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Topic: Quick Synastry reading? How do I make HIM feel?
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saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 12:07 AM
  
Hey guys all astrologers opinions welcome!  I would live to know what type if effect I have on this man, good & bad. What do our house overlays make him feel about me? Does he see me as an ideal match for him?I know moon conjunct moon is a pretty good aspects showing that we get each other. While our his mars square my pluto makes him feel like he could be violent right?
Also do any of you now have or have had any if the aspects that we have in our synastry ? How'd it play out for you? Thank you!<3
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Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 01:34 AM
If you want it quick n' dirty, then be mindful that your URA is right on his VENUS.IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 01:46 AM
Ideal match? No. The MOON-MOON is definitely a nice linkage to have, but with that tremendous of an age difference, I'd want some really sensational aspects.VENUS in early Cancer with MARS in early Aquarius is far from ideal. SUN conjunct DSC is nice, but that's his SUN on your DSC; he would feel like a natural partner for you. On the other hand, your SUN is near his MC; you'd have more of an impact on his career. IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 02:54 AM
Ok now I see what you mean, I thought that with so much saturn influence it would be more likely to stick for the long haulIP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 02:55 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Ideal match? No. The MOON-MOON is definitely a nice linkage to have, but with that tremendous of an age difference, I'd want some really sensational aspects.VENUS in early Cancer with MARS in early Aquarius is far from ideal. SUN conjunct DSC is nice, but that's his SUN on your DSC; he would feel like a natural partner for you. On the other hand, your SUN is near his MC; you'd have more of an impact on his career.
And can u give me an example of a sensational aspect please?
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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 26, 2014 01:47 PM
There are several aspects showing he might see you as a potential romantic partner as well:your Venus/mercury in his 11th house (he has DSC in Aqua) should be very strong. Plus Mercury opp his Moon and Venus squares his Saturn, the other ruler of Aqua, and Jupiter is the disp of his Moon, So there's a multiple connection here. your Moon on his 5th cusp is classical for love, plus your Mars falls in his 9th, and his love house, the 5th, is in Sag. Your Moon also conjunct Neptune, his 8th house ruler, and you two have a great Kite with his Mars and Pluto releasing in your Moons. Your Uranus, DSC ruler, and Neptune, 8th ruler, conj his Venus
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Faith
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posted October 26, 2014 02:53 PM
Sun trine sun, moon conjunct moon, Mercury trine Mercury...there has to be chemistry.In Venus-Neptune relationships, Neptune (that's you here) usually has the upper hand. I say this because I have Venus-Neptune natally and experienced the following over and over with guys I dated who were my age: quote:
The Venus person, in particular, finds the Neptune person inexplicably attractive - even ideal on a romantic level. There can be a tendency for the Venus person to assign the Neptune person traits of the Venus person's ideal lover. The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up. There is a tolerant energy between the two, and that can be extremely pleasurable. If the Neptune person feels like he or she is not loved for who he or she really IS, problems can erupt. Even more problems arise when the Venus person begins to make excuses for his or her Neptune partner's real traits, in order to reconcile and perpetuate the romantic ideal he or she assigned Neptune from the very beginning. The Neptune person generally doesn't want to hurt the Venus native, but he or she may begin to back off in subtle ways if he or she feels too much pressure to fit Venus' image of him or her. Neptune may literally "fade away" and leave Venus feeling unsatisfied, hurt, and wondering what the heck happened!
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_neptune_aspects.html I'm curious about the composite chart-- care to post that? IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 05:42 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Sun trine sun, moon conjunct moon, Mercury trine Mercury...there has to be chemistry.In Venus-Neptune relationships, Neptune (that's you here) usually has the upper hand. I say this because I have Venus-Neptune natally and experienced the following over and over with guys I dated who were my age: [QUOTE]The Venus person, in particular, finds the Neptune person inexplicably attractive - even ideal on a romantic level. There can be a tendency for the Venus person to assign the Neptune person traits of the Venus person's ideal lover. The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up. There is a tolerant energy between the two, and that can be extremely pleasurable. If the Neptune person feels like he or she is not loved for who he or she really IS, problems can erupt. Even more problems arise when the Venus person begins to make excuses for his or her Neptune partner's real traits, in order to reconcile and perpetuate the romantic ideal he or she assigned Neptune from the very beginning. The Neptune person generally doesn't want to hurt the Venus native, but he or she may begin to back off in subtle ways if he or she feels too much pressure to fit Venus' image of him or her. Neptune may literally "fade away" and leave Venus feeling unsatisfied, hurt, and wondering what the heck happened!
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_neptune_aspects.html I'm curious about the composite chart-- care to post that?[/QUOTE] Sure here ya go, I was told one time that having mars in the 7th house in synastry makes the mars person come off as aggressive, but it's in the 8th house in composite so would that mean sexual aggression?
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libran_dream
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posted October 26, 2014 06:07 PM
The composite explains the attraction even more. The house Mars is right on tropical Pluto . House Mars, Sun, Eros and Venus are all in Scorpio. Composite house Venus is right on your natal Pluto. Composite Chiron is on your natal tropical Venus. Composite house Chiron is on the composite DC, and his natal tropical Sun. Your tropical house Chiron is on composite tropical Venus.
That is a lot of Chiron. Can you tell us a little bit about this relationship? There have been several threads lately on Chironic relationships, this has the markings of one. Go through a few of these threads, see how things resonate with you. IP: Logged |
Delilah423
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posted October 26, 2014 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
If you want it quick n' dirty, then be mindful that your URA is right on his VENUS.
I will attest to the fact that Venus-Uranus is not for the faint of heart, although I have more experience with the square. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
And can u give me an example of a sensational aspect please?
There are several, and they tend to work together. For example, SUN aspecting MOON, 2º or less; MOON aspecting MOON. VENUS and MARS aspect. VENUS and MOON. JUPITER and VENUS. SUN and VENUS (good for friendship, but can add a nice basis for a romance). VENUS soft aspect to URANUS (adds a bit of spice); the hard aspect can work, but it takes emotional maturity. I personally enjoy the MARS conjunct PLUTO, but that can be a bit for most to handle. VENUS and PLUTO aspects are nice, too, for soulful and sexy ties, depending. VENUS/NEPTUNE can give a sense of the romantic and even idealistic. Whether that's reality depends upon the rest of the chart. I also love aspects between 7Rs. Say, 7Rs conjunct. ASC/DSC conjunction. VERTEX conjunct ASC. NNODE conjunct VENUS can be a strong link, too. There are certain asteroids that have proven powerful links. EROS (443) and PSYCHE (16) in aspect -- the conjunction can work both ways in my experience. Ideally, female PSYCHE to male EROS. VALENTINE (447) to lights (SUN, MOON) and personal points -- VENUS, MARS, MERCURY. Likewise for AMOR (1221). I've often found that 7R to lights, or personal points is a strong link in couples, too. For those in which there's a lot of romance, 5H placements, and 5R. Those who feel very bonded to each other often have 7H/1H placements, (point in the other's 1H) as well as personal points (or, say important rulers -- 7R, 5R, chartruler) conjunct the IC or in the 4H. That's a great aspect for a strong emotional bond. Also, in my observation, the 5H/8H overlay is almost too much sexual chemistry to keep from developing a sexual relationship. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 06:24 PM
Ooof. 8H cEROS square 5H cDEJA. Ouch. cDEJA should beware. I'm not sure how I feel about cMOON conjunct cSAT/cURA. Granted, it's closer to being exactly conjunct cSAT, but cURA is only 2º away. Can you give us details about this relationship? I'm a little surprised that a 33 year old man is having a relationship with a 20 year old girl. Sure, it happens, but ... it's highly unusual. I would expect to see AMAZING aspects for this. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 06:31 PM
Plus, I think his PLUTO is square your NEPTUNE, on his VENUS. Normally, PLUTO square NEPTUNE isn't that big of a deal -- though, the wider the age gap becomes, the more important outer placements are -- in which case, it colours the VENUS/NEPTUNE conjunction, which is fairly tight. Within 2º, is my guess?VENUS/NEPTUNE conjunctions aren't negative on their own; it's any squares that can become a problem. PLUTO squares indicate issues with jealousy, possessiveness, and issues with power and control. There may be issues from members of his family -- his mother, specifically -- given that it's the ruler of his IC. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 06:34 PM
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Originally posted by Delilah423:
I will attest to the fact that Venus-Uranus is not for the faint of heart, although I have more experience with the square.
Yeah, it's kind of a nasty bugger, isn't it? The square. IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by libran_dream:
The composite explains the attraction even more. The house Mars is right on tropical Pluto . House Mars, Sun, Eros and Venus are all in Scorpio. Composite house Venus is right on your natal Pluto. Composite Chiron is on your natal tropical Venus. Composite house Chiron is on the composite DC, and his natal tropical Sun. Your tropical house Chiron is on composite tropical Venus.
That is a lot of Chiron. Can you tell us a little bit about this relationship? There have been several threads lately on Chironic relationships, this has the markings of one. Go through a few of these threads, see how things resonate with you.
Sure anything in particular you'd like to know? To start I can tell u that I believe since my natal chiron is on the 2nd house cusp I always have delt with self worth and putting others before myself to the point where my needs become suppressed. But with him he always seems to remind me of my own needs & most times take care if them for me.lol, mabey that's his sun & venus in my 6th house? IP: Logged |
kaianna
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posted October 26, 2014 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Ooof. 8H cEROS square 5H cDEJA. Ouch. cDEJA should beware. I'm not sure how I feel about cMOON conjunct cSAT/cURA. Granted, it's closer to being exactly conjunct cSAT, but cURA is only 2º away. Can you give us details about this relationship? I'm a little surprised that a 33 year old man is having a relationship with a 20 year old girl. Sure, it happens, but ... it's highly unusual. I would expect to see AMAZING aspects for this.
im 20 and was talking to a 33 year old man earlier in the year, it probably didnt work out because he was afraid of the age difference. IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Ooof. 8H cEROS square 5H cDEJA. Ouch. cDEJA should beware. I'm not sure how I feel about cMOON conjunct cSAT/cURA. Granted, it's closer to being exactly conjunct cSAT, but cURA is only 2º away. Can you give us details about this relationship? I'm a little surprised that a 33 year old man is having a relationship with a 20 year old girl. Sure, it happens, but ... it's highly unusual. I would expect to see AMAZING aspects for this.
I don't blame u for being surprised lol, he's been a family friend for a couple yrs now, one of my brothers close friends (my bro is 29) we were never really emotionaly close at least not as close as we are now, but when ever he came around we couldn't help but stare at each other not just in lust but as if we both wanted to know what the other was all about on an emotional level. Not just crakin jokes and poking fun at each other like we usually do. We've been together about 8 months now. IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 06:56 PM
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Originally posted by Delilah423:
I will attest to the fact that Venus-Uranus is not for the faint of heart, although I have more experience with the square.
What did the square feel like for you? IP: Logged |
libran_dream
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posted October 26, 2014 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
Sure anything in particular you'd like to know? To start I can tell u that I believe since my natal chiron is on the 2nd house cusp I always have delt with self worth and putting others before myself to the point where my needs become suppressed. But with him he always seems to remind me of my own needs & most times take care if them for me.lol, mabey that's his sun & venus in my 6th house?
Good conclusion on the H6 effects. Just tells us some bare basics, whatever you think is ok to share. Are you looking to find out about something specific in the charts?IP: Logged |
saylee23
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posted October 26, 2014 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by libran_dream:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by saylee23:
[b] Sure anything in particular you'd like to know? To start I can tell u that I believe since my natal chiron is on the 2nd house cusp I always have delt with self worth and putting others before myself to the point where my needs become suppressed. But with him he always seems to remind me of my own needs & most times take care if them for me.lol, mabey that's his sun & venus in my 6th house?
Good conclusion on the H6 effects. Just tells us some bare basics, whatever you think is ok to share. Are you looking to find out about something specific in the charts?[/B][/QUOTE]Yes, mostly I'd like to know what aspect makes him stick to me like clue & vise versa. I have a lot of "flighty" and rebellious & detached traits in my chart, like gemini sun mercury in gem in 11th house, venus in 11th house uranus conjunct Neptune in 6th, sun trine uranus, moon in sag. I'm usually so damn flighty that I get so bored & smothers in relationships and miss just bring single lol but with him for some reason, I feel really dedicated to the relationship. And even though i still at times get emotional overwelmed by too much intensity( mabey that's mars square pluto?) I don't feel like fleeing the scene. he's a pretty intense dude, must be his natal venus-pluto square. he told me he's been in 3 serious relationships all lasting 4yrs, that he "overwelmed them with his love" and that the girls all cheated on him. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
What did the square feel like for you?
Well, I'm URA. And it's exact. So, call me lucky. All I have to do is watch my erratic behaviour. Though, honestly, I would never count a 10º URANUS-VENUS conjunction. Ever. But I swear, with him, I feel it. Unless that's the 8º PLUTO-VENUS conjunction. But it almost feels like that URA/VEN. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by libran_dream:
The composite explains the attraction even more. The house Mars is right on tropical Pluto . House Mars, Sun, Eros and Venus are all in Scorpio. Composite house Venus is right on your natal Pluto.
Okay, what am I missing? Isn't cVENUS 16º Aries? I know that's not on anyone's PLUTO. Also, MARS and SUN are in 8H, but not SCO. EROS is in Aries ... I'm missing something, aren't I? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
I don't blame u for being surprised lol, he's been a family friend for a couple yrs now, one of my brothers close friends (my bro is 29) we were never really emotionaly close at least not as close as we are now, but when ever he came around we couldn't help but stare at each other not just in lust but as if we both wanted to know what the other was all about on an emotional level. Not just crakin jokes and poking fun at each other like we usually do. We've been together about 8 months now.
 Thanks for clarifying. I admit, I'm surprised there aren't more aspects, or a tighter synastry. I wonder -- is it mostly in the progressions? You ought to post your progressed synastry. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
he's a pretty intense dude, must be his natal venus-pluto square. he told me he's been in 3 serious relationships all lasting 4yrs, that he "overwelmed them with his love" and that the girls all cheated on him.
... Oooooooooh. That's a big red flag. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted October 26, 2014 07:45 PM
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Originally posted by saylee23:
Yes, mostly I'd like to know what aspect makes him stick to me like clue & vise versa.
cMOON conjunct cSATURN exact. IP: Logged | |
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