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Topic: what causes an ex to return?
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starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1441
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 26, 2014 09:58 PM
  
maybe someone can help me out w/this. i dated a guy for 2 years and he told me he cheated, so i broke up with him asap last year and never looked back. he has contacted me 5x in the past two months to tell me he lied about cheating after all (all contacts have been ignored by me - i refuse to ever speak to this person again). just wondering why this person has decided to come back. do i check our synastry again? his natal? transits? progressions? what chart might point to a return?IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 8661
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 27, 2014 12:14 AM
I think it could come from anywhere, generally speaking-- but there are themes that develop in certain relationships, that may play out through all the charts you draw up for that relationship. I do like progressions and find them revealing. Maybe his progressed moon is now trine his Uranus, making him a little bit unpredictable emotionally, and both form an aspect with your sun so he keeps associating these emotions with you...or something like that.  50 Ways to return to your lover. Have you looked at the charts and have any theories yet? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 7186
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 27, 2014 09:53 AM
I second what Faith says. Why would he tell you he cheated if he didn't? Any possibility it was a revenge?I think you can look up your progressions with the guy and the transits to his chart and your composite, I would also check the moment of the first message as an event and compare it to the natals to see what the event means for both of you. Looking at all these charts should give you an image about his intentions. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1441
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 27, 2014 04:34 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I second what Faith says. Why would he tell you he cheated if he didn't? Any possibility it was a revenge?I think you can look up your progressions with the guy and the transits to his chart and your composite, I would also check the moment of the first message as an event and compare it to the natals to see what the event means for both of you. Looking at all these charts should give you an image about his intentions.
thank you... will do that :-) and i don't know why he lied and why he is now un-lying. but i have a bad vibe about him and question the motives for his return. up to no good imo
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Knowflake Posts: 398
From: USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 27, 2014 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
thank you... will do that :-) and i don't know why he lied and why he is now un-lying. but i have a bad vibe about him and question the motives for his return. up to no good imo
I think you're right. Trust your gut on this one. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 1004
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 27, 2014 08:00 PM
Investigate the astrological significance of an emotional predator; specifically, which aspects they seem to share. Highly possible that his latest 'target' has recently given him the boot, and he's re-triangulating. They tend to go for exes first, as it's quicker than waiting for the next 'mark'.IP: Logged |
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