posted January 11, 2015 09:50 PM            

I don't believe in fatalistic readings of charts, so if anything I say doesn't resonate with you, just ignore it because I'm a rank amateur. Let your head and your heart be your guide. Use the charts to understand your psyche, not to make specific decisions about how you will live your life.

I cannot see/read the type of chart you posted very well, so I ran your natals, synastry, composite, and Davison on astro.com.

I think the natals and synastry are more important given the long-distance issue, but the composite and Davison not surprisingly also reflect a very strong Cancer/Capricorn axis. The theme that pops out at me in all the charts is how are you both going to balance your need for a comfortable home (Cancer) with responsibility, practicality, and loyalty (Capricorn)?

You are both Cancer Suns, but his Cancer Sun in the 4th house opposite his Capricorn Mars in the 10th, so at some point you may have to be the one who moves to Germany. Are you ever going to be able/willing to do that is the question you may want to ask yourself?

Your Neptune/Uranus conjunct his Mars may help shake him up a bit and lead to movement on his part, but I'm not sure it would be enough to overcome his need for home and to act and work responsibly.

posted January 14, 2015 01:33 PM            

I have a difficult time myself reading composites, so I'll just give this a tiny bump and see what others have to say!

posted January 14, 2015 01:57 PM            

Uranus opp. Moon - this may make you feel emotionally insecure because of instability... and of course you feel this because it's a long-distance relationship!

Like the other member said tho - I think individuals' natals and synastry become more important here. My last guy and I shared strong composite too but we ended because he could not handle long distance relationship too well and I only agreed to work on us if both of us were in it together to work at it. He had Saturn conjunct on his IC, my Chiron on his MC in synastry so I think that made it difficult for him even more in our situation.

posted January 23, 2015 06:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Rabbysue:
Synastry chart added. Bump

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posted January 23, 2015 06:25 PM              

I feel that there is very strong emotional between you two and it seems charts also suggest that.

I can't really tell what's gonna happen in future for your relationship...
But as a person who's going through the Saturn opposite moon synastry, I would strongly advise you to be VERY VERY careful with how you give him advices and so on.
Some of the advices you give him, he gets really emotionally hurt from it and all, especially with that leo moon of his. It seems ego of his maybe pain in the ass

posted January 25, 2015 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
I myself am in a long distance relationship (we travel 6 to 7 hours to see each other every month) where composite chart forms kite formation and notable synastry aspects like saturn opposite moon, partner's saturn in 7th house, etc

I feel that there is very strong emotional between you two and it seems charts also suggest that.

I can't really tell what's gonna happen in future for your relationship...
But as a person who's going through the Saturn opposite moon synastry, I would strongly advise you to be VERY VERY careful with how you give him advices and so on.
Some of the advices you give him, he gets really emotionally hurt from it and all, especially with that leo moon of his. It seems ego of his maybe pain in the ass

And honestly, this is really hard. In my case, I constantly tell myself everyday about how I may be viewed as a control freak, and I meditate and all, but here and there my desire to give advices to my partner just slips out. Guiding the person towards the good the right way is really really hard

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I' m in a long distance relationship too and my partner lives in europe and i' m in los angeles. she is thinking of moving to toronto ontario canada but it is really hard to do so due to the immigration process over there in canada i' m sorry if this was random to message you but i realized your from there and how you obviously can relate to long distance relationships, i wanted to know if you have any advice or if you would be able to look at my composite?? i'd love your feedback thank you
Angelica

posted January 26, 2015 05:58 AM              

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Also the tricky thing is, his moon/venus borders between Virgo and Leo. So I really don't know how to interpret this kind of situation. How would you interpret placements sits on the border?

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Oops! I sincerely apologize. It appears that his mercury and venus is in leo 6th house, while moon is also in 6th house, but can be both interpreted as Leo or virgo.

posted January 26, 2015 06:08 AM              

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Originally posted by angel4845:
I' m in a long distance relationship too and my partner lives in europe and i' m in los angeles. she is thinking of moving to toronto ontario canada but it is really hard to do so due to the immigration process over there in canada i' m sorry if this was random to message you but i realized your from there and how you obviously can relate to long distance relationships, i wanted to know if you have any advice or if you would be able to look at my composite?? i'd love your feedback thank you
Angelica

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posted January 26, 2015 06:24 PM              

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Yes, I am Chinese...but I'm currently studying in US. ;(

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posted January 26, 2015 06:35 PM              

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(Also he has Saturn in 7th house) Last October/November we had a big fight. Nobody was cheating or doing anything outrageous; it was because of the tragic misunderstandings prone to happen in LDR.

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Trust me, I know how you feel. My girlfriend has saturn in 7th house as well. Saturn in 7th house is big pain the ass to deal with romantically.

The big problem is, he unconsciously does not understand what normal people would need in relationships. You most likely did so much for him, but instead he focuses on stuff that you don't find necessary.
7th house/Libra stuff like... creating harmony with everyone? and focusing so hard on how he looks to other people, more than how he looks to you? He ends up looking greedy and egoistic. Greedy because he tries to keep it all, not believing in Newton's third Law: You must give up something to gain something. Egoistic because he doesn't listen and doesn't seem to be making progress.

And what ends up happening is.. HEY! I'VE DONE SO MUCH FOR YOU, AND IT FEELS LIKE YOU ARE NOT EVEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP, and in response, he'd be like WHY ARE YOU ANGRY, I'VE BEEN TRYING SO HARD TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY. But little did he know, all his romantic partners couldn't care less about how he tries so hard to make everyone happy, and they are honestly not supposed to if it means that their partner is the one losing out on that.

His Natal venus squares his saturn as well, so it's really unfortunate but he's gonna have REAL hard time understanding what you need from him, which is what anybody else would need in relationship
Honestly, I feel for you sister... and when I say you may have a patience of a saint, you do have a patience of a saint.

But please do understand that all this is not his fault, its just something that his born with just like how I am born with critical nature unconsciously.

Basically, this is all doom and gloom
When he finally does come to understand, he will be by far the most loyal and respectful partner you will ever know.
But I honestly don't know how you are gonna guide him there. Knowing all this, I myself failed with my partner. And she didn't even have Venus square Saturn, she had Venus trine Saturn in 7th house!
But he is indeed much older than my partner, and hopefully much more mature.
Another good news is, YES HE WILL NOT GIVE UP ON YOU, and the fact that he's coming all the way to Chicago for you to see him means a lot. Saturn in 7th house people don't give up. What they usually do is, they constantly bang their head against the door in attempt to open it, although they have the key in their hand.
And of course, their partners get so frustrated, so much so that they start to manipulate the Saturn in 7th house person for their own good, not for any dark reasons, hoping that they would finally understand that they have the key in their hand.

In short, He really loves you, but he unconsciously does a horrible job at showing it. And chances of him doing anything to hurt you INTENTIONALLY is highly unlikely. Let's see how the Saturn return plays out here though. It will be the ultimate judgement day for the relationship

posted January 26, 2015 08:38 PM            

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And I am Korean xD

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