posted November 17, 2014 05:18 PM
To me this seems like a self-terminating karmic relationship. Allow me to explain. There are some strong, clearly fated, and mostly exact, aspects here.
You met under obviously fated circumstances, and wouldn't have normally, which have impacted you both deeply -- his emotional life, and your destiny. (MOON conjunct VERTEX, 0º).
Also, I'm shocked if some big questions weren't answered, or a greater commitment achieved, or something revealed during the 23 October eclipse. The SUN/MOON was at 0º Scorpio, which hit this conjunction dead-on.
You will undoubtedly help him to grow as a person, largely due to your approach to the world. (ASC/NNODE, 0º)
Note that you both have a similar house structure; for you, SAGITTARIUS is intercepted; for him, it's SCORPIO. His DSC in SAG then becomes a major attracting factor. Again, the fact that his ASC/DSC axis falls along your 6H/12H axis is hardly coincidental. He's pulling SAG energy from his DSC, yes, but it's important to not forget it falls in YOUR 6H. The relationship is thereby intended to help you along your path to spirituality; especially how it can be pragmatised; approached in a mundane way. Simple service in daily life.
Meanwhile, your MARS is what hits his intercepted Scorpio. Which -- surprise, surprise! -- is in his 6H. Crucial detail. While your MARS is 5H, it's drawing energy from the 6C, which it conjoins by 4º. (Wide, but present.)
The interceptions in a relationship show immediately what becomes the focus, and is considered very sacred and special to the individuals involved.
MARS and DSC. SAG and SCO. It seems to me that you would both do very well to consider spiritual activism together. There's a tremendous drive there, with so much 6H focus.
Your SUN is also 0º04 contraparallel his MOON. Despite there being a very weak quincunx, the declination aspect between your MOON and his SUN is what's binding. Alas, there's a strong disconnect between the energies between the two, which would need to be reconciled through compromise, and anything which might fall on the Midpoint of your SUN and his MOON in the composite.
No doubt his approach to things can uncover some deep wounds in you, with CHIRON loosely on the ASC, but in the 1H. These will become more prominent the longer you're together. I'd also explore if you have any Draconic or Sidereal links activating 5º GEMINI.
You're a SUN-JUNO conjunction (2º), but he's not actually a JUNO-MOON conjunction, to clarify. Rather, his JUNO pulls energy from his VERTEX.
This is why the two of you are in a relationship. He is very much driven by the invisible hand of fate to determine the direction of his romantic life. You can relate to this, with 5H MARS-VX.
Again, your VX falling in his 6H, intercepted Scorpio, drives the relationship towards service and greater spirituality. (With Scorpio here, I'd totally try Tantric sex.)
There's a nice contraparallel between your JUNOs, too, but be mindful that the relationship will surface old wounds for him, too, as it's his CHIRON that's involved here, by 0º.
We'd call this a 'Chirotic relationship'. There's a debate as to how long they can endure, at the moment. The romance may be the first thing to go between you, which would leave a lot of self and psychological work to feel more akin to drudgery. But then, that all depends upon the balance of masculine and feminine between you.
Your MOON's not getting any real love from his SUN. Over time, that can become very noticeable. On top of a very nice 1º trine from his VENUS to your MARS, with only a 2º quincunx vice versa ... that does not bode well for romantic or sexual fulfillment on your behalf.
Now, a caveat. If you're the type that, say, prefers to dominate a relationship and is seeking a sexually submissive partner -- go to. It'll be a lot harder to turn the tables and switch roles, however.
The natural dynamics between you are such that his MOON and VENUS are activated by your MARS and SUN. There's a lovely resonance there, but it certainly casts you in the light of the one expressing these traditionally masculine energies.
And then there's SATURN-VENUS, 1º. You may like this. HE certainly does, with a CAP JUNO and MOON. Bear in mind, too, this resonates with your CAP DSC. The trick is to not get tyrannical, as your VENUS quincunx VENUS already shows butting heads over difference of taste, and many compromises to be had.
A final quick note.
You have a 0º20 parallel of SUN and CHIRON, did you know? In this way, the contraparellel from his MOON is lovely. It can be just the right level of emotionality to help clear these old wounds and heal that which is stubborn to be healed.
(I'd also be VERY interested to see if anything falls on your CHIRON. It wasn't until I went digging that I found certain things on my CHIRON which proved so illuminating.)
I'd watch the SATURN on your VENUS. This can be a lovely, trusting, guiding influence -- or it can feel stifling, domineering, and undeniably paternal. (But, hey, you've got daddy issues; so it can at least help with that.)
Now, Lee mentioned some Lilith-oriented issues. Yes. There are those. His BML is also parallel your SUN/CHIRON, 1º. It's ... close enough to at least pay some attention. As this falls upon your ASC, you won't help but be able to notice. (Spoiler alert: he's got mommy issues.) And your BML on his VENUS 2º can carry a bit of that weight, if done wisely.
Long-term? Depends on many things.
I suspect you're both here to clear family karma which has consolidated in your own individual lives, and is unsettled between you. Your SUN/CHIRON parallel his IC, so he'll be finally putting to bed issues regarding his own family drama, especially that relating to his mother.
So, what do you want to bet his SUN's parallel your MC?
Yep. Sometimes astrology is just too spot-on. His SUN will illuminate the issues surrounding your father, (as well as career, and your overall 'life direction') for, we all hope, eventual healing.
Healing family issues and childhood wounds -- I'd say that's 60% of relationships, if not more. Depending upon level of maturity, and willingness to do the work, wonderful rewards can be achieved once 'the closets have been cleaned out'.
I do suspect there's a bit going on at the karmic level, as I said before; especially with the SATURN-VENUS conjunction, and your SNODE conjunct his DSC. That can be literally read as, 'he owes you a relationship'.
Isn't it funny that his 7R (NEPTUNE) 'disappears' in your 6H, in your intercepted SAG? Heh. Not funny at all. That's karma.
There's a lot of uncertainty surrounding the duration of your relationship; you're astute to pick that up. NEPTUNE, of course, is very spiritually driven and higher-minded.
If you both dedicate yourselves to service, and approaching the relationship in a 6H fashion, using the CHIRON energy to heal yourselves and others -- I feel the rewards can be great. It may last a long time.
If, however, you choose the 'lower road' -- easy street -- you'll likely find the usual culprits -- jealousy, possessiveness, and lack of true intimacy -- will overcome. LILITH is a dangerous shadow, and she must be treated with equality and respect. JUNO's standing by to see the relationship, and its members, are being given its due, too.
Just remember to treat each other with respect and cultivate unconditional love. NEPTUNE's great for that, too, when you let it be.