posted November 18, 2014 06:25 AM            

I don't know his birth-time.

Here's the chart: I'm the one on the outside.

posted November 18, 2014 07:01 AM            

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posted November 19, 2014 04:17 PM            

His Aries Sun and Taurus Venus are in your 7th house (house of partnership and affection), and his Aquarius Moon is in your 5th house (the house of courtship and romance).

His chart contains some of the basic building blocks of your attraction pattern/ love ideals. This is probably why he stuck out in your mind. Sometimes this just happens when someone sets off your attraction pattern (5th, 7th, 8th houses). It's sort of like a chemical reaction, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything if the person isn't really part of your life. A similar type of thing happens with celeb crushes. Their chart makes you notice them but that doen't mean that anything is destined to happen. And he's certainly not the only guy in the world who can set-off your chart like this.

Apart from the houses thing, some synastry aspects are responsible for this effect on you as well. Your Mars is trine his Venus, Your Mars is trine his Mars, your Pluto is sextile his Mars, and your Venus is opposite his Moon. All of these aspects are typical of attraction between the sexes.

The Neptune/Mars connection mentioned above may have allowed your mental image of him to become like a lingering fantasy in your mind.

posted November 19, 2014 10:10 PM            

I know you can't read his houses due to unknown birth-time but could he have liked me even a little based on personal planets?

posted November 20, 2014 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by testgirl:
Lotis White, while I see my Pluto opposite his Venus (which maybe be a triggering factor for my obsession with him), I don't see my venus opposite his moon. I see a biquintile instead. Let me confess: I don't know how to read charts. I rely on pdf tables. Can you re-check that for me please?

I know you can't read his houses due to unknown birth-time but could he have liked me even a little based on personal planets?

I don't want to marry him. I don't know him. However, I don't want to marry anybody. I will remain unmarried all my life, which is 100% cool with me.

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Oh yeah, I missed the Venus/Pluto aspect. It would add an element of obsession so to speak, kind of like a magnetic pull... But if it's not meant to be, then personally I think you're better off putting your mind on other things, and focusing on the future. It's totally possible that you're going to find someone you have even better synastry with. It's good to get closure though, and my guess that is what this thread is about.

I said Moon/Venus opposition because your Venus in Leo looks like it's within orb of an opposition to his Moon in Aquarius. I can't tell exactly though because synastry wheels don't show the degrees of the planets (personally I dislike synastry wheels and would rather look at two natal charts).

With the Venus/Mars/Pluto aspects that you share in synastry it's definitely likely that he had some type of attraction to you. But without his birth-time it's really impossible to know for sure if you were his type in terms of your personality/style and all that. Personality really matters a lot in attraction despite a lot of stereotypes floating around out there. Some people are attracted to super outgoing types, others are attracted to introspective quiet types, and every other trait that you can imagine. The 5th, 7th, and 8th houses (plus Venus and Mars) in our chart give more detail on this. Without these I can't tell his type. The only connection I can see is that his Venus is in an Earth sign (Taurus) and you have a lot of Earth in your chart. Only this is not a very strong factor in comparison to what the relationship houses show.

posted November 20, 2014 08:30 PM            

My chart:

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His chart (birth-time unknown):

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Things I did to get over him: get super-busy, see therapist and psychiatrist, try to talk to him (which failed miserably), etc. I wouldn't be able to count how many tears I've shed for him. I tried killing myself to get over him. I lose my mental balance anytime I force myself to get over him so I have just accepted that he'll always be a part of my brain.