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posted January 07, 2015 01:15 AM            

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So I finally remembered how to post a chart. Duh! I have been posting here a lot years ago but I just didn't remember that.

So if you are so interested. These are the charts of me and a colleague at work whom I have seen and spoken to just a few times. Bumped into him a few times. There is no plan to get together for many reasons, one being married but he came into my life to finally SEE!! Is my marriage still working, where do I still need to grow etc... Actually kind of beautiful! I always so enjoy how we all connect differently. Us souls, brothers and sista's. I can almost see the bigger picture here of why our attractions but I'd like your take on this one.

Attraction almost instant and very erotic/sexual, honest as well, I feel I can talk to him all night and there is this obsessiveness I felt and that was before I knew his chart. I felt there is PLUTO between us and boy was I right! Not really obsessive anymore so much now but in the beginning. Like I KNEW this guy and HAD to .... I feel this softness between us but also playfulness and a lot of communication.
Anyway, it's beautiful what I feel and I am wondering how he feels it. We told each other " I like you!" Almost instantly, danced at the Xmas party and it was magic. The feeling and the staring in each others eyes but knowing this can't be. It only lasted a few minutes. And then ... poof! Gone!
I emailed him with some astro info and he thanked me for it and thought it was amazing. Nothing more. I am scared I won't see him again but I am also scared I WILL see him again as I feel I cannot act normal. And ... it's better to not see him again as this feels so strong! My marriage comes first! But I like the adventure. Husband knows because I am honest.
Oh, what he does to me.... :/ So... I am currently trying to understand but meanwhile I DO have a big big crush on him. Tomorrow I will have a session with my therapist teacher about the dynamics of me (I am studying to become a therapist).

SO.... check out our charts. It would be fun.

Me

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Him

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Synastry (red is me)

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Composite

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posted January 07, 2015 08:56 AM            

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Hi!

Do you have the exact TOBs for both people?

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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posted January 07, 2015 01:04 PM            

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Hi LeeLoo!

Yes, they are exact.

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posted January 07, 2015 03:16 PM            

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Want to add that I might have romanticised it a little. Yes he likes me, you can feel and see that but mostly he accentuated the fun bit (Sag ) And yes it was fun, I am fun and I like fun a lot. But when we danced you could feel the sweetness and it was naturally and highly erotic. I don't have this with just anyone. He might. It could be that he felt it too but doesn't think about it that way, that deep. I think, he is young and doesn't think about it because why waste time on someone taken. Still, I'd like your take on the synastry if you like it too.

After the second time I saw him I felt obsessed and the urge to be with him and thought to myself:" wtf is happening here???" Pluto/Moon, Mars/Pluto. I feel so silly because really, I wasn't looking for it. I have it under control now and that's probably only because I don't see him. But also because I have grown a lot throughout the years and I have learned.

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posted January 08, 2015 12:39 AM            

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South Node conjunct Vertex in his 7th. A partner from a past life. <3

I had the conjunction with the only other man I had an instant connection with but then with the north node and in house six.

This is something I found online:
Node- Vertex/Anti-Vertex: This is one of the prime indicators of marriage in synastry. The Vertex person has a powerful effect on the Node person’s personality, helping them develop the qualities they need to develop in this life. The two of you were fated to meet, and were destined to learn a lot from one another. An instant sense of familiarity is indicated, since the South Node is being aspected by the other person’s Vertex or Anti-Vertex, as well. The two of you have certainly met before, and have unfinished business to take care of. The attraction is magnetic, powerful, and will transform the both of you forever. Check the house position the conjunction resides in order to get a better idea of how these energies will manifest in each person’s life.

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posted January 08, 2015 12:42 AM            

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South Node conjunct Vertex in his 7th. A partner from a past life. <3

I had the conjunction with the only other man I had an instant connection with but then with the north node and in house six.

This is something I found online:
Node- Vertex/Anti-Vertex: This is one of the prime indicators of marriage in synastry. The Vertex person has a powerful effect on the Node person’s personality, helping them develop the qualities they need to develop in this life. The two of you were fated to meet, and were destined to learn a lot from one another. An instant sense of familiarity is indicated, since the South Node is being aspected by the other person’s Vertex or Anti-Vertex, as well. The two of you have certainly met before, and have unfinished business to take care of. The attraction is magnetic, powerful, and will transform the both of you forever. Check the house position the conjunction resides in order to get a better idea of how these energies will manifest in each person’s life.

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posted January 10, 2015 08:25 AM            

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It's not uncommon to be attracted to work colleagues and I can see from your charts attraction is possible, but since you're both married, I suppose once has to consider carefully where you want to take this attraction.

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posted January 13, 2015 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It's not uncommon to be attracted to work colleagues and I can see from your charts attraction is possible, but since you're both married, I suppose once has to consider carefully where you want to take this attraction.

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Well, attraction is definite as I explained that. He is not married, I am. It is not my intention to get together I was just curious as to how the synastry chart feels. Thanks.

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