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Yanmorg
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posted February 08, 2015 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MY NATAL:

HIS NATAL:

OUR SYNASTRY

OUR COMPOSITE:

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Aubyanne
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posted February 08, 2015 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That you're incredibly anxious, trying to make a decision, and are suddenly very freaked out by something. Like a fear of loss? I'm not entirely sure, because your energy is SO jumbled.

Purely speaking from an astrological level, I'm a wee concerned with his NESSUS hovering so close to your SUN. This is an energy that, typically, takes some maturity to properly harness, and so strong a contact earlier in life ... I'd be aware.

Not that I'm doubting your SUN-PLUTO can handle itself, but NESSUS is a tough one.

I've had wonderful relationships with very evolved men, and endured hellacious nightmares with abusers.

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posted February 08, 2015 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How did you know that? Yes. Spot on.

& abuse? As in physical abuse?

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posted February 09, 2015 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
How did you know that? Yes. Spot on.

& abuse? As in physical abuse?


Sometimes it just comes through and loudly and clearly. Cuts through all of the other noise in your head, and becomes very, very sharp.

NESSUS can be anything. Again, sometimes, it's a very motivating force which can bring the more hesitant together and overcome obstacles. At others, NESSUS can be more like his mythical namesake: ruthless, abusive, obsessive and cruel. As to why, the reasons can vary.

Have you known him to be this way?

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posted February 09, 2015 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Sometimes it just comes through and loudly and clearly. Cuts through all of the other noise in your head, and becomes very, very sharp.

NESSUS can be anything. Again, sometimes, it's a very motivating force which can bring the more hesitant together and overcome obstacles. At others, NESSUS can be more like his mythical namesake: ruthless, abusive, obsessive and cruel. As to why, the reasons can vary.

Have you known him to be this way?



Who's energy is jumbled exactly? Our energy as a couple or my energy alone?


I think it's true in both cases.


But he is actually very calm & kind. Emotional abusive would never cross my mind. He's no angel and he has selfish ways just like of us, but abusive would never be a word I would use describe him. He's very mystical and romantic in an intellectual spiritual way. It's cute. Abusive? Not at all unless I don't know him like I think I do & judging from all that Scorpio between us mentally, there's no room for hidden motives between us. When I read your post, I was actually rather shocked.


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posted February 10, 2015 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
?

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Aubyanne
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posted February 10, 2015 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds good then.

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posted February 11, 2015 02:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, I don't see it lasting forever. His Aqua VENUS will eventually drive your Scorp VENUS up the WALL with how detached he can be, and I reckon it'll happen a lot.

He's natally got VENUS as a skipped step, plus a MOON-CHIRON opposition. He's terrified of exposing himself and getting burned for it, so he's the type to clam himself up at the first sign of trouble, and dilute and distribute all his affection equally to everyone he knows (this runs counter to Scorp, who wants it ALL). You also have SUN square SUN. And your Libra MOON may get frustrated with his wishy-washy Pisces MOON.

In good news, you have MERCURY trine MERCURY, both in water, so you can communicate effectively. His MARS aspects your EROS, so he has a natural propensity to turn you on. Your MARS trines his EROS, but you've got MARS-NN, so this may be a steep learning curve for you.

You also have your JUPITER-VENUS aspecting his JUNO. He'll be devoted to you, and you see him as an ideal mate, but you'll hafta be the assertive one, which can be very difficult for Libra MOON natives.

Your SATURN is smack on his SUN, so you'll be the one guiding and directing him, but be careful, because he may also feel that you restrict and/or harshly judge him. With his abundance of natal sensitivities, it'll be hard on him.

Are you two dating? I typically don't even consider a composite unless the two people are in a defined relationship (regardless of its nature). Your composite stellium is in the 6H, which rules the mundane. It might get boring and routine after a while, or just too much work to maintain. If you can climb past that hurdle, SATURN (7R) might reward you with longevity and a stable sex life founded on your commitments to each other.

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posted February 11, 2015 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But she's got EROS in AQUA. That gives some of the same flavour, yes? Though, as one with a LOT of Scorp who's had to deal with a man with VENUS, and MARS, AND PSYCHE AND EROS in AQUA ...

It's a good time to begin meditation, if you haven't already. Maybe consider therapy, too. Just kidding! Kind of.

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posted February 11, 2015 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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... but you've got MARS-NN, so this may be a steep learning curve for you.

Okay, this intrigues me. The 'learning curve' bit I get, (NNODE) except, typically, I've noticed that a point in conjunction with the NNODE will 'colour' the relationship or association. Are you suggesting that's why? Because lessons are being doled out, or it's featuring heavily in the connexion because of those key elements being addressed?

Make it make sense to my addled brain.

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posted February 11, 2015 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Okay, this intrigues me. The 'learning curve' bit I get, (NNODE) except, typically, I've noticed that a point in conjunction with the NNODE will 'colour' the relationship or association. Are you suggesting that's why? Because lessons are being doled out, or it's featuring heavily in the connexion because of those key elements being addressed?

Make it make sense to my addled brain.


MARS trumps EROS, particularly considering her key MARS-NN placement.

She's got a poor handle on MARS, as the 12R, and in the main relationship house, which is a weak position to begin with. She probably has irrational fears, with an unpredictable temper, and possibly prone to lashing out by reflex before even realizing what she has done. MARS also classically rules her VENUS, which is intense in Scorpio ANYWAY. Not to mention that Scorp PLUTO-DC - she's super invested in all her relationships.

So while he's got his misty, dreamy-eyed take on them (Pisces) which gets along swell with Scorp, he also totally goes at his own steadfast pace, with all the URANUS-SATURN energy floating about. I just see her burning him in the end due to frustration and impatience. Sag MARS aren't very patient, as you know.

There's no problem with passion, but the best way of channeling it will frustrate her, especially with someone who can effectively push all her buttons. He can teach her sexual passion, but at his own risk. She has to be mindful of SATURN and URANUS, especially in transits, since those heavy-hitters are pulling the strings behind the scenes.

In great news, SATURN is a relentless teacher. :P

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posted February 12, 2015 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MARS trumps EROS, particularly considering her key MARS-NN placement.

She's got a poor handle on MARS, as the 12R, and in the main relationship house, which is a weak position to begin with. She probably has irrational fears, with an unpredictable temper, and possibly prone to lashing out by reflex before even realizing what she has done. MARS also classically rules her VENUS, which is intense in Scorpio ANYWAY. Not to mention that Scorp PLUTO-DC - she's super invested in all her relationships.

So while he's got his misty, dreamy-eyed take on them (Pisces) which gets along swell with Scorp, he also totally goes at his own steadfast pace, with all the URANUS-SATURN energy floating about. I just see her burning him in the end due to frustration and impatience. Sag MARS aren't very patient, as you know.

There's no problem with passion, but the best way of channeling it will frustrate her, especially with someone who can effectively push all her buttons. He can teach her sexual passion, but at his own risk. She has to be mindful of SATURN and URANUS, especially in transits, since those heavy-hitters are pulling the strings behind the scenes.

In great news, SATURN is a relentless teacher. :P


Astrology is incredible & you are amazing at analyzing charts! You have described me perfectly. Every detail.

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posted February 12, 2015 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peony     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Blind writer:

In great news, SATURN is a relentless teacher. :P


Well done, Blind writer. I take it you're being ironic, and on two counts with your username.

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posted February 12, 2015 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Astrology is incredible & you are amazing at analyzing charts! You have described me perfectly. Every detail.

I'm glad my interpretation resonated with you, and wish you the very best. Astrology itself is merely a tool, but sometimes it gets the job done with finesse.

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posted February 12, 2015 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by peony:
Well done, Blind writer. I take it you're being ironic, and on two counts with your username.


Happy my wit shines through. It's a tongue-in-cheek truth since SATURN is the teacher, but man, what a thankless job he's got.

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