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Anxiousknot
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posted February 08, 2015 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anxiousknot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my first post.I have been away from astrology for a few years forgotten a lot and could really use some insight.
The situation involves myself and a man i have known socially for about five years.In all the time i have known him i have been in a relationship up until about six months ago when my long term relationship ended.
Since then we have been out a few times with the intention of getting to know each other better and seeing where if anywhere it leads us.
I feel comfortable in his company but at the moment i also feel an intensity between us burning away below the surface and it feels quite dark.Not that that worries me too much my eighth house is full,venus is in there trineing my uranus.Its a feeling i can't quite define so i looked at our charts,it still did,nt quite explain the feeling then i threw in a few asteroids and um well i am not sure what i should do now.I don't know if i should run for the hills or give him encouragement which i'm pretty sure he would respond positively to.

In my natal chart i have mars/north node/IC conjunct, his saturn conjoins this within 2 degrees,now i know i should possibly be concerned with the mars saturn conjunction but his saturn conjunct my north node and IC what is the significance of this please?

We also have my ness/mercury conjunct his dej almost exact.this is trine the mars saturn contact mentioned above.

My saturn/amore/venus conjunction conjoins his ness again exact with saturn this falls at 29 degrees and we both have other planets and asteroids at this degree.

our moons are square but my moon conjoins his sun and his moon conjoins my sun wide orbs though seven degrees but wider orbs are still influential with the luminaries are'nt they?
His moon is in my eigth possibly conjunct my eros/dej.I don't have his birth time so his chart is for noon so his moon could actually be 6 degrees befor or after in which case his moon would either be closer to my sun or my cupid/dej

His venus trines my ASC and depending on his birth time could form a grand trine with his moon.

my venus is sextile to his mars/karma and our karmas are conjunct exact.I have no idea on the significance of this one either and would love to know your thoughts please.

His cupid/eros oppose my psyche and are inconjunct our ness/dej conjunction.

Our chirons are semi sextile very close orb and my chiron is conjunct orb of 3 degrees his sun/mercury

I would really appreciate anybodys thoughts on this please


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Aubyanne
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posted February 08, 2015 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome back to astrology, and welcome to IA.

Unfortunately, your chart's already expired.

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Anxiousknot
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posted February 08, 2015 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anxiousknot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you aubyanne. Am just trying to sort out the charts via photobucket

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Anxiousknot
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posted February 08, 2015 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anxiousknot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is the composite
http://s1383.photobucket.com/user/anxiousknot/media/astro_621gw_13_02_aries_man_carol7625825069composite_zps5d7fe6da.gif.html

and this is the synastry
http://s1383.photobucket.com/user/anxiousknot/media/astro_61gw_13_02_aries_man_carol7367718664synastry2_zps4e6945f5.gif.html

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Aubyanne
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posted February 08, 2015 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, if only you knew his TOB! That SUN conjunct MOON in composite would be lovely.

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Aubyanne
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posted February 08, 2015 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm seeing a lot, though, Carol.

At the very least, we know your MOON's on his SUN, and his MOON might be on yours, but we can't say anything unless a TOB is known.

And your NESSUS is conjunct his DEJA! Eureka! Someone else!

How do you feel about that? Honestly? I know that I've never been manipulative -- in fact, I've given him a wide berth and acted on the side of being cautious. However, there's certainly been a deep sort of motivating factor that's kept him in my life and encouraged a powerful connexion on a very basic level.

I've not encountered anyone else with a NESSUS/DEJA conjunction, in which it was her NESSUS to his DEJA.

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Anxiousknot
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posted February 08, 2015 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anxiousknot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks for replying aubyanne

Yes if only i knew his TOB but i would say that his moon is most likely in cancer. He definatly comes across as a moon trine venus in water this is how most people see him i think.Then there is his sun/mercury trine mars in fire signs, this side of him i have always been able to see.He is'nt flashy but owns a sports car is always polite and dresses like he has 50p in the bank(as do i lol) .

Yes there is a lot going on and i am too out of practice to even begin to draw the threads together at the moment.Astro charts are great but there is nothing like concentrating the mind by sitting and drawing a chart with fine pens and a ruler lol.Have been out bought some new pens and plan on breaking down the synastry chart into seperate charts with just the planets/points/asteroids that we share at the 27-5 degree and the 15-20 degree angles to begin with to see if that makes it any clearer.

As for the ness/dej don't know if this has anything to do with it but a younger me would have ran away and never looked him in the eye ever again the way he has been looking at me the last few weeks has been so intense,but he knows i have just left a long term relationship and is waiting for me to make the moves in my own time but the thought of simply texting him makes me feel so predatory i just can't do it.

So am waiting till next time i see him socially in the hopes that i will be able to act normally around him and possibly arrange to go out again,but looking at the synastry i really don't know what to do.Can't tell if i'm looking at a potential train wreck or a meeting of souls with a strong potential for mutual healing and understanding.

Any thoughts,insights or interpretations are most welcome as i am currently clueless lol

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Aubyanne
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posted February 09, 2015 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a great idea, honestly. Simplicity. Start with the basics, and work from the ground up. Really.

I feel there's a lot here. I don't think he'd feel you're predatory for showing interest, though. Different times now!

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Anxiousknot
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posted February 11, 2015 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anxiousknot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So i've seen him managed to act normally lol and we are meeting up again next week.I am in equal parts both really happy and really anxious about this.
The saturn thing is bothering me i do not fully understand the significance of his saturn conjunct my Mars/NN/IC.Does this indicate a past life connection? Does it always mean that the saturn person will try and be in control of the mars person?

I'm also having problems finding info on his mars/karma conjunct my karma.Does anybody have any idea as to the significance of this please?

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