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Knowflake

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posted December 11, 2014 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are the aspect/overlays in synastry that make you have an exceptional good communication between your emotions/feelings and your significant other/your friend/your lover??

Is it mercury-moon aspects or can you name more? I mean that kind of communication where the other knows exactly how you feel and wants to comfort you, or you can open your heart completely to the other and they understand you immidiately?

OBS: I also search for these kind of aspect between FAMILY members and FRIENDS, not only relationship partners

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Aubyanne
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posted December 11, 2014 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My husband and I have this. I've often felt it's the dual MOON conjunct IC in synastry. Our MERCs are trine (1°) and my MOON and his MERC are both in Water.

My partner and I also share this simpatico. My SCO MOON is trine his (8H) CAN MERC (2°). We have a 4° alignment of his ASC and my IC, too.

I'd say it's IC, MOON, MERC, and, possibly 12H. There are some strong 12H links in these synastries, too. (My MOON and MERC are in his 12H.)

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Peluches
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posted December 11, 2014 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peluches     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe Neptune/Mercury or Moon conjunct/trine Moon ? (:

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theunknown
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posted December 11, 2014 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun-mercury
Venus mercury
Venus-moon


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lvASTRO
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posted December 11, 2014 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have Moon-Mercury, Moon-IC, and Merc-Merc. I think our Moon-Mars helps, too.

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Aubyanne
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posted December 11, 2014 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Peluches:
Maybe Neptune/Mercury or Moon conjunct/trine Moon ? (:

Oh! Duh! Got that, too. 3º. Both MERC/NEP and MOON/NEP are great for that.

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Aubyanne
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posted December 11, 2014 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
We have Moon-Mercury, Moon-IC, and Merc-Merc. I think our Moon-Mars helps, too.

MOON-MARS soft aspect, right?

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ciadow
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posted December 11, 2014 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm venus conjunct moon
Sun conjunct moon
Venus conjunct mercury
Sun conjunct mercury
Any planets in the houses revolving talking/ learning like the 3rd, 9th
Or gemini, Sagittarius, and libra
Hmmm

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lvASTRO
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posted December 12, 2014 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
MOON-MARS soft aspect, right?

Yeah, an exact trine. Feels like his Mars makes my Moon open up and express itself.
Basically, emotion in action. I think a loving thought, I touch him. I miss him--send him flowers. It translates my emotional state into outward expression...

Which I've never really been too demonstrative in the past, as such.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted December 12, 2014 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think emotions/feelings and the good exchanges of those are a part of most of the desirable aspects in synastry: Sun/Moon, Venus/Mars, soft planets on angles (ASC,DSC,IC), 1st, 12th, 7th, 8th, 3rd, 4th overlays, good contacts between feminine planets and many Mercury contacts. Apart from the ones mentioned (with Moon, Sun, Venus)I see:

a direct aspect (any) between Mercuries gives people a constant need to communicate with each other
Mercury in 1st 3rd 7th 12th
Mercury/Neptune - a psychic link, a very emotional communication, but also possible mutual "literature" lol
Mercury Alma or Psyche


empathy and emotional interaction is mostly related to the Moon aspects and the water houses, me thinks...and a similar degree of empathy in the natals


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posted December 12, 2014 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So do you think these aspect is a good basic for just understanding? Not nessesarily talking? Is the "I need to talk to you" aspect more like Merc-Merc or Sun-Merc, where as merc-neptune or moon-venus is more like "I know how you feel, but I don't need to express it with words"???

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Odette
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posted December 12, 2014 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Conjunct Moons, trine Mercuries and Moon/Mercury Sextiles both ways (DW).

^ We really had exceptionally good communication, but it felt more like a friendship in the end.

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