posted November 26, 2014 11:04 AM            

That being said I'd like to get a few other perspectives on this scenario

Here's the thing...

There is this girl in my 'orbit' so to speak, we both know a few of the same people so we indirectly know about each other...despite the distance between us there is ENORMOUS attraction on both sides...I mean off the charts (pardon the pun)

We've flirted VERY briefly over a social networking site once, and since we know several of the same people I heard through the grapevine that she thinks I'm funny/witty/sarcastic.

Unfortunately though, it seems like I got the message too late because I'm hearing now that she's in a relationship with a Pisces guy (literally the opposite of me)

There is a VERY heavy Pluto influence in me...just the mere thought of her being with someone else stirs up an ENORMOUS brooding energy within me

Even as I type this now, I become almost physically ill at the thought of it...

I'm convinced that the attraction is still VERY much there on both sides though

One night, on a random night out at a club my group of friends ran into her group of friends and it was bizarre to say the least.

This was the same night that I discovered that the woman I was involved with (a Leo) was sleeping with a friend of mine so I wasn't in the right state of mind to be funny or charming or charismatic (or whatever).

But I did see her a few times very briefly, and there was a VERY INTENSE CHARGE we didn't even speak to each other just being near each other was enough to awaken this energy in both of us.

A bit about me...

Virgo Sun
Scorpio Ascendant (or Libra, still trying to decipher it)
Pluto Conjunct Ascendant
Sun Sextile Pluto
Moon In Taurus
Mercury in Leo
Venus in Libra
Mars in Cap.

Her:

(technically Aries-Taurus Cusp) but natal charts online simply say she is a Taurus Sun
Gemini Moon
Taurus Mercury
Leo Ascendant ( I think, not sure her birth time yet)
Venus in Gemini
Mars in Aquarius

Now my first question is where can it go from here?

A few of my friends have suggested just being friends with her and hiding my emotions behind that aloof Virgo mask but from what I've read that doesn't sit well with Taurus women

If it's true that she is actually dating this Pisces guy and I'm forced to watch them be affectionate with each other right in front of me...

Well...

Let's just not poke that bear

My second sticking point is that she's an Aries-Taurus cusp...I'm never really quite sure how to respond to them.

They are EXTREMELY forceful characters and that's all right with me (Pluto energy) but ever since I found out Hitler was one I've always looked at them differently (she even shares the same birthday as him :S)

No disrespect to any Aries-Taurus cusps on the forum but it's just how I see things

If you've made it this far thank you for your patience, I'm new here and this is the very first post I've ever written. I'm gradually getting the hang of this astrology stuff but it can be a bit tricky to navigate.

Especially with my Venus in the house of "Self-Undoing" (I hate that it's referred to as that)

I welcome all perspectives here

posted November 26, 2014 11:12 AM              

Try to post an astro.com synastry on Tinypic or Photobucket and paste the "link for forums" here. This way, the chart will be displayed in the thread.

posted November 26, 2014 12:07 PM            

Let me know what you think

posted November 26, 2014 12:40 PM              

Venus opp Uranus, your 5th ruler - falling in love ruler - so there's a strong feeling of instant infatuation from your side. This can be lasting or not, Uranus is like a lightening-bolt, but the energy is sometimes not sustained on the long-term.

posted November 26, 2014 01:10 PM              

Your Saturn doesn't receive much, you are right, but hers does receive a nice Sun trine.

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