posted December 23, 2014 11:30 AM            

I really can't stand his personality; he's cheap, narrow-minded, cowardly and etc.

But i know that he's really into me. He's quite hurt by my reluctant behaviour.

I can't see why he's attracted to me when looking at our synastry. I shouldn't be his type!

posted December 23, 2014 07:54 PM            

Also,

Your Moon squares his Mars
Your Mars squares his Venus

He's got the real hots for you probably. His Leo Mars is irritating the **** out of your Aries Moon. This aspect also creates attraction but you're probably too annoyed by his Leo Mars that it isn't coming up. His Moon isn't really being hit negatively so you're not irritating him much so for him that Mars of his squaring your Moon is creating attraction without anything to lesson it. Other than that I don't see anything that indicates why he is taking it to heart?

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posted December 23, 2014 09:41 PM            

Also, it could be his Venus square your Neptune making him see you as his romantic ideal. Your Moon is on his Vertex axis, which is important imo. Perhaps that gives him a fated feeling about your relationship. He is attracted to you and feels an emotional (Moon) connection.

posted December 23, 2014 10:14 PM            

His Venus may be conjunct your Saturn. If so, that would account for his attraction to you, because it's his Venus. But what often happens with this combination is that Venus will want to be close and express romantic feelings, but Saturn will reject or push Venus away.

His Neptune trines your Sun and is quincunx your Moon, so you may be triggering his fantasies.

posted December 24, 2014 08:47 AM            

Your 8th house ruler opposes his Moon-Saturn, while this could have translated into strong magnetism as well, here in this aspect it is URANUS your 8th house ruler, which simply can`t do anything with a Moon-Saturn combo in Taurus.

Maybe worse it seems your 5th house ruler and 7th house ruler are unaspected or just having mediocre aspects. Simply not interested.

for him his 7th house ruler does not have srong aspects either; well there is a sextile to your Sun, which is nice and made him feel like this could work. But being the only aspect I suspect it would never be enough.

His 5th house ruler has only a trine to your Neptune.
Seriously I don´t think he is into you very much.
or to put it differently it is more some sort of (strong) fascination and intrigue, but not an attraction to your personality, he does not even quite know you I think. (I mean, in depth knowledge, he does not "get" you).

The only more personal marker is the opposition of his 8th house ruler to your Moon. This is of course intense stuff.
Even more so since Moon rules your ASC, Venus and Sun. Intense magnetism to your physical, emotional and general persona, however with the opposition and the 8th house here and the T-square, it might feel rather uncomfortable.

and there is nothing equally strong coming from your side.

posted December 24, 2014 04:28 PM            

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Strong magnetism? Oh, perhaps initially with Moon/Uranus, or between acquaintances. But up close, for the Moon, I've found this configuration highly problematic. I've found Moon with Saturn and Uranus to be very harsh, judgmental, cold, abrupt and unpredictable, a rude awakening for Moon.

posted December 24, 2014 06:21 PM            

However it depends on the individuals in question. Had there been a strong relation etween 5th house or 8th house or any relationship-planets with Saturn, an oposition to Saturn might actually have been a strong attraction-factor (in a saturnian way).

But since this is not the case here, it could not be experienced as attraction.

Well had this been my chart, I probably would have felt very much magnetized to that SAturn (as my relationshipprofile simply has a high enuog amoutn of Saturn in it, ruler of 5th house is in Capricorn, Saturn itself in 8th house, Venus in Capricorn).

That is why it is always important to check back with the natals.

posted December 24, 2014 06:36 PM            

One of his long-term partner has sun in pisces so he must like oppositions.

I noticed the mars squares as well but since it is my mars i should be the one affected but i am definitely not. I even say to my friends that you would need to put me in the rain to get me wet in his presence

I saw valentin conj pluto but i thought 1 single asteroid can't receive that much attention

Yeah, i noticed that his generation often likes me but that's not always the case. My sun & my as sextile their pluto and trine their neptune. I don't think the effect is huge or considerable but sometimes there's an effect.

posted December 24, 2014 06:53 PM            

I don't see it either.

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posted December 24, 2014 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:

normally I am not one of the girls who quickly claims "he's into me" but i know in his case that he definitely is but okay, of course i could be wrong

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Oh no, I don´t doubt it at all. That is not what I meant, but to me it seemed like the attraction might be based more on some sort of fascination, curiosity, intrigue, but not necessarily of a compatibility or understanding of your personality.

posted December 25, 2014 12:20 PM            

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