posted December 09, 2014 04:25 AM            

"Venus square other person's Mars

This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically the Mars person but sometimes the Venus person) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. The conflict here is all in the timing. The Venus person may sometimes find the Mars person comes on too strong, and is often offended or taken aback by his or her directness. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realize how much you love each other until you are away from each other."

When it is the woman's Mars and the man's Venus it is the woman that is mostly doing the chasing.

Moreover, your Mercury, ruler of 5th and 8th is exactly squared by his Ascendant ruler, Saturn. Seems that his presence stimulates your need for romance and sex.

posted December 09, 2014 07:11 AM            

I have a Pisces Mercury myself and I always have an instant connection with fellow water Mercuries. The Mercury2Mercury aspects are always nice but... (and I know I'm biased) they seem to have a special 'somethin somethin' in the element of water
Water is a very intuitive, psychic element so having your Mercuries conjunct in a water sign - you could easily feel like you read each other's minds. You both probably love starring into each other's eyes and can communicate non-verbally. You are deep people with deep eyes - and you recognise that in each other. I also have a theory that a person's eyes are primarily ruled by the Moon and Mercury. I can almost always, 9 times out of 10, tell if another person has a water Moon or Mercury in aspect to my own Mercury... It seems obvious to me in their eyes because there is something very familiar about them.

The Venus/Mars aspects are intense and attractive on a romantic level. If you didn't have the Mercury conjunction, I could see this as an on/off relationship with much passion - a love/hate rollercoaster ride. But because you are, so much so, on the same wavelength mentally and you can talk about anything under the Sun - I believe that this core friendship between you would be long lasting. You could never treat each other badly or break up permanently because you have so much respect for the other person and truly appreciate their input. Once you get close - if you are apart, you'll miss each other because it would be like losing a best friend.

posted December 09, 2014 07:14 AM            

Plus your Mars sq his Scorpio Venus makes you chase him, as twinky says, while his Mars is not very motivated. Scorpio Venus people do not like to be chased, specially men, it activates power playing in them and generally Scorpio people have some contempt for someone showing too much they're into them.

His Mars likes Aries Venus or Sun.

Your Scorpio stellium gives you a tendency to get a little bit obsessed about people who reject you and mistake this for genuine affection. I'm Plutonian myself and I know how it works It makes you want to have the upper hand and win him over and it makes you mistake this for genuine interest.

posted December 09, 2014 08:15 AM            

I had an exact Mars square Venus aspect (my Mars/his Venus) with my long term ex and we never chased each other. We drifted into a relationship. We also had Moon conjunct Moon, Mercury trine Mercury and Moon sextile Mercury DW. Other aspects can change the Venus/Mars dynamic.

posted December 09, 2014 08:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
You mentioned Aries Venus and Aries Sun. Honestly a guy with Cancer Moon and Mars would have the worst relationship in the world with an Aries woman. I don't think it could get much worse.
Cancer loves Scorpio. There's a lot of chemistry between these signs.

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Not this guy, in my opinion. He has a Cardinal T/square with personal planets he wants/needs to complete and this is what makes him commit. We've already discussed, with Venus, a rejection situation with this guy on another thread

I didn't say Mars sq Venus is bad per se, on the contrary, it's a great aspect to have, but when the woman is Mars, there are sometimes problems because she goes after the guy.

I don't think trines rule astrology and all Scorpios are into Cancers or Pisces or viceversa. It depends on each natal chart. IMO, each planet needs the energy reflecting the one they already have in their chart: in this case, a cardinal T/square with Mars feels completed only with a Venus Moon maybe Sun on the missing leg - at least this is their best option, the ideal scenario. Of course, real life implies astrological compromises of all kinds.

I really don't like the Saturn Pluto stellium sq in this synastry, falling in her 1st and on their Mercuries. Not all conjunctions are what one needs.

posted December 09, 2014 08:37 AM            

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We've already discussed, with Venus, a rejection situation with this guy on another thread

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Oh I missed that thread. I'm sorry to hear that.

posted December 09, 2014 09:06 AM            

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posted December 09, 2014 09:18 AM            

Well, now you have different opinions here, this is not a bad thing.

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posted December 09, 2014 03:03 PM            

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I thought maybe this synastry was good from little I know guess not..

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Wait. Have I suddenly gone invisible?

It *is* good synastry from many perspectives. First and foremost because you have such a close Mercury/Mercury conjunction, so if you want to sort things out - remember the door is always open. I'm sure he'll get over this argument. Martian Mercuries always have heated arguments. It won't be such a big deal. Give it some time. Scorpio is fixed so they can take more time than Aries Mercury to 'forget it' - but he *will* eventually.

This is a thread I made on the importance of Mercury aspects ages ago, under my old nick: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203016.html

You also have the much talked about love stellium in your composite chart. This is a very good indication of lasting friendship and love between two people. Read more about it here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/209763-15.html

posted December 09, 2014 05:34 PM            

A guy could think you are irresistible and get over you next week - if that's all you have. Sun conjunct Venus is pretty superficial. I've had it many times both ways - my Venus/their Sun and vice versa. It's not all that it's cracked up to be.
You synastry has more substance, which I think is a good thing, unless you just wanted a fun fling.
But it's also *mutually* sexually attractive.