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posted December 09, 2014 12:53 PM            

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posted December 09, 2014 12:56 PM            

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I don't really have a question, I don't want interp. I just wanted to share another set of above average compatible charts that will never get anywhere, despite a strong attraction.

His TOB is unknown, he actually doesn't know what time he was born and I'm too blind sighted by all his Virgo to see anything past that yet.

Still, that composite.. no?

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posted December 09, 2014 01:06 PM            

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That's a pity. I can see you have some yummy overlays and aspects. In the comp the ASC ruler is in the 12th and you have Neptune on the ASC opposite Sun which could contribute to the sweet but unrealized promise.

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posted December 09, 2014 01:57 PM            

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His TOB is *NOT* known..

I mostly thought of LeeLoo, I think she would love this synastry. An Earth man to balance me and Leo planets intercepted in my 7th. And he's a foreigner! ha

I personally love the composite wedges the most, since I am a wedge girl. I think composites (and synastries!) with definite aspect patterns are more focused and more noteworthy.

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posted December 09, 2014 02:01 PM            

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Hm, I thought you chose the most likely ASC. I don't even know what a wedge is

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posted December 09, 2014 02:03 PM            

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Planets in opposition making trines/sextiles to a/more planets on the side.

I haven't met him personally yet so I can't say just from pictures.

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posted December 09, 2014 02:09 PM            

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Thanks. You realize you could be meh about him if you met or the other way round, right?

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posted December 09, 2014 02:11 PM            

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I am meh about him. I feel the pull yet the revulsion too. I can't get into the whys this time.

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posted December 09, 2014 02:15 PM            

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You said the attraction is strong so it's not meh, it's wtf. Maybe the Venus-Mars square and his Saturn opposite your Mars give you mixed feelings.

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posted December 09, 2014 02:38 PM            

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I initially thought he's too good to be true. Then I find out not only that, but he's downright wrong. Prejudiced as I may be, my skin crawled a little. Looking at the charts is even more confusing, it makes me doubt. Maybe I'm too critical and have a chip on my shoulder. But then I don't even know if I can trust him.

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posted December 09, 2014 03:21 PM            

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Hi Maenad, I just noticed maybe his Mars is peregrine/unaspected in his chart?

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posted December 09, 2014 03:24 PM            

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Hi, Tulipe! It makes a wide conjunction to his Venus and that is it.. He is pretty masculine though.

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posted December 09, 2014 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Hi, Tulipe! It makes a wide conjunction to his Venus and that is it.. He is pretty masculine though.

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I was thinking if his Mars is peregrine, it could be the suspect and synastry wheel makes the conjunction to Venus look fiendishly wide to me . However I'm not a peregrine planet expert, so I hope Ceri would comment on this.

EDIT: oops I forgot you don't want to discuss the synastry aspects. Pls disregard my ramblings. I don't doubt he's very masculine, I guess he's super masculine with a capital M, like an unstoppable force.
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posted December 10, 2014 01:05 AM            

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It's not that I don't want to discuss the synastry, I just think it's pointless.. Because I can't see this working long or even short term..

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posted December 10, 2014 04:27 AM            

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I understand. It can be really saddening when the potential just doesn't start for whatever reason.

I had a great composite never realized due to things that amount to bad timing and I'll still think of the disappointment now and then.

Luckily it only happened once for me. But the reasons for it not happening are very good reasons so it's best to accept and move on!

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posted December 10, 2014 08:07 AM            

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Wow, what happened here, DM?? Look at the Venus/Mars DW and Mars/Moon, SunMoon/Venus and the geometry...just a quick glance, I'll get back later for a closer look. It doesn't look bad at all.

Did he say something that put you off?

I love that Butterfly on your Vertex to death

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posted December 10, 2014 08:36 AM            

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What butterfly?

He didn't say anything wrong, quite the contrary. He says what I like to hear and seems quite taken with me. It's about who he is, his life, what he stands for. It's a fundamental incompatibility, I don't care about the charts. It's just.. wrong.

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posted December 10, 2014 09:30 AM            

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I wonder, too, what would you make with a Venus and mars in Leo?
That is as far from your own mars as can be.
Of course I am judging from my own perspective, but since I have a darkish Venus myself -as your Mars- (for me in Cappy square Pluto), i need some Saturn and Pluto in a man, or he will just not feel right for me.
(depends on the dosis though, if it is cure or poison. lol)

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posted December 10, 2014 09:35 AM            

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Oh, he is darkish enough, Ceri. lol And his Venus is sextile Pluto. Not Saturn though.

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posted December 10, 2014 09:49 AM            

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Sextile, shmextile. Not nearly enough. LOL

But he might have Pluto or Saturn angular, I forgot.

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In fact it could be nice for someone with Pluto in square, conjunction or opopsition to Venus or Pluto to meet someone having a harmonious aspect between those planets. might have a soothing effect.

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posted December 10, 2014 09:52 AM            

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Okay, maybe this might go somewhere.. and by somewhere I mean a dead end. ) I *may* go out with him tonight.

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posted December 10, 2014 09:55 AM            

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of course you will.

have fun

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posted December 10, 2014 10:33 AM            

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I don't think I will.. Idk, it's too soon, too much, too weird. I'd like to say the hell with it, let's have some fun but I'm in Cap mode tonight.

I can't escape the feeling of mismatch on a deep level. He's trying to be tempting and I'm turned off. :/

He's a sweet talker. And I fell for the stuff he says before and got burned badly. Yeah, maybe it's about my fear too. I don't know if I can trust him. In someone else's mouth, my knees would be so weak. But knowing who he is.. I guess the block is too big for me.

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posted December 10, 2014 10:56 AM            

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Saw your message on my mobile and did a loop to write an answer. Girl, where's your fierce Aries and Mars/Pluto? Gosh, you're mysterious...what does the poor guy do? Stealing skulls from the graveyard?

I wanted to say: NO...no fun with this one, with so many Virgo and Leo I mean, let him rescue you and take care of you. Stay in your Cap mood It's gonna be fun, GO, these are nice charts.

See you later!

BTW, Butterfly is the awesome 2 sq 2 trines formation falling on your Vertex (the one containing the Venus/Mars sq)

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posted December 10, 2014 11:09 AM            

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Worse. I'll email you and tell you if you're so curious.

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