseIP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1471 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 12:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: It looks like a possible friendship to me.I think it's a bad idea to request astrological analyses with someone you just met, you never know who answers and what they answer, especially on a public forum where anyone can say anything, and it may influence you a lot and spoil that thing for you, because it's inevitable you will approach that person with preconceived ideas. In my opinion, astrology should be used to understand things that already exist.
With the cSUN=VENUS/MARS? That's fascinating. Is it because it's 6H? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1471 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 25, 2014 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Bearee: @LeeLoo2014 You're right. I like to analyze everything, also possible outcomes, so that's why I quickly grab astrology in these kinds of situations, but as you said, this can result in preconceived ideas. I think I will let this as it is. Not gonna further investigate the charts (or the FMC) ;p and just go with the flow.
Yeah, don't let your insecurities guide you to use astrology as an oracle. Remember to LIVE life as much as you analyse it. It took me many years to learn that lesson; really, not until my first Saturn Return. Hopefully you can be ahead of the curve. IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 26, 2014 06:47 AM
Thank you for your advise starmoon & Aubyanne I'll definitely keep it in mind. It's very nice of you all to take your time and help and advise me! So I would like to thank all of you. IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 582 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 26, 2014 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bearee: @libran_dream hmm sounds pretty negative haha but hey we'll see what happens.. Which asteroids exactly do you want me to add?
I didn't mean to sound so negative, sorry! That's probably the retro Mercury transit right on my AC these days. It just seems to me that this man could be very intense and you're hitting a few of his buttons. Go for it and see what happens.And update us on how things go! IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 27, 2014 03:25 PM
hi beareethe composite has some the most favorable aspects one can have for a marriage/committed relationships. spontaneous affection with the sun/venus/mars stellium trine to moon and sextile to Jupiter ,ruler of marriage. the problematic aspects are Saturn square to mercury as this can limit your mental union. also the midpoint of Saturn/mercury is opposed to the moon. intensifying the emotional an mental separation that may occur unexpectedly. also pluto is quintile to the node/Saturn conjunction. you mentioned he brought up astrology first. with this aspect i'd expect him to have powerful controlling psychic energies .though he might just describe himself as a forceful personality. But he will need to totally control the relationship and he may have social or economic reasons to keep the full nature of this reality obscured from you. todd
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Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 28, 2014 11:07 AM
@libran_dream No it's okay! Even though your message may have sounded negative to me, I do appreciate your honest opinion and advise. so thank you anyway. As for him being an intense person. I have sun opp pluto (9degrees though) and I have my sun in the 8th so it's not an unfamiliar area for me, but I shall try to look out for his pushing buttons ;p@todd Thank you for your detailed input! IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 24, 2014 02:49 AM
Well.... He turned out to be a different guy than I had in mind lol. I thought he was an outgoing, assertive, energyful person, but it turns out he's non of that. He's pretty quiet and composed. On our date I was the one trying to make it interesting and funny. And that's a definite turn off for me so yeah that was it.Thanks again for your help people. IP: Logged |