posted January 28, 2015 10:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Whutchsn:
I'm new to Astrology and I have a lot to learn but just looking at his Natal. I bet it has a lot to do with his moon in Gemini. But from my own experience with men who blow hot and cold, focus on yourself. Continue to date others. Give him a reason to chase you. With his Mars in Sag, he will chase. Fire signs like to win. Him chasing you will give him the feeling that he must have you and he has to win. Which in turn will make him fall hard for you. With his Venus being in Scorpio, he will become devoted. Mirror his actions. He blows cold, you blow cold. He comes to you, allow him. Over time his absences will become few.

I hope this helps. I'm experiencing something similar but a lot more complicated. Hugs.

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i appreciate your input Whut, thank you so much! i totally understand what you are feeling as well. *hugs* ... i've been trying to remain calm, but i can't help be a bit anxious or internalizing the situation. its just all too confusing when one moment, him and i were both were feeling this intense connection and then the next he just ghost on me .. leaving me with all this open space to wonder what just happened!!!

i will pull away, and see if he returns! good luck with your situation as well! love