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Einfühlung
Newflake

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posted February 10, 2015 03:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone help me figure out why my ex stared at me so long? I was working and I caught him staring at me for who knows how long. He was waiting for his friend at the Walmart checkout. It still bothers me because he kept his eyes locked on mine and it felt like time stopped. He didn't have a menacing look on, more of like a poker face. I looked away and could still see him staring at me in my peripheral vision. We never talk anymore.

He was the one who broke up with me because he was still in love with his ex. For now I don't know if they are still together. It's been almost 2 years since we broke up.

It was December 22, 2014 when it happened and here's the natals and synastry chart if it helps. Birth time is unknown on his so I set it at 12 pm.

He somehow made a big impact in my life and I wonder if I did on his. I greatly appreciate if someone can tell me the potential of us crossing paths again and finally put everything to the past and be on good terms.

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posted February 10, 2015 03:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is a Progressed chart too with reference place. On today's date

And here is the progressed with the date when the stare down happened.

I noticed Sun square Moon is a good indicator for a breakup. Right when it came up he broke up with me the same day. It was scarily accurate.

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posted February 10, 2015 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Faith
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posted February 10, 2015 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you possibly post the regular composite, with transits for the staring day?

And make the chart smaller?

It's hard to see it when it's so big.

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Aubyanne
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posted February 10, 2015 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I noticed he's got MOON conjunct SATURN natally. This is a very 'cold' emotional profile. Especially with AQUA MOON. They're thinkers, not feelers. And with SATURN, they're the 'keep a stiff upper lip' kind. With SAG SUN, he's likely to try and keep himself occupied and otherwise distracted. Likewise for a SAG MARS and AQUA MOON.

Lot of Fire. My guess is he's impulsive; acts, doesn't think. Perhaps surprised to see you?

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Newflake

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posted February 11, 2015 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Could you possibly post the regular composite, with transits for the staring day?

And make the chart smaller?

It's hard to see it when it's so big.


Hello Faith
Sorry, I've made them smaller now.
Here's the regular composite with the transits for the staring day.


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Newflake

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posted February 11, 2015 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I noticed he's got MOON conjunct SATURN natally. This is a very 'cold' emotional profile. Especially with AQUA MOON. They're thinkers, not feelers. And with SATURN, they're the 'keep a stiff upper lip' kind. With SAG SUN, he's likely to try and keep himself occupied and otherwise distracted. Likewise for a SAG MARS and AQUA MOON.

Lot of Fire. My guess is he's impulsive; acts, doesn't think. Perhaps surprised to see you?


Thanks for the insight Aubyanne! That could be it, but he didn't look surprised. If he was then he must really good at not showing emotions.. Though I don't know his birth time, the planets and aspects might be thrown off a lot, right? Especially moon?

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posted February 11, 2015 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Beautiful composite. Love stellium (sun, Mercury, Venus conjunct) plus Saturn for longevity, in the easygoing sign of Pisces.

Minor triangles with the moon-Venus, Neptune-Uranus, and Pluto-NN.

I think he was staring at you because...

a) Neptune is transiting conjunct your composite Pisces sun-Mercury, highlighting what you two are essentially *about* (Neptune/Pisces energy.)

It's not just the Pisces stellium in composite, it's Neptune at the apex of that minor triangle.

2) Neptune is transiting conjunct your progressed composite Mars and Saturn, highlighting sex, togetherness, and stability.

3) Tr moon and Saturn on your composite NN-Pluto...feelings (moon) and a seriousness of purpose about your destiny together.

Thanks for shrinking the charts...care to post his progressed natal with transits for that day? Though it's already pretty clear to me that his staring WAS probably what you interpreted it to be.

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Newflake

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posted February 11, 2015 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome
I don't know his birth time but will the aspects be the same without it?
Here's his natal with transits from that day


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posted February 11, 2015 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun transiting conjunct his sun-Mars...that seems to indicate sincere interest. Moon could've been on his Pluto...showing depth.

I asked about his progressed chart...wondering if his progressed sun is conjunct his natal Neptune yet.

Since you two have a Neptunian composite, his progressed sun conjunct Neptune might cause him to look at your relationship in a new light.

Just guessing. Good luck!

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posted February 11, 2015 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Sun transiting conjunct his sun-Mars...that seems to indicate sincere interest. Moon could've been on his Pluto...showing depth.

I asked about his progressed chart...wondering if his progressed sun is conjunct his natal Neptune yet.

Since you two have a Neptunian composite, his progressed sun conjunct Neptune might cause him to look at your relationship in a new light.

Just guessing. Good luck!


Oh I'm sorry! I forgot to set it to progressed. Here's his progressed with transits


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Faith
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posted February 11, 2015 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah thank you.

Progressed sun applying to a conjunction with natal Neptune, still at 2 orb. But his pr Mercury is exactly conjunct natal Neptune at 19 Cap...it just figures that he was attempting telepathy of some sort

Also, his pr sun trine your 18 Taurus sun.

Who knows what he was thinking but it's not too far-fetched to imagine, you were strongly on his mind.

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Newflake

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posted February 12, 2015 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I appreciate your insights on this Faith and taking the time to help me! Him trying telepathy.. Never thought of that. If he was trying to then him staring at me without blinking would make a lot of sense. Instead of taking astrology into this maybe he was also staring because I look different? That would make a lot of sense also since I sort of transformed recently. I've been wearing contacts for 4 months instead of glasses.
Now I wonder if I should reconnect and try to be on good terms again. But I'm too stubborn and would rather have him talk to me first. He broke ties with me after all.
Ah well.
You have been so helpful. And again thank you so much

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Newflake

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posted February 14, 2015 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else have other thoughts? He was in my dream today..

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