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Topic: Moon-mars headache.
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Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Earth.
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 17, 2014 10:52 PM
  
So, I met this guy since febraury this year, and we have been like "going out" since then and getting to know each other and all those things, but the thing is... it isn't going too far since we first met and we haven't figured it out yet how our relationship works.We have moon-mars conjuction in leo. I'm the moon, he's mars. I have noticed that yes, it's true, I'm so sensitive to his words, his actions, I almost feel everything he says too personal and he makes me SO ANGRY, you can't imagine, but at the same time, I can't escape from him, I feel some sort of attraction even though he's not "physically talking" my type.
He gets jelaous so easily, but also he always tries to make me jelaous, he talks about other girls in front of me and always brags about his "crushes, dates or encounters" and I find it REALLY annoying. I don't know how to stop it. My question is... How can I deal with this energy? although it is a conjuction, it feels so intense and so heavy, almost annoying to me. Does he try to make me jelaous as a way to get me? Since Mars is all about how you get the things you want. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 1826
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 01:36 AM
Emotional maturity, sweetheart. Only way to deal with that sort of intense influence. I've had it both ways in a particular synastry, and bizarre, complicated 'relationship', going on a decade soon.I'm MARS to his MOON, conjunct 2º
He's MARS to my MOON, square 1º Man, I hated the way he'd literally invent women to make me jealous. Admit to it, too! I once said, 'you honestly think that's okay?' He'd respond, 'it works, doesn't it?' He was right. I WOULD actually answer the phone. Finally, I'd say, 'stop it!' and he'd say, 'stop falling for it!' I did. Pretty soon after that, when I started distancing myself. IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Earth.
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 18, 2014 10:16 AM
That's exactly what's happening to me too, but it's annoying. It's still attraction though, but in a rough way. Some people seem to love this aspect, I still don't know why.IP: Logged |
Koho
Knowflake Posts: 246
From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 18, 2014 12:02 PM
He sounds like an immature tool that's why the conjunction is expressing negatively. Ditch the foo'!IP: Logged |
alyssa27
Knowflake Posts: 72
From:
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 19, 2014 03:37 PM
i love moon-mars aspects  ..i had the conjunction with my ex i was the moon and with my bf i have moon-mars conjunction when i am the mars and a moon-mars square the other way..
it can get nasty but when it's good it's really good 
jealousy comes from both sides i think IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 771
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 19, 2014 04:21 PM
Omg I thought I was all alone having to deal with someone that tries to make me jealous. But it came and bit him in the ass because I get sooo extremely jealous. He opened Pandoras box lol I bet he wishes he could go back in time and close it. I'll get jealous about things that aren't even real but then he used to make me jealous about th ing he made up.... we don't have moon mars though. But I'm just letting you know.... I feel you.IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
Knowflake Posts: 309
From: Saturn
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 19, 2014 11:16 PM
My bf and I have moon-mars trine and moon-mars conjunction. I love it. I think it creates much sexual intensity through emotional sharing/action. It stimulates intimacy, IMO. We can't stop touching each other or putting our feelings into actions. I want to provide for him, and he, me. The jealousy is on point though--but we usually know how to handle it. I'll tell him when something bothers me, and vice versa, and we usually laugh it off after exploring it. In the beginning, though, it was a much different, ugly story, haha. IP: Logged |
Marandana
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Earth.
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 20, 2014 09:22 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
In the beginning, though, it was a much different, ugly story, haha.
How was it? D: I know, actually yes it's pretty steamy, a small brush of his skin against mine and sparks fly, but him playing mind games turns everything off though IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 20, 2014 10:38 PM
I have this aspect DW with my significant other.My Mars trines his moon, but his mars is conjuct my moon. Hmmm... I would say that I am definitely the more emotional one out of the two of us. In terms of sex, I think that we can both be rather explicit when we get eachother started. Who wants it more? Hmmmm... I'm not sure tbh. When we were together last, I definitely did! Now, he probably does. With that said, our synastry is extremely moon heavy. So this stops us being 'one night standish' with eachother, even though there are times when we want to be lol. With that said, the orbs on these aspects are wide - 8 degrees and 9 degrees. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Knowflake Posts: 6084
From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 21, 2014 10:15 AM
Oh man, reading this post brought back some memories!
My soon to be ex husband and I have the moon mars conj. In libra.
I remember one time when we were first dating, and had broken up, he brought the most beautiful girl into the restaurant I was working at. He sat himself and her directly in front of the cash register, and every time I'd go to ring something up he'd start making out with her. Arghhh. In 28 years not much has changed! Hence the divorce.IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 2186
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 21, 2014 10:42 AM
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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
Oh man, reading this post brought back some memories!
My soon to be ex husband and I have the moon mars conj. In libra.
I remember one time when we were first dating, and had broken up, he brought the most beautiful girl into the restaurant I was working at. He sat himself and her directly in front of the cash register, and every time I'd go to ring something up he'd start making out with her. Arghhh. In 28 years not much has changed! Hence the divorce.
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