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Leo-Dave
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posted January 10, 2015 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Dave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met this lady online and I really like her. I got her chart, however she is unable to get her time of birth, so I used 12am. I believe only the houses are affected, and that the planets are ok. Someone can confirm this though.

Everything I read says Leo and Scorpio Sun's do not mix well but I really love Scorpio women. I love their loyalty and devotion, even if they are less outwardly emotional like me. Maybe it is my Mars in Scorpio that is attracted to them.

The big stuff I see is -

Her NN conjunct my Venus;
Her Sun conjunct my Pluto;
Her Mercury conjunct my Mars;
Her Mars trine my Sun and Moon;

Can anyone explain the above? Also, what else can you all see here?
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/Dave-and-Bec_zps31fe1a94.jpg

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angel4845
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posted January 10, 2015 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
I met this lady online and I really like her. I got her chart, however she is unable to get her time of birth, so I used 12am. I believe only the houses are affected, and that the planets are ok. Someone can confirm this though.

Everything I read says Leo and Scorpio Sun's do not mix well but I really love Scorpio women. I love their loyalty and devotion, even if they are less outwardly emotional like me. Maybe it is my Mars in Scorpio that is attracted to them.

The big stuff I see is -

Her NN conjunct my Venus;
Her Sun conjunct my Pluto;
Her Mercury conjunct my Mars;
Her Mars trine my Sun and Moon;

Can anyone explain the above? Also, what else can you all see here?
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/Dave-and-Bec_zps31fe1a94.jpg


i've had north node conjunct venus before, i was venus. but unfortunately that relationship didn't last too long due to some awful transits i was going through that led me to break up with the person and we didn't have strong aspects that would keep us bonded unfortunately. but this aspect is very nice!!

Venus conjunct, sextile, or trine other person's North Node

"This pairing is a strong indication of a binding tie between you. You are likely to find it easy to cooperate with one another, perhaps even combining your talents successfully. A major focus of this relationship is romantic love, and in all likelihood the feelings for one another were instant. There is a true feeling of enjoyment and pleasure with one another."

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Sun Capricorn, Moon Aries, Libra Rising

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Leo-Dave
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posted January 11, 2015 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Dave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks. I did read that earlier. Good info.

Anyone else had any of these aspects?

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syrupsplash
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posted January 11, 2015 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for syrupsplash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
I met this lady online and I really like her. I got her chart, however she is unable to get her time of birth, so I used 12am. I believe only the houses are affected, and that the planets are ok. Someone can confirm this though.

Everything I read says Leo and Scorpio Sun's do not mix well but I really love Scorpio women. I love their loyalty and devotion, even if they are less outwardly emotional like me. Maybe it is my Mars in Scorpio that is attracted to them.

The big stuff I see is -

Her NN conjunct my Venus;
Her Sun conjunct my Pluto;
Her Mercury conjunct my Mars;
Her Mars trine my Sun and Moon;

Can anyone explain the above? Also, what else can you all see here?
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/Dave-and-Bec_zps31fe1a94.jpg


My ex-husband's venus conjuncts my NN with an orb of 4. We were married for 13 years, but I must say too that my Saturn squared his NN with an orb of 0.

Our relationship unfortunately didn't go the distance, but neither of us regrets the time spent and he is still my best friend.

I think what you said is interesting about your Mars in Scorpio and her being a Scorpio. I find this true of me as well. Both my Venus and Mars are in Taurus and I am a Gemini. I find I'm much more attracted to Taurus men and other signs compatible with Taurus than I am signs supposedly compatible with Gemini. Though this may be because my sun falls in my 12th house.


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syrupsplash
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posted January 11, 2015 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for syrupsplash     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, her Venus falls in your 7th house as well and her moon AND sun falls in your 1st house. Lets hope that she was born at noon

Your Sun in your partner's 1st House: You can't help but notice each other! Generally, this overlay generates approval between the two--more specifically, your approval and affection for your partner is welcomed by your partner, offering a pleasant feeling of being able to be open and free in your presence. You give each other an ego boost, and this overlay tends to offer relationships a feeling of camaraderie and general agreement. You awaken all sorts of issues in your partner, and his or her very identity is on the line in this relationship. You energize and stimulate your partner, making him or her more self-aware. In turn, you feel more valuable, recognized, vital, and important as a result of your partner's reactions to you.

Your Moon in your partner’s 1st house:


This aspect indicates a feeling of immediate comfort and mutual caring. The two of you greatly enjoy one another’s company; there is a true feeling of acceptance of one another. The way your partner presents him/herself and behaves gives you a great amount of security and emotiona-well being. Indeed, the Moon person is very attracted to the House person, especially if the Moon person is a man. The House person feels supported and nurtured by the Moon person. This is an indication of a close emotional relationship with plenty of compassion. Your moods tend to blend together. In fact, the house person easily picks up the moods and feelings of the Moon person and instinctively knows how to comfort and console the Moon person. The House person may eventually become dependent on the Moon person for emotional support and security. This is a very common aspect to find in the synastry charts of married couples.

Your Venus in your partner’s 7th house:


The 7th house represents one-on-one relationships, including marriage, long-term partnerships, and business partnerships. This is a strong signifier of overall compatibility and attraction. This is one of the best aspects to have in synastry!


You: You are strongly attracted to your partner. The two of you have a mutual love for one another and have no problem committing to each other. You discover so much about your love nature through being in a relationship with this person. You are highly considerate of your partner’s needs, and greatly desire to please them. Your partner also seeks to please you, and tries to make your relationship as harmonious, loving, and peaceful as possible. As such, conflict is certainly minimized when the two of you are together. The 7th house is naturally ruled by Venus, so you will find that your approaches to love and relationships are eerily similar!


Your partner: You are highly attracted to your partner! You are strongly drawn to another, and the chemistry is magnetic. The two of you greatly admire each other, and have a very similar approach to love and relationship. This makes your relationship seem very natural, as you easily relate to one another. You love being with your partner. You feel so loved and adored by him/her, and they feel the same way about you. You are considerate of each other’s feelings, and have a strong desire to make each other happy. Conflict and disagreements do not plague your relationship; you solve your issues through compromise and cooperation. Being in a relationship with one another feels natural to the both of you. You are likely to see your partner as your ideal mate.

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Ami Anne
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posted January 11, 2015 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll take a look, Dave. It is such a big, nice and easy chart to read!

You will bring her love and she will feel loved. Wild sexually, power plays BUT I don't see it lasting due to one Moon aspect and it is Moon/Saturn.

Hence, it may feel good for a time but when the newness wears off( i.e the lust :smirk I don't see the simpatico keeping you together/

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posted January 11, 2015 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Syrup

He does not have a time of birth for her, my Friend but his is correct.

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Leo-Dave
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posted January 11, 2015 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Dave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Syrup.

Yes like Ami said, I don't have her time if birth unfortunately. She said she couldn't get it either.

Thanks Ami.

I have Moon conjunct Moon with a cousin so I know what it feels like. You may be right about the Moons. But she is hot. What can I do?

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Delilah423
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posted January 11, 2015 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah423     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think anyone has mentioned the Venus/Neptune trine? That can be nice.

I agree with Ami that the Moon-Saturn connection is an important one; however, I would also point out that you have a double whammy: her Moon in Aries quincunx your Saturn in Scorpio, while your Moon in Leo sextiles her Saturn in Libra.

I don't know that a Moon/Saturn quincunx necessarily dooms a relationship; it can be challenging but a little Saturn in the chart is a good thing (probably a requirement) for longevity. See:
http://www.hniizato.com/saturn-synastry-gifts-challenges-saturn-interaspects/

The question for me would be how does she herself handle what appears to be a Moon opposite Saturn/Jupiter in her natal? How does that impact her relationships?

As for you being attracted to Scorpios, keep in mind you have not only Mars but Saturn in Scorpio, and that your ASC is in Pisces. So it doesn't surprise me you'd feel the need for a partner with some water in her chart.

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Leo-Dave
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posted January 11, 2015 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Dave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Delilah423:
I don't think anyone has mentioned the Venus/Neptune trine? That can be nice.

I agree with Ami that the Moon-Saturn connection is an important one; however, I would also point out that you have a double whammy: her Moon in Aries quincunx your Saturn in Scorpio, while your Moon in Leo sextiles her Saturn in Libra.

I don't know that a Moon/Saturn quincunx necessarily dooms a relationship; it can be challenging but a little Saturn in the chart is a good thing (probably a requirement) for longevity. See:
http://www.hniizato.com/saturn-synastry-gifts-challenges-saturn-interaspects/

The question for me would be how does she herself handle what appears to be a Moon opposite Saturn/Jupiter in her natal? How does that impact her relationships?

As for you being attracted to Scorpios, keep in mind you have not only Mars but Saturn in Scorpio, and that your ASC is in Pisces. So it doesn't surprise me you'd feel the need for a partner with some water in her chart.


At this stage I cannot answer how she handles Moon oppose Saturn/Jupiter. Are there some specific questions I should ask to try and obtain the answer?

My Mars is unaspected so maybe even more pull to a Scorpio type person. I love that Scorpio women are so maternal. This woman has 3 kids. My sister is Scorpio and she has 4. My sister is the best mother I've ever seen and that is very attractive to me.

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Ami Anne
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posted January 11, 2015 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
Thanks Syrup.

Yes like Ami said, I don't have her time if birth unfortunately. She said she couldn't get it either.

Thanks Ami.

I have Moon conjunct Moon with a cousin so I know what it feels like. You may be right about the Moons. But she is hot. What can I do?




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Delilah423
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posted January 11, 2015 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah423     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
At this stage I cannot answer how she handles Moon oppose Saturn/Jupiter. Are there some specific questions I should ask to try and obtain the answer?


No; I think it's more a matter of observation and learning about the aspect; lots of interpretations online to help. "Natives need to learn to trust others more. Fear keeps them from fully enjoying personal relationships..."

I have a Pisces Moon/Virgo Saturn opposition that has been difficult for me to deal with most of my life, although the older I get the easier it gets. I can't imagine Jupiter being thrown in the mix. But an Aries Moon would react very differently, and I know next to nothing about Aries Moons so...

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