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Aquarian Moon
Newflake

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From: NJ, USA
Registered: Jan 2015

posted January 31, 2015 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello!

I'm wondering if someone can give me insight about this friendship I have with a woman I use to work with.

Some background info: We make each other laugh a lot, but had more in common when we worked together. We sometimes catch up by meeting for lunch/dinner and talking, but things are not as smooth as they have once been. The other night, I told her something personal and she said, "If you need to talk about it, call me."

What makes me nervous about this is that I have had a hard time making good, lasting friendships as an adult. When people say nice things to me, I always think they are being nice, and not sincere. I know it's my own natal flaw (I read it somewhere in my chart, but I don't remember what it is).

I wonder if we have chemistry fitting a good friendship and if I can trust her.

Our Synastry Chart:

[IMG]http://i1379.photobucket.com/albums/ah129/AquarianMoon/FriendSynastry_zpsa75792db .jpg[/IMG]

Our Aspects (I am the 1st person, she the 2nd):

[IMG]http://i1379.photobucket.com/albums/ah129/AquarianMoon/FriendAspects_zpsc9cda0b5.j pg[/IMG]

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Aquarian Moon
Newflake

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From: NJ, USA
Registered: Jan 2015

posted February 01, 2015 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any individual insight would be so appreciated.

I know this is not as sexy as a partner synastry.

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Odette
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posted February 01, 2015 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly... Looking at the synastry, I don't get the impression that this would be a friendship match made in heaven. There is nothing that jumps out at me as very negative either. But it seems like you are pretty different people deep down. You are more overt, open, honest and she is more secretive and private. You could end up seeing her behaviour as two-faced, purely because she has a lot of mutable energy - so she is not very decisive and can often change her mind and her opinions.

I think this can work as a more detached friendship - but not as a very close friendship. If you share everything with her and tell her your life story, you'll probably regret it... because she is too different from you to truly understand you. She can easily misinterpret things or give you advice that you simply find irrelevant and unhelpful.

One positive aspect I noticed is her Jupiter on your NN. If you simply hang out sometimes - you could find it fun to be around each other, due to the jovial Jupiter influence. You might like her vibe in small doses. But if you get too close - you'll have enough of her imo

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Aquarian Moon
Newflake

Posts: 18
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Jan 2015

posted February 02, 2015 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, Odette.

Thank you for your post. I had a feeling we would be better off as acquaintances. I feel like she doesn't understand me as well as I want her to. You just confirmed it for me.

Again, thank you soooo much. ♥


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