posted January 20, 2015 01:06 PM            

I've never had Dejanira contact (that I know of) before. I do not know if it's that cut-and-dry with Dejanira. And then there's the few squares with Mercury. My brain hasn't been able to process this chart yet. I could use the 411 on what I should be warned about. Leave this man alone? Hit the hills running?

HE'S ON THE OUTSIDE. AND I DO NOT HAVE HIS BIRTHTIME

posted January 20, 2015 02:12 PM            

I appreciate the warning there. I'm quite calculated with words at times myself but who's to say he couldn't throw me for a loop!

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Originally posted by VestaFlake:
with 'dat dejaneira' I think he is the one who should be afraid?
but his mercuy conj. nessus tells a story about malipulative word games.

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posted January 21, 2015 10:05 AM            

I do not like that his Nessus is exactly conjunct his Mercury, he can be a savage with words! In leo he thinks he always needs to shine and IC he doesn't get it he can turn evil. I could see issues with authority because of that. But between you and him...your Pluto squares this place in his chart.
That's 2 powerhouses in a major battle for ultimate control, Pluto doesn't back down and neither does Nessus!

So, personal experience here....my Nessus sits on my Mars, 2.5 degrees, much further than his Nessus on his Mercury.
My ex had Mars sitting on my Nessus, it took a couple years but he woke up my Nessus. When he did, let me tell you I learned Mars has NOTHING on Nessus!

I temporarily turned evil on him like nothing I've ever seen before or since. My Mars is in Gemini, so the thoughts that went through my head were evil at times. Fortunately being gem Mars, Mercury Mars the thoughts stayed in my head, not acted to much, I could stop myself from going to far
The words could be evil, sometimes I did say scary things, I liked scaring him.
I made plans on how to stop him from further hurting me. I bought a gun and learned how to use it. Then with a smile, I showed him my target practice and how good of a shot I was, straight at the head at heart. I found out what my rights were if I had to kill him, what would be considered self defense and what wouldn't. Then I made sure and had proof of the history of abuse. I did all this with a smile I told him all about it...it was so much fun(at that time, now I cring when I think about it..but that was Nessus alive and full force)
I made his life hell and scared him the ways he's scared me until he finally quit trying to get to me and hurt me further. Today, 8 years later we are friends but he will never go toe to for with me again, he says he's scared of me. Lol

So...that being said, I'm not sure but your Pluto will have a desire to breakdown and rebuild his Mercury, being that it's conjunct Nessus...I'd be scared!
The square will make that battle one that is not pleasant or easy.....I would worry about that. I'm sure how tight that square is but that's a battle I would not want to be in.
BUT...my daughters Mars squares my Nessus and my sons Mars and Venus square my Nessus, we don't have any battles like this at all but tey don't go after me and try to hurt me either.
I'm not naturally a person who tends toward Nessus type energy, I'm very gentle and accommodating. I have a lot of libra, saggy and virgo, im all about peace, pretty things, optimism, learning, humility and taking care of others not hurting others!

posted January 21, 2015 02:09 PM            

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I do not like that his Nessus is exactly conjunct his Mercury, he can be a savage with words! In leo he thinks he always needs to shine and IC he doesn't get it he can turn evil. I could see issues with authority because of that. But between you and him...your Pluto squares this place in his chart. That's 2 powerhouses in a major battle for ultimate control, Pluto doesn't back down and neither does Nessus!

I can tell you, I am 100% power hungry! So *cringing* this would be the warning I better take heed to. Like, seriously. I'm all for going to war but not if it incites some new level evil. Wow.

I made his life hell and scared him the ways he's scared me until he finally quit trying to get to me and hurt me further. Today, 8 years later we are friends but he will never go toe to for with me again, he says he's scared of me. Lol

Reading how your Nessus unfolded, kinda scares me! You're just SO bad ass clearly! I'm really appreciating that kind of feedback; I can definitely identify this energy better, should I finally find a chart who triggers mine.

So...that being said, I'm not sure but your Pluto will have a desire to breakdown and rebuild his Mercury, being that it's conjunct Nessus...I'd be scared!

See, I'm going in with kid gloves! lol b/c I like this guy for the "kid" relationship we had. But uhhh, we're not kids anymore and I will tread ever-softly. This huge gap in time and communication is a big deal, especially now that I have an astrology blueprint going on.

I'm not naturally a person who tends toward Nessus type energy, I'm very gentle and accommodating. I have a lot of libra, saggy and virgo, im all about peace, pretty things, optimism, learning, humility and taking care of others not hurting others!

SO glad you didn't have to experience going to battle with your kids. Even better that you're sweet as caramel corn! But I will always chuckle at your Nessus story Evil was sparked within a sweetheart!

I hope your guy doesn't enjoy the Nessus energy, an exact conjunction could mean it's so ingrained into his thinking he doesn't know anything different, it's just how his mind works.If he still is getting into trouble and having run ins with the law, he's not going to be good for you so I'd stay away!

I really look forward to keeping you posted on this one Gabby. We've just, got communication going; no in depth conversation at all just yet. It's a must to share my experience, and I'm very intrigued by it. Thank you for responding, "Dirty Harriet"

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posted January 22, 2015 09:54 PM            

I had a night early in my Nessus waking up my that I was sitting in my living room, literally sitting on my hands. I was staring at a large metal candle holder thinking it would be so easy...he's sound asleep in the other room, he'd never know it was coming. Ugh!! It's embarrassing to admit how savage the energy was.

The next day I kicked him out, and got a restraining order....I knew if he was allowed near me and tried to hurt me again this battle was going to get very serious.
I didn't want to go to prison for killing my children's father.
I didn't want my kids to have that as their lives either.
Logically I knew I had to find another way to stop him from hurting me immediately, before I went to far.

That's when I started finding out my rights, using the law to protect myself and bought the gun. By then i was more scared of myself than I was him. I knew if he was allowed to hurt me, this energy was ready and willing to end his life to protect mine. That's dangerous!!
I did beat him up once, I went into a kind of black out and woke up with him on the floor curled up sobbing. I was standing over him hitting him with a stiletto, lol.

This happened the same day I had to sit on my hands and stop myself from hurting him with the candle stick.
That was the peak of it all. Nessus woke up and all of this I've just explained happened within a 24 hour period.
From then on I kept my distance and focused on getting him to stop hurting me so this energy would not explode into life and destroy everything.
For a few years after all that, all I had to do was take my shoe off and act like I was going to go after him, lol...even if I was wearing a flip flop he'd jump and run away calling me crazy! Lol... I'm 5'2, 108lbs and he's 5'11 and 170....yeah Nessus can make anyone a badass, even when your nearly a midget!

We had a long talk a few weeks ago, he said I didn't really hurt him when I beat him up. Lol
He said he was crying and letting me beat him up because he knew he deserved it and wanted me to get it all out....whatever!! Lol
No matter if that's true or not(I think I did hurt him ) that was just the tip of the Nessus iceberg, he didn't realize how much I was holding back.

We laughed and cried about it when we talked a few weeks ago. We both apologized for the way everything went down. We agreed we are different ppl today and learned so much from everything that happened.