posted November 09, 2014 09:47 AM            

Also is this a composite i should just *give up* on or does anybody see anything that stands out that shows i should maybe fight to get her back? Thanks a lot LL

posted November 09, 2014 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm afraid you should use your heart for that What about the synastry? Let me see if it has outstanding connections. If your TOB's are correct, the composite leads to Mercury/Pluto in the 12th, which is not bad per se, it all depends on the synastry, it could be a very deep, soulful connection since Merc rules DSC and MC and IC is in Pisces.

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We have really good synastry or atleast i think we do

posted November 09, 2014 04:12 PM            

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posted November 09, 2014 04:19 PM            

The only issue I have is with you saying that she's been acting up. Maybe if you explained more, someone can give you a better insight into her tendencies and how you could possibly manage them abit better. Alternatively, long term, you may feel it's not worth it.

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posted November 09, 2014 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I'm not going to come from an astrological standpoint. I'm just going to tell you to follow your heart and do what you feel is neccessary. If it works, you can always come back and use astrology to gain a further insight into your problems. If it doesn't, then you've tried and you can sleep every night (now and forever) knowing that you have.

The only issue I have is with you saying that she's been acting up. Maybe if you explained more, someone can give you a better insight into her tendencies and how you could possibly manage them abit better. Alternatively, long term, you may feel it's not worth it.

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posted November 09, 2014 04:57 PM            

I just made a thread about that. And you each have it natally!! Whoa!!!

posted November 09, 2014 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Venus conj NN in the composite! O.O

I just made a thread about that. And you each have it natally!! Whoa!!!

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posted November 09, 2014 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Long story short after we broke up she betrayed me a couple times i forgave her over and over and just wanted her back and she ignored me and tried to be just friends so i ignored her for like 2months cuz i dont want to be just friends either we are together or not and while i did ignore her she txted me like 4 times even on her bday i didnt txt her and now im seeing a new girl she found out called me and told me if i dont stop seeing her she will come to my job and beat her up she told me this when drunk i asked why do u care and she screamed on the phone i love you and your always going to be mine over nd over and days after we met up at her house and she just wanted to yell at me for ignoring her and thats it smh i told her i only want her even cried to her telling her i love her and she just ignored me once again she keeps trying to be just friends and shes just acting so wild posting butt pics and pictures with barely any clothes on her instagram partying and just acting disgusting as bad as it sounds idc i still want her back and i think its my fault im just a crazy loyal person i mean i have a fixed ascendant/sun/moon so i hate people who give up but in the end i know i need to move on but just when things get better she hits me up or plays some game with me and my feelings for her come flying back

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Didn't know the history before I gave you the advice. Now I know abit more, I am inclined to say that you need to cut her off until she can prove to you that she is a different person. It can't be that because you move on (after she's given you no choice) that she gets to use tricks to try and get you back. She doesn't sound like she is very mature tbh; and the question you have to ask is... do you want this for yourself (or your relationship) in the long term?

Do you really think she can change? Even if your answer is yes, you can't keep being at her beck and call. People don't change unless you stop enabling them.

You need to take time out to think about what you want, because you deserve better. It sounds like you've tried and if she cannot show you the same effort/respect/humility... leave it for now and do something else. Good luck x

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posted November 09, 2014 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Didn't know the history before I gave you the advice. Now I know abit more, I am inclined to say that you need to cut her off until she can prove to you that she is a different person. It can't be that because you move on (after she's given you no choice) that she gets to use tricks to try and get you back. She doesn't sound like she is very mature tbh; and the question you have to ask is... do you want this for yourself (or your relationship) in the long term?

Do you really think she can change? Even if your answer is yes, you can't keep being at her beck and call. People don't change unless you stop enabling them.

You need to take time out to think about what you want, because you deserve better. It sounds like you've tried and if she cannot show you the same effort/respect/humility... leave it for now and do something else. Good luck x

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posted November 09, 2014 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Thats exactly what i have to do sadly enough i thought she would have changed but of course not, she wasnt like this when we dated smh shes a scorpio venus and has a scorpio stellium and her chart ruler is venus she was extremely loyal now she just made a complete 360 oh well i cant control it im gonna ignore her again or do you think i should just be friends with her and just shut my heart out to ever getting back hmmmmm cuz it really hurt her that i ignored her i do agree thats wat i should do but im not a vindictive person i dont want to "get her back" or stab her where it hurts so im kinda in between on my decision

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I don't think that you should do anything until you are sure about what to do. Don't do anything. No emotional messages. Just sort your head out and take some time to do it.

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