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Topic: Chiron strikes again!!!!
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babybull82
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posted November 23, 2014 02:56 PM
  
*sigh* Well I've posted our charts before and asked if I should be worried about the chiron conjunctions and was told that it may be ok because both of the parties in question have already had their Saturn returns...um well in MY particular situation it didn't matter. It still ended just as quickly as it started. Granted..the difference may be that we talked about it first before he ultimately told me he couldn't do it anymore and then we parted ways. I did something that caused HIM pain and well that was all she wrote. There was no drama, no I hate you or anything..just.. Me: Ok, so is this over?
Him: Yea I can't do this right now. I'm sorry don't want to jerk you. If I don't talk to you again I hope you and the girls take care.
Me: Ok, have a nice life bye *click* Fin That's was pretty much it verbatim. To be honest I was sad for like a hot second and then I felt instant relief..like I felt happy about it? Weird but meh you win some you lose some right? I'm just ready to move on with life now..But I have to be honest and say that I'm becoming quite drained of all of these chiron, karmic relationships I've been having the last 2yrs..I could really just use something lighthearted and fun right now you know? Well anyway here is the chart in question one more time and this will be the last time you'll see it...I promise!  Edit: Here is the composite with transits, should also mention about a month into this I predicted to the day that we'd "break-up" and it was off by a day.  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted November 24, 2014 04:57 AM
I'm sorry  Was this guy married or involved with someone else? What in the composite made you predict the break up? Also, does he have a peregrine Venus on DSC as it seems? ------------------
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babybull82
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posted November 24, 2014 09:37 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm sorry Was this guy married or involved with someone else? What in the composite made you predict the break up? Also, does he have a peregrine Venus on DSC as it seems?
Not that I know of, he lived alone & would call or text me at any hr of the day. Funny thing is we fell out after 2 months because he said I didn't trust him (um hello it's only been two months) BUT I could have made a big stink about him not adding me to Facebook & accuse him of hiding something but I didn't. I predicted it because I noted that Uranus is transiting our 7th rx & tweaked it to show the day it would be almost or exactly conjunct the DSC. and yup almost exactly to the day. So I'm wondering if when Uranus goes direct if I'll hear from him again...but meh idk if I'd try again...I feel kind of weird about the whole thing to be honest. Um his Venus is in Taurus so I'd think that make it dignified, but it is in the 6th which makes it weak so I don't know what to think.
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Pretty Theft
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posted November 24, 2014 08:34 PM
If you felt relieved when it was over, I would say that ending the relationship was the right move for both of you. You don't seem to be too broken up about it ... if it was significant you'd be in pieces, right? I guess it just goes to show that Chiron doesn't always bring people pain.I wouldn't worry about future Chiron relationships, personally. Clearly it's something that you feel drawn to, which would explain the trend. I'd say that means you have Chirotic lessons to learn in that case. What they might be, I don't know. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted November 24, 2014 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
If you felt relieved when it was over, I would say that ending the relationship was the right move for both of you. You don't seem to be too broken up about it ... if it was significant you'd be in pieces, right? I guess it just goes to show that Chiron doesn't always bring people pain.I wouldn't worry about future Chiron relationships, personally. Clearly it's something that you feel drawn to, which would explain the trend. I'd say that means you have Chirotic lessons to learn in that case. What they might be, I don't know.
Well I should be more specific. I felt relieved that he finally told me what I knew was coming anyway. We had our "falling out" last Saturday and for the entire week he was distant and I just knew it was coming I could feel it. I was getting irritated because I felt like he was dragging it out. I was relieved that he finally did it. Today it just kind of hit me though. But I'm realizing that it may not be necessarily him that I'll miss but I think I'll miss the companionship and having someone to talk to. I've been very lonely these days..well who am I kidding I AM lonely these days. All of the people who are true friends to me live far and I don't really having anybody to hang out with here. So I'm alone basically just me and my kids. So it was nice to have someone to talk to. When I first met him I thought he'd make a good friend and I told him that I hope that even if it didn't work out I'd like to remain friends. Well he said he doesn't stay friends with ex's so..there you go. Part of me feels like he may come back..if only to check on me..but meh I don't know if I'd respond. I'm just tired of having something and then having to let it go. But that seems to be the theme for me the last two yrs. I'm ready for something solid but the universe doesn't seem to think I am, so it gets snatched away or I blow it like I did in this case. IP: Logged |
Pretty Theft
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posted November 24, 2014 09:50 PM
I say this with compassion, but I am not sure anyone who is the sole primary caregiver of kids can have a lighthearted fling. You said you were lonely -- lonely people just don't have silly, 5th house affairs, you know?I think -- I'm just guessing -- that you don't really want a lighthearted fling, you want red meat with a guy who is fun and romantic (don't we all?). If I'm wrong, sorry. But it might help to adjust your expectations -- you might end up with something more satisfying. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted November 25, 2014 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
I say this with compassion, but I am not sure anyone who is the sole primary caregiver of kids can have a lighthearted fling. You said you were lonely -- lonely people just don't have silly, 5th house affairs, you know?I think -- I'm just guessing -- that you don't really want a lighthearted fling, you want red meat with a guy who is fun and romantic (don't we all?). If I'm wrong, sorry. But it might help to adjust your expectations -- you might end up with something more satisfying.
No you're right I only say that because I figure if I'm not too emotionally attached I won't get hurt. Things moved pretty fast with this man emotionally. You see it was long distance & we were planning to meet, but I said something that hurt him & that was it. It really wasn't a big deal to me but it was pretty huge to him. To be honest he was a little delusional about some things which is why he took what I said so hard. But you live & you learn. I know he ended it but it's like I'm still expecting him to text me & look @ my phone sometimes. It's like I can feel him, it's weird never had this before. IP: Logged |
Pretty Theft
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posted November 25, 2014 01:03 AM
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Originally posted by babybull82:
No you're right I only say that because I figure if I'm not too emotionally attached I won't get hurt. Things moved pretty fast with this man emotionally. You see it was long distance & we were planning to meet, but I said something that hurt him & that was it. It really wasn't a big deal to me but it was pretty huge to him. To be honest he was a little delusional about some things which is why he took what I said so hard. But you live & you learn. I know he ended it but it's like I'm still expecting him to text me & look @ my phone sometimes. It's like I can feel him, it's weird never had this before.
Are you the blue or the red person in the synastry? Because I see that Moon Pluto and that is heavy. IP: Logged |
Pretty Theft
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posted November 25, 2014 01:07 AM
You also have Mercury square moon. If you're the Mercury person, I can see how the things you say might be hitting him emotionally. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted November 25, 2014 09:07 AM
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
Are you the blue or the red person in the synastry? Because I see that Moon Pluto and that is heavy.
He's on the outside. His moon conjuncts my Pluto @ 1 degree, but it's his mercury squaring my moon. The way that played out is I'd randomly text him with a sweet message about how I'd feel about him & he'd reply with something funny. But the interesting thing is he is very expressive about how he feels when we had serious talks. To be honest I've always questioned if I ever really felt the moon Pluto, because I never felt obsessed like they say Pluto usually is. But I know he said he thought about me a lot. I would start to get a little antsy if I didn't hear from him much some days, but then out of the blue I'd feel this calming effect & would relax. Despite it being long distance I felt secure. Well I know they say moon Pluto is about learning to let go so here it is I guess..we're letting go.
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Delilah423
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posted November 25, 2014 09:37 AM
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
Are you the blue or the red person in the synastry? Because I see that Moon Pluto and that is heavy.
I was going to say pretty much the same thing. I think his Moon conjunct your Pluto is the "culprit" rather than Chiron. I don't see Chiron as all that negative, either. Chiron is about healing more than it is about pain (although they are two sides of the same coin). The Magi astrologers like Chiron/Venus, if I remember correctly. For whatever that may be worth... IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted November 25, 2014 11:28 AM
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Originally posted by Delilah423:
I was going to say pretty much the same thing. I think his Moon conjunct your Pluto is the "culprit" rather than Chiron. I don't see Chiron as all that negative, either. Chiron is about healing more than it is about pain (although they are two sides of the same coin). The Magi astrologers like Chiron/Venus, if I remember correctly. For whatever that may be worth...
You are probably right. Or a combo of both maybe? It had the qualities of a Chiron relationship..we got close fast I said something that didn't seem huge to me but was a big deal to him. He no longer wants to deal with me. The moon pluto I probably the trust thing. It takes me long to feel comfortable enough to fully trust someone. He told me he trusted me fully & believed everything I ever told him. Of course I didn't believe him lol. We also have moon neptune both ways. My moon is in hard aspect to his neptune & his moon in soft to mine. So I automatically questioned if he was being emotionally honest to me. Seriously this whole thing feels weird, it kinda annoys me at how it was so heavy & it was only long distance & we never even had sex. I'm kinda glad we didn't or it may have been worse.
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ScandinavianCrab
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posted November 28, 2014 03:34 AM
As said: Pluto conjunct moon must be heavy for any Gemini who isn't plutonian.That synastry looks great. It actually has many similarities with some I'm dating now (not the moon/Pluto stuff)
But yours is like ours but on steroids (tighter orbs etc). But we're just fooling around at the moment.. Anyhow. That moon-pluto stuff takes maturity to handle, plutonian or not. Maybe he's still a little boy? Edit: I did se now that he has Pluto conjunct moon, trine sun and ascendant in Scorpio lol. Damn. I love that synastry..! IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted November 29, 2014 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
As said: Pluto conjunct moon must be heavy for any Gemini who isn't plutonian.That synastry looks great. It actually has many similarities with some I'm dating now (not the moon/Pluto stuff)
But yours is like ours but on steroids (tighter orbs etc). But we're just fooling around at the moment.. Anyhow. That moon-pluto stuff takes maturity to handle, plutonian or not. Maybe he's still a little boy? Edit: I did se now that he has Pluto conjunct moon, trine sun and ascendant in Scorpio lol. Damn. I love that synastry..!
Well this "great" synastry wasn't enough to keep things going. I'm over trying to find anything worthwhile. I just don't think it's in the cards for me this lifetme and I'm realizing now my natal chart reflects that. IP: Logged |
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