posted February 01, 2015 10:33 AM            

We have other tight aspects and double whammies...

His Cancer Mars trine my Scorpio Sun 0 deg
His Leo Sun trine my Sagittarius Mars 2 deg
His Virgo Venus square my Sagittarius Mars 0 deg
His Cancer Mars square my Libra Venus 5 deg
His Jupiter conjunct my Venus 0 deg, Saturn is there too by 2 deg
His Pluto conjunct my Moon 0 deg(I have Moon/Pluto conjunct by 1 deg in the 8th in my natal chart)
He's also a Scorpio Moon. I don't know his birthtime, but his Moon could be conjunct my Sun by less than 5 degrees. I get giddy just thinking about how hot our synastry is!!!

I have never been attracted to a Leo Man, and I swore it would never happen. I actually thought he was a Cancer. Our Suns square by 2 deg too, so this could be too hot to handle, but I do have 5 planets in Libra so that helps. His Venus is in my 7 th, and his Mars in my 5 th.....I'm definitely smitten. I think he'd at least be the best sex of my life, but neither of us can do casual relationships so I'm proceeding with caution.

posted February 03, 2015 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
Whoah that sounds amazing. Which of those planets is closest to the NN? I've heard that in synastry only planets within 3 degrees conjunct the NN have influence.

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That's true manderin!

posted February 03, 2015 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
I have this with a guy, his Sun conjunct my North Node 0 degrees and parallel too, and on my Descendant by 2 degrees. I felt an instant attraction to him when I met him last June, and I know the attraction is mutual. I had recently split from my ex of 14 years, so I've taken my time feeling out the situation. From the moment I met him, I felt it was very fated.

We have other tight aspects and double whammies...

His Cancer Mars trine my Scorpio Sun 0 deg
His Leo Sun trine my Sagittarius Mars 2 deg
His Virgo Venus square my Sagittarius Mars 0 deg
His Cancer Mars square my Libra Venus 5 deg
His Jupiter conjunct my Venus 0 deg, Saturn is there too by 2 deg
His Pluto conjunct my Moon 0 deg(I have Moon/Pluto conjunct by 1 deg in the 8th in my natal chart)
He's also a Scorpio Moon. I don't know his birthtime, but his Moon could be conjunct my Sun by less than 5 degrees. I get giddy just thinking about how hot our synastry is!!!

I have never been attracted to a Leo Man, and I swore it would never happen. I actually thought he was a Cancer. Our Suns square by 2 deg too, so this could be too hot to handle, but I do have 5 planets in Libra so that helps. His Venus is in my 7 th, and his Mars in my 5 th.....I'm definitely smitten. I think he'd at least be the best sex of my life, but neither of us can do casual relationships so I'm proceeding with caution.

I can say that he ignited a fire in me that gives me hope for the future when I've been feeling rather apathetic about life lately. I think that's the Sun/North Node giving me that feeling.

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posted February 05, 2015 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
I have to admit I find it interesting how often people who say they are smitten are the NN people. It seems it's rarely the planet person that has the same intensity of desire. Seems like the planet person also feels an attraction, but perhaps isn't as infatuated with NN person.

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posted February 13, 2015 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
That's awesome!! I'm so happy for you Bluejay!!

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Thanks Gabby! I'm curious to see how your situation plays out with all of that action on your North Node. He must have quite an impact on you.

I forgot to mention that his Mercury is conjunct my NN too by 2 degrees. My 4th, 5th, and 8th house cusps are ruled by Mercury so I think that adds to the attraction.

Do you feel a strong sense of fate or destiny with this guy? I ask because that's how I felt when I first met him. It turns out that we know some of the same people, and might have crossed paths in the past. He is from my home state, but from cities hundreds of miles away. I met him a week after moving 1,100 miles from my home city, after splitting with my ex. I was looking at pictures on his social media and recognized a girl that I knew. She was married to one of his best friends, and was the maid of honor in my friend's wedding where my ex was the best man!!! I've hung out with that couple before, and it's possible that this guy was at the wedding too, but I don't remember since it was in 2004. My friend and this guy have several friends in common, but sadly my friend died in 2006. When I found out where he was from I almost asked him if he'd known my friend since they lived about 30 miles from each other, I just had a feeling they knew each other. My friend actually told me in a dream years ago to move to the area I'm living now, which played a big part in why I moved. I've been dreaming about him a lot lately.

There are tons of other synchronicities between us....I was supposed to attend the university in his hometown, but changed my mind at the last minute and went to a different school, and I was going to intern at the corporate headquarters of the company he currently works for, but when I changed my major that plan changed as well. I feel like we were supposed to meet one way or another. I intuitively KNEW there were connections between us, it's just a weird feeling. I should add that I'm from one of the largest cities in the US and he is from a suburb of a very large city, so it's not like knowing the same people from a small town. I haven't told him yet, because I will have to fess up to stalking-or should I say researching him online , but I'll have to now.

posted February 13, 2015 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
I have to admit I find it interesting how often people who say they are smitten are the NN people. It seems it's rarely the planet person that has the same intensity of desire. Seems like the planet person also feels an attraction, but perhaps isn't as infatuated with NN person.

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Oh, not so.

I've got NNODE conjunct SUN (0º) with someone, and, let me tell you ... it's been hardly my intention to 'make him work'. Really, the timing just always seemed off.

But he's been interested in some kind of relationship with me since I got to LA. I was hella mousy when I first arrived, and entered the business, but he found something latent and fascinating within me from the get-go.

And, since it's the NODES here, and clearly some fate's involved, luck would have it, a few years later, we stumbled into each other in, let's say, a different sort of community and scene.

I'd say I honestly don't deserve the attention this man lavishes upon me, fairly consistently for the last two years, but my husband says he loves the chase. Yeeeeeahhhh. That's true.

So, his SUN, my NNODE. He's clearly infatuated. But other factors have always led to my feeling just a bit intimidating. And before I began the relationship with my boyfriend, I would've thought a bit too many years my senior. (About 15.) Yeah, that's not the issue. He's just a tad intimidating.

I blame the PLUTO on my VENUS, actually. I still find my boyfriend's energy slightly intimidating, for that reason.

posted February 14, 2015 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Thanks Gabby! I'm curious to see how your situation plays out with all of that action on your North Node. He must have quite an impact on you.

I forgot to mention that his Mercury is conjunct my NN too by 2 degrees. My 4th, 5th, and 8th house cusps are ruled by Mercury so I think that adds to the attraction.

Do you feel a strong sense of fate or destiny with this guy? I ask because that's how I felt when I first met him. It turns out that we know some of the same people, and might have crossed paths in the past. He is from my home state, but from cities hundreds of miles away. I met him a week after moving 1,100 miles from my home city, after splitting with my ex. I was looking at pictures on his social media and recognized a girl that I knew. She was married to one of his best friends, and was the maid of honor in my friend's wedding where my ex was the best man!!! I've hung out with that couple before, and it's possible that this guy was at the wedding too, but I don't remember since it was in 2004. My friend and this guy have several friends in common, but sadly my friend died in 2006. When I found out where he was from I almost asked him if he'd known my friend since they lived about 30 miles from each other, I just had a feeling they knew each other. My friend actually told me in a dream years ago to move to the area I'm living now, which played a big part in why I moved. I've been dreaming about him a lot lately.

There are tons of other synchronicities between us....I was supposed to attend the university in his hometown, but changed my mind at the last minute and went to a different school, and I was going to intern at the corporate headquarters of the company he currently works for, but when I changed my major that plan changed as well. I feel like we were supposed to meet one way or another. I intuitively KNEW there were connections between us, it's just a weird feeling. I should add that I'm from one of the largest cities in the US and he is from a suburb of a very large city, so it's not like knowing the same people from a small town. I haven't told him yet, because I will have to fess up to stalking-or should I say researching him online , but I'll have to now.

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Very interesting Bluejay!! Wow! So many synchronicities(sp?) it must be the fate playing out in this type of aspect.

Yes I do feel the fated'ness to, like you mentioned.
I found out yesterday I drive past his office at least 2x's a week, it's very close to my home.
He works out daily at a gym I was about to join until I found out he goes there...it's not even a mile from my house.
We live in a huge city and where we met and he comes to visit me is 30+ minutes from my home and his office.
I had no idea our private lives, my home/his office are not even 5 minutes apart. He mentioned where it was once but I was not familiar with that area...I had no idea it was so close to me.
We have 2 friends in common, I have not asked them how they know him yet though.