posted December 19, 2014 11:20 PM            

I met someone who came out of nowhere. We met and decided to make music together within 10 minutes of conversation. We met at 8pm and talked until 4am, until we were delirious. We have so many small things in common. We went on adventures. I can't stop thinking about him. He told me he's dating someone, which threw me off, but I am just happy to be making art with him. Please, tell me what you see because I am blindsided

posted December 20, 2014 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
you should check the synastry with his gf, because it might be better. just generally, and w/out in-depth analysis, you're a very heavy scorpio/pluto, so anyone who touches your stellium is going to really be interesting to you, and with scorpio as the ASC and venus and pluto you'll obsess over them, even if they don't return your affection/attention. his venus and NN are in scorpio, with the NN/SN conjunct to ASC/DSC (assuming you have the TOB correct), so that is likely the main cause of attraction. i'd just caution you that when you have so many planets in one sign - as you do - that you 'lead' with that sign and often people w/stelliums get really amazed by someone who conjuncts or opposes the stellium. look at other markers in your chart that might help you see crushes clear(er) and not be lead by attraction alone, which this seems to be. looking form his perspective it isn't as intriguing, excepting his moon is in on the cusp of your 6th (work), and his sun/mercury in your 2nd (perhaps money making ventures).

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Thank you, but I think you have us mixed up because I'm a Sag. (I always put the other person as person 1 for some reason *eyeroll*) I was about to agree completely (because I totally do obsess over a crush even if it isn't returned) and then I read it again. Also, there wasn't an intense 'in-your-face' physical attraction, it's more of a spiritual and emotional one, which is why I'm ok being 'friends.' I think his time could be a little off because he told me he's a Scorpio rising but didn't say the time, so I just put a time in the middle of that window.

posted December 20, 2014 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Your story reminds me a little of the film "Once". Have you seen it?

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posted December 20, 2014 12:57 PM            

But they meet and affect each other tremendously and become a catalyst for each other, and most of all their connection is made through music.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6xIF92OUos

Well actually it is a tiny little bit of an open ending, as when she returns to her husband and child, he is sending a piano as a gift to her.

posted December 20, 2014 01:26 PM            

their bt is not known

posted December 20, 2014 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
In your case, his Pluto on your Venus-IC, both transposing water houses onto each other, looks very potent, very deep stuff. Maybe not cut out for everyday life in every case, but there is real depth there.
You gotta figure out what to do about that.

with the nodal axis ovrlaying the ASC-DESC, it feels like there is a purpose to it, a strong draw, just feels so meaningful.

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It does feel so meaningful. I also just read the sun/mercury conjunct Uranus descriptions I could find, and they describe it very well.

What to do.. Well I think we're both interested in maintaining a close relationship. I have no idea what things are like with his girlfriend or if this would be considered emotional cheating or what. I'm guessing he doesn't know either. I think we're both a little taken aback to be honest. I'm just going to leave it up to him to figure it out. We are both at our respective home towns for a month but said we would send each other things to work on. It feels weird to be apart after a meaningful encounter but it might be good for figuring out how to approach this.

I do miss him though It just felt so good to be around him, like he really gets me. In the Pullen he's all Pluto but Jupiter is his second ranked planet and I think that has something to do with it, because Jupiter is my #1 and I often find that people who don't have a strong Jupiter influence don't understand me on a deeper level. So there's that.

posted December 20, 2014 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Omg it looks heartbreaking. I'll have to watch it *before* I get my heart broken again. Thank you Ceridwen

I wonder what their hypothetical synastry was like..

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posted December 20, 2014 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Oh, do I certainly know this feeling. The world just isn't the place for particular relationships; they don't pass the reality test.

But those moments 'in the vacuum' are wondrous.

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posted December 23, 2014 01:31 AM            

His DNA exactly conjunct my DNA
My Valentine conjunct his SN
Amor conj. Amor exact in 5H/8H
Chaos opposite Venus both ways (Lol..)
Alma conjunct Neptune both ways
My Karma (7H) square his Saturn exact
His Aphrodite conj. my Eros exact
My Aphrodite conj. his moon
His Nessus conj. my Mars
My Dejanira conj. his Mars and Valentine (!)
His Child conj. my Saturn and Karma
My Child conj. his Eros and Mars
My Persephone opposite his Pluto

His Endymion conjunct my DSC
My Endymion square his DC and conjunct his valentine/mars
My Selene conjunct his Venus
His Selene trine my Venus

Yeah.. I went all out. Weird stuff.. especially the DNA
Hope I'm not going off topic because of all the asteroids, but I've never felt ~this~ particular way about anyone.

Not only does "it" feel meaningful but I feel like he gives me meaning. If that makes sense. And I mean that in the healthiest, most constructive way possible..