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posted December 02, 2014 09:27 PM            

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So, lets say you have no money and no status, but you want to show someone with with venus in capricorn you care. What would get the message through best?

I'm venus in cancer and for me hugs and cuddles go a long way. I don't think this is true for venus in Cap. Online it says that high powered people with status and money make them feel safe and loved, but what if you can't offer those things?

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posted December 02, 2014 10:14 PM            

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Capricorn does love money and status, but above all, they love authenticity. You will get far if, day in and day out, you show yourself to be someone with integrity and sound judgement. They are, after all, the very best qualities of Saturn.

Venus in Capricorn is not an especially romantic placement, and nor are they fast-moving. It will take them time to trust you. Capricorn is a classic pessimist. This is why it's best to play the long game, because that is what Saturn does.

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posted December 02, 2014 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
Capricorn does love money and status, but above all, they love authenticity. You will get far if, day in and day out, you show yourself to be someone with integrity and sound judgement. They are, after all, the very best qualities of Saturn.

Venus in Capricorn is not an especially romantic placement, and nor are they fast-moving. It will take them time to trust you. Capricorn is a classic pessimist. This is why it's best to play the long game, because that is what Saturn does.

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posted December 03, 2014 09:30 AM            

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I have cap venus. I want a partner who can take care of himself. It's fine if the person doesn't have much money or stt, as long as he can be independent n doesn't need to rely on me financially (and emotionally - to a certain degree. I'm not a bandage to all of his wounds). Of course after I'm hooked and bound by love I'll be willing to do a lot for the person, including taking care of him in hard time. But at the beginning when there is little to no emotional attachement - nah a person who has no mean of taking care of himself is a no deal.

How to show me that I'm loved: be solid and true. Don't drag me down too much. Fight for me. Make me feel like I belong with him and that we're "united". These are the most important things that I look for. The usual romantic stuff r fine but not really required. At the end of the day, if I feel blessed to be with him, then yeah that's it.

It's also important that the person can "fit" into my life. There's the "lover" and there's the "partner". The one I want needs to be both.

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posted December 04, 2014 01:38 AM            

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Be reliable, consistent, keep the crazy under wraps
Capricorn will like your sweet nurturing side once it warms up to you (it's not hated now, it might just feel a bit different and interesting) and will appreciate how you show care and concern for a lot of people in unexpected moments, but first just show that you're legit, check in with this person, or at least return their calls in a timely manner. Don't flake. Play up your earth placements.

They have to see that you're 'around' ..hard to explain but you have to become part of their scenery and that can take time.

And LOL about it being all about the Benjamins. Nah.
But they do have to consider you as being worthwhile.
It's up to them how they define it.

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posted December 04, 2014 02:00 AM            

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I have a progressed Venus in Cappy originally and I am a Libra Sun/Uranus conjunction with a wide Pluto adding to the stellium. I have a Cappy family and many Saturn strong heavy people in my life. Respect, reliability, loyalty, honesty. If that is consistently shown to these mountain goat people, they will come around. They are very practical and slow to trust. When you get that trust from them, don't abuse it. These are serious and cautious people when it comes to emotional intimacy.

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