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Topic: Why haven't we had long-term / serious relationships?
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hannaramaa
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posted December 24, 2014 05:37 PM
  
Is there a way we can reason WHY we haven't had a serious relationship yet in astrological terms? Would we look at aspects between natal and progressed charts, or what?IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
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From: The Sky
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 24, 2014 05:54 PM
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I'm so cappy
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2014 06:46 PM
First of all, have you been aiming for a serious and long-term relationship from the beginning and have you been vocal about it? Have you payed attention to compability and pursued or let someone pursue you in a presence of mutual romantic connection? If your attitude has been "let's have fun and see where it goes" then it's not surprising that kind of relationship hasn't happened yet.Assuming WHY = why oh why, I desire it.
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I'm so cappy
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posted December 24, 2014 08:24 PM
I don't want to be in a relationship now and not for the next few years but even if I did, it would be very difficult for me to get what I want and I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to accept less. I may never get it.My Pisces DSC, Sun conjunct Neptune in the 5th and Libra Moon need genuine, magical love.
My Saturn in the 5th and his aspect assistants demand a relationship that is serious from the start and he wants it to be lasting so compability is as important as feelings. He also gets off to making me wait for good things. Ugly, mean, old man.
My Aquarius Venus needs a fellow alien but she doesn't feel like going on dates in order to find him. This practice is too terrestrial, yuck. Gotta wait for someone to fall in her lap from the sky, I guess. Out of some crashing spaceship, to be more exact. Kitty, kitty! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QfL7y6hA5w
My Taurus Mars has apparently transcended his flesh. He should be a monk or something...Kidding, my Uranus would give him a head slap. Sooo, either his potential mate will manage to stimulate his sacral chakra the right way or he'll have to move to Organia to change his status https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvDAHmQ1_tw
My Virgo ASC is becoming more and more scrutinizing. That's good, it's better to be too careful than the other way round. She collabed with my Capricorn Sun and prepared a list of dealbreakers (who cares they eliminate 90% of men if not more  ). Generally, they have expectations, biatches! Fear! She's determined to not let Neptune get her in trouble again.
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
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peony
Knowflake Posts: 168
From: U.S.
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 24, 2014 08:49 PM
Please post the synastry and natal charts so we can see what's going on. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 24, 2014 09:29 PM
iQ stated that my volatile, complicated, and heavily karmic synastry was responsible for delaying and constantly derailing our exceptional composite. And it's an incredible composite.IP: Logged |
Southern Sun
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 24, 2014 10:39 PM
I have been asking this question myself for years, so I'll throw myself out in the open and post a link to my chart.
http://imgur.com/gtiJ8CG,3VmBZoW,HdkT2Jt#2 never been in a serious relationship and have always felt like I scare men away. Whether it was because of my inaction or because of my overbearing presence... It's a point of pain to think about being lonely and without a partner, because I otherwise feel incomplete. I've always suspected that it has to do with Venus being in a weak spot, but there is also Jupiter in 7th opposite Saturn and Uranus... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 25, 2014 01:03 AM
Are you sure you want a long term relationship?
There are probably things you have not put up with, in the past, that a woman with as much Libra influence as you have Aries - would have tolerated.
People do a lot of "tolerating" each other in long term relationships. It doesn't sound very fun for Aries. Do you think you have an idealistic notion of what a LTR is like or should be like? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 25, 2014 10:39 AM
Okay, interesting ISC - there's a lot of earth elements in your chart, so that makes sense it's going to happen on your time, and Saturn in the 5th - per your requirements. I have Saturn in the 7th. To others: There's no valid synastry I could put up, and I feel I've exhausted my natal chart, so I asked about progressions and stuff instead. VacantGazer - with Pluto conj. the ASC, maybe it's your intensity that attracts serious partners for you? SouthernSun: would you mind posting the chart without the asteroids, and including the table with it? I notice your 7th house ruler is in your 12th house, like mine. Interesting again. Thanks to all the replies so far! IP: Logged |
Southern Sun
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From: USA
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 25, 2014 01:54 PM
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