posted December 19, 2014 09:07 PM            

I'm just starting to read about twin flames and I don't know much about it. But the man changes my life every time he comes into it. I've never grown so much through someone before. And I just love him. And it's a profound serene kind of love now, before it was super heavy... but now, something has changed. I just stay on the side of compassion and love and I don't ever criticize him ever and our relationship is finally turing around. It's been 4 years and I haven't been able to really match what we have... on any level yet.

What can you guys tell me about this one? Twin flame or nah?

posted December 20, 2014 04:30 AM            

Being a Twin myself, I can only say it's a completely surreal experience. There's no logic to it, and certainly no easy way to decide yeah-or-nay. The goal of all human relations is to have them essentially be 'Twin Flame relationships'. While compassion and serenity are doubtlessly a big part of the equation, it's a smaller overall component of the initial picture.

I'd say you'd have to soul search to truly determine if you're a Twin Flame, and what that would mean for your life overall. It's a hefty responsibility. There's a reason why it's less likely that Twins will even meet, except in very specific circumstances and for a much greater purpose.

To me, it sounds much more as if the change is most reflective of your growth and evolution. That you're conducting yourself in a more mature manner.

Astrologically, there are markers, that's true. It's largely in the asteroids and composite, but there's a definite weird resonance -- a 'sacred symmetry', if you will -- to Twin's natals. I'm not getting that vibe here. You may be looking at a karmic relationship that's settling its karma, or, most likely, you're growing.

posted December 23, 2014 09:42 PM            

But I love what you wrote for sure. He has been such a growing experience. He's come back into my life and I'm wondering if you think based I should give it a real shot?

I have so much patience for him, it's unvelievable.

I looked at some other asteroids too... What do you make of those? I must have been super awful to him in a past life. 😒

posted December 24, 2014 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Hey there, SJ.

Being a Twin myself, I can only say it's a completely surreal experience. There's no logic to it, and certainly no easy way to decide yeah-or-nay. The goal of all human relations is to have them essentially be 'Twin Flame relationships'. While compassion and serenity are doubtlessly a big part of the equation, it's a smaller overall component of the initial picture.

I'd say you'd have to soul search to truly determine if you're a Twin Flame, and what that would mean for your life overall. It's a hefty responsibility. There's a reason why it's less likely that Twins will even meet, except in very specific circumstances and for a much greater purpose.

To me, it sounds much more as if the change is most reflective of your growth and evolution. That you're conducting yourself in a more mature manner.

Astrologically, there are markers, that's true. It's largely in the asteroids and composite, but there's a definite weird resonance -- a 'sacred symmetry', if you will -- to Twin's natals. I'm not getting that vibe here. You may be looking at a karmic relationship that's settling its karma, or, most likely, you're growing.

Perhaps this person was to act as your litmus, helping you to achieve the sort of relationship either indicative of or possessed by Twins. Of course, the goal is for ALL relationships to have this level of emotional maturity, security, and compassion. So this one's a very good start.

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I was reading posts here.

What did you mean by being twin ? Are you with your twin flame ?
I was supposed to meet mine back in 2012. I went through my dark night of the soul experience and it was beyond exceedingly painful. I was in a very serious serious depression which is exactly what it does to you for the purpose of clearing to get you ready for the rebirth. I cried every day all day long for 4 months.
Usually before you meet your twin you go through this so that the old can be cleared for rebirth into the new you that your twin will recognize. They are also going through something similar maybe in different form.

Twins are unique, they tend to be a mirror image.
You truly look like twins. You of like mind in many ways.
When you meet your soul mate for the first time it is usually when you are not expecting it. Believe me !
I have two soulmates this time round and one is my twin.
Both times it was unexpected, I was in my raggedy old sweat clothes, no make- up, hair messy as well both times. The idea is that they love you perfectly just as you are. If you love who you are as a person. Not trying to meet everyone else's expectations and giving up your personal identity, then your twin will find you if it is your destiny to be with them. They love you because you are perfect just as you are because you are the other half of them. They don't want anyone else but you. Do be true to yourself love who you are and if it is meant to be they
Will find you. When you meet a true soulmate you will know when you look into thier eyes. There is a flas of light and energy surges through your body. There is a. Instant knowing. That surge of energy is like a surge of adrenaline from a shocking event. There is no denying it. And many spiritual experience will begin to happen to you. Things you never imagined possible.

This is a soulmate experience. My twin is on the way back and I can only imagine what will happen when our eyes finally meet. The transits, natal, midpoints, yprogressions even asteroids were all in absolute perfect alignment on the day we were supposed to meet. Kundalani, Agape, valentine, Medea, Eros and psyche were conjunct.

Believe me you will know beyond the shadow of a doubt.

posted December 24, 2014 03:33 PM            

I finally just told him that the reason we always fall off is because he does not believe that I love him. He thinks I'm some kind of trick. But that I accept him unconditionally as is and that he can have all the control. We can be whatever he wants us to be because me loving the mess out of him is just a fact of my life, it is a truth I happily embrace. Even if we never get together. I just want him to be happy, and as long as he knows that I truly do love him then I'll be happy too.

posted December 24, 2014 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by vesta:
I was reading posts here.

What did you mean by being twin ? Are you with your twin flame ?
I was supposed to meet mine back in 2012. I went through my dark night of the soul experience and it was beyond exceedingly painful. I was in a very serious serious depression which is exactly what it does to you for the purpose of clearing to get you ready for the rebirth. I cried every day all day long for 4 months.
Usually before you meet your twin you go through this so that the old can be cleared for rebirth into the new you that your twin will recognize. They are also going through something similar maybe in different form.

Twins are unique, they tend to be a mirror image.
You truly look like twins. You of like mind in many ways.
When you meet your soul mate for the first time it is usually when you are not expecting it. Believe me !
I have two soulmates this time round and one is my twin.
Both times it was unexpected, I was in my raggedy old sweat clothes, no make- up, hair messy as well both times. The idea is that they love you perfectly just as you are. If you love who you are as a person. Not trying to meet everyone else's expectations and giving up your personal identity, then your twin will find you if it is your destiny to be with them. They love you because you are perfect just as you are because you are the other half of them. They don't want anyone else but you. Do be true to yourself love who you are and if it is meant to be they
Will find you. When you meet a true soulmate you will know when you look into thier eyes. There is a flas of light and energy surges through your body. There is a. Instant knowing. That surge of energy is like a surge of adrenaline from a shocking event. There is no denying it. And many spiritual experience will begin to happen to you. Things you never imagined possible.

This is a soulmate experience. My twin is on the way back and I can only imagine what will happen when our eyes finally meet. The transits, natal, midpoints, yprogressions even asteroids were all in absolute perfect alignment on the day we were supposed to meet. Kundalani, Agape, valentine, Medea, Eros and psyche were conjunct.

Believe me you will know beyond the shadow of a doubt.

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I met him in some super strange way. One of my closest college friends was struggling with heart problems and she wanted me to hang out with her and her boyfriend, who turned out to be a musician that was the brother of another super close friend of mine. It was like two of my worlds collided. I knew my friend from my science life (I'm a PhD candidate in biophysics) and my other friend (the brother) was a friend from my modeling career life (he was an entertainment lawyer). I met this guy in a parking lot of a studio I did not know he owned. I tripped and he ran into a wall when we saw each other.

I was so mean to him for so long because I was so scared, and he was really mean too. I would tell him off and he would give me the silent treatment for sometimes months. I ended up getting super depressed. I cried over this guy for almost 2 years. Wouldn't even date anyone else and in that time, I saw myself. I saw all the ugly in me and just changed a lot of stuff. And now I super like who I am. I feel like I have control over my life and emotions in a way I never thought I could have.

And he comes back... and its the same intensity. I feel totally ok being myself with him. It's the craziest energy ever. We have never argued in person or even over the phone. My insults always came via email or text, but we could never say those things out loud. And I saw him a couple weeks ago and it was like some kind of super nova. And even more interesting is that he's finally taking responsibility and sharing his feelings and now I see how hard that is for him.

So I don't know what a twin flame is supposed to feel like, but whatever this guy is, it's surreal. I just hope he can stop running from me. I think he actually might this time because I've learned to be honest about my feelings. I can show them now in non insulting ways. But it feels crazY.

How does that sound?