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Gabby
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posted January 01, 2015 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What kind of games do scorpios play when they can't stand someone versus trying to get closer to someone?

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posted January 01, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I suppose it is hard to tell. Whether it's for good or bad, they seem to create a web to pull someone in. And maybe just my experience but a lot of that is built through framing memories. I think if they are putting effort into creating good memories to do with them still, that's a good sign.

I think if they can't stand you they will still trap you but instead of using others/actions to get to you they'll use you to get to others/other things. The centre will shift somehow but even this can be a mask to get closer so ... Idk really. Be interesting if anyone has any foolproof way to isolate that

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posted January 01, 2015 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by florence:
I suppose it is hard to tell. Whether it's for good or bad, they seem to create a web to pull someone in. And maybe just my experience but a lot of that is built through framing memories. I think if they are putting effort into creating good memories to do with them still, that's a good sign.

I think if they can't stand you they will still trap you but instead of using others/actions to get to you they'll use you to get to others/other things. The centre will shift somehow but even this can be a mask to get closer so ... Idk really. Be interesting if anyone has any foolproof way to isolate that


It would be interesting to be able to isolate their games and study them.
My friend is just getting to know a scorp guy and he jokingly told a table of people, strangers to them both, that they had just got married. She played along and they seemed to have a lot of fun with it, and played well off each other.
I've just never heard of a scorp guy being so overt with something so serious....they know each other somewhat well, spent many hours talking but that was a first date.
I thought it was a pretty serious thing to joke around about for a scorpio. He does the typical staring and I've heard the tests already, he told her that there was a guy who was really hot that was totally into her...she just shrugged and said she didn't like younger guys.

I'm not sure how to read scorpio games....he doesn't seem like he's playing the typical games. But at the same time he has not gotten her phone number, he comes into her work all the time and has asked her out again. I'm not sure where he's going with this? It's only been a little more than a month since they met...he waited a month before asking her out but still he's been regularly visiting her ever since they met, he spends hours hanging out just to talk to her inbetween her working.
I wonder if he's got a girlfriend or something? Something doesn't add up....

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posted January 01, 2015 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Sun/Mars/Merc/Karma stellium sits on her NN 0-2 degrees
His Venus opposed her Mars 0 degrees
Sun sextile Moon 1 degree
Sun trine Moon 5 degree
His Saturn trine her Jupiter 0 degree
His Saturn, her Jupiter, both there Pluto's and Neptune's(conjunct 1-2 degrees) create a kite
Both Pluto's opposed her Jupiter, trines their Neptune's and his Saturn.
Eros/Psyche exact trine in earth signs...
Siva/Kaali exact trine in water signs her Kaali sits on his NN
His Moon is conjunct her Saturn by 4-5 degrees
His Aura conjunct her Pluto 0 degree
Her Aura conjunct his Moon 0 degree
Vertex opposed Vertex 1-2 degree on her Venus

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posted January 01, 2015 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
It would be interesting to be able to isolate their games and study them.
My friend is just getting to know a scorp guy and he jokingly told a table of people, strangers to them both, that they had just got married. She played along and they seemed to have a lot of fun with it, and played well off each other.
I've just never heard of a scorp guy being so overt with something so serious....they know each other somewhat well, spent many hours talking but that was a first date.
I thought it was a pretty serious thing to joke around about for a scorpio. He does the typical staring and I've heard the tests already, he told her that there was a guy who was really hot that was totally into her...she just shrugged and said she didn't like younger guys.

I'm not sure how to read scorpio games....he doesn't seem like he's playing the typical games. But at the same time he has not gotten her phone number, he comes into her work all the time and has asked her out again. I'm not sure where he's going with this? It's only been a little more than a month since they met...he waited a month before asking her out but still he's been regularly visiting her ever since they met, he spends hours hanging out just to talk to her inbetween her working.
I wonder if he's got a girlfriend or something? Something doesn't add up....


Well there it sounds like he is focused on her and also creating good memories
It sounds like a test too - he can see her reaction to that and plant a serious idea in a fun, light way. Any forthcoming turbulence and doubt in his actions is already cushioned by that possibility he is serious. Otoh maybe it was just fun for him. But I do think deep and potentially painful messages are planted in a fun way too.
I don't think it's that weird he hasn't got her number because she doesn't know when to expect to see him potentially but when she does he has full control. That really does sound like making good memories too by hanging out.

Can't add much else though as not knowing planets in synastry really

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posted January 01, 2015 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't get any bad vibe from this at all.
I like his humor and would do the exact same whether first or 10th date (Scorp-Moon/Fire-Sun here). He probably has some fire in his chart (Sag-merc/venus or something of that order)? No worries for not asking her number already, it's just so definite and the only thing it does is bringing the pressure of obligation to the fore straightaway... it's only been a month.

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posted January 01, 2015 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Florence and Mir, that makes me feel better!

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posted January 01, 2015 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mir:
I don't get any bad vibe from this at all.
I like his humor and would do the exact same whether first or 10th date (Scorp-Moon/Fire-Sun here). He probably has some fire in his chart (Sag-merc/venus or something of that order)? No worries for not asking her number already, it's just so definite and the only thing it does is bringing the pressure of obligation to the fore straightaway... it's only been a month.

Your right he does have a saggy Venus

His placents
Scorp sun/merc/mars tight stellium
scorp NN and scorp Uranus are not in the stellium
Cancer moon
Saggy venus
Taurus AC

His DC/sun/merc/mars are on her NN

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