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posted February 06, 2015 07:05 PM            

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Hi, I'm relatively new here, and usually I just lurk around but would like to be more active, these message boards are just so interesting!

Just wondering if anyone has any insight on this particular aspect? My first instinct is that there would be some kind of maternal past life connection, like mother-child relationship, but I'd really appreciate if anyone has any insights or personal experience with this aspect and would like to share! Thank-you so much.

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posted February 07, 2015 01:08 PM            

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More like emotional contracts from the past. It's one of those which requires examining the whole pattern (and synastry which affects that conjunction) to understand the connexion.

General rule of thumb many follow is 'SNODE owes the debt'. When it's the MOON involved, it involves the emotions, bonds of dependency, issues from childhood, and so on.

This might relate to an ongoing maternal contract elsewhere, that's here for resolution, but that's not been my personal experience. As they say, your mileage will vary, so stick with evaluating synastry as a whole.

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posted February 09, 2015 04:53 AM            

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My one experience was with my ex's wife who has SN on my Moon. From the beginning and for ten years, even after being married to my ex for years she has been jealous of me, which to this day I don't understand. The fact that this negativity has lasted so long finally led me to suspect a past life connection. That's when I looked it up and found the SN/Moon connection. She's much younger than my ex and me and seemed like a child when I met her, although I don't have any maternal feelings towards her. I reached out to her a couple of times, and have been rebuffed each time. I suppose the karma will have to carry over to another lifetime, unfortunately.

There are a number of hard aspects as well: Mars square Mars and Saturn square Saturn. Her Saturn also opposes my Chiron (the heartbreak aspect) and her jealousy made the break up with my ex one of the hardest times in my life. Couldn't blame my ex because I know better than that and we're still good friends.

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posted February 09, 2015 04:56 PM            

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Thank you Aubyanne and peony for your replies!

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posted February 09, 2015 05:12 PM            

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Well, if we're getting personal, heh ...

It's with my Twin. We've had a long, sometimes beautiful, sometimes extremely ugly, complex, volatile relationship spanning a near-decade. Starting out as writing partners, then exploring a relationship, leading to a misunderstanding that will never be resolved that led to a later professional relationship (TV show creators) with an undercurrent of antagonism that EVERYBODY felt. Until I finally couldn't stand it anymore and shelved the project. Though, in my defence, it followed his switching careers and going into another industry. Sure, it was an excuse to break away, but I'm not going to drop a project for personal reasons -- no matter how impossible.

Astrologically ...

My MOON locks right into his SATURN-SNODE-KARMA. Yeah. So, one karmic point? Try three. In Scorpio, no less.

He loves and hates me, often in the same breath. It's rather ... fascinating. Strange? Talented? Hell if I know anymore.

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posted February 09, 2015 06:34 PM            

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Wow, Aubyanne, the relationship you are describing has a lot of parallels to the one in my own life that prompted me ask this question!! Thank you for sharing!! You've also inspired me to take a look at Karma in the synastry
I have this aspect with someone who I have a complicated relationship with, full of highs and lows, friendship, love, enmity, all of it. And yet we can't seem to fully leave each other behind, though it would probably be for the best...

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posted February 09, 2015 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by saggyscorp:
Wow, Aubyanne, the relationship you are describing has a lot of parallels to the one in my own life that prompted me ask this question!! Thank you for sharing!! You've also inspired me to take a look at Karma in the synastry
I have this aspect with someone who I have a complicated relationship with, full of highs and lows, friendship, love, enmity, all of it. And yet we can't seem to fully leave each other behind, though it would probably be for the best...

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If there's even the hint of abuse, or he's not being straight with you -- leave it behind. Had I done so, before things tried to take a real turn into a real relationship ... he might still be my best friend.

So, let it be a cautionary tale of sorts.

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posted February 10, 2015 05:10 PM            

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That's some sage advice, Aubyanne. Thanks so much for your replies
Things never went as far as to be abusive, just very emotional, volatile. I don't live in the same city anymore, which does make it easier, but with modern technology, it's a little harder to disconnect. We are friends at the moment, but I'm feeling conflicted about even taking part in that. I feel like it's just time to move on, but something kind of pulls at me, makes me doubtful.

I think what you said about the S node person "owing" something makes a lot of sense. This person helped me to learn and grow a lot, and I am thankful -but- I feel like I gave just as much, if not more, to this person, and really helped them move up in their life, and yet they don't seem to realize it. I think a lot of my "hanging on" is actually waiting for some appreciation, which is silly. Looking at it in this way, it just makes it easier to walk away in peace.

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posted February 10, 2015 05:19 PM            

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Also, because you mentioned it I decided to look at Karma in our synastry...
His Karma squares my Moon, and mine Karma is conjunct his Moon. Weirddd.

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