posted February 12, 2015 01:58 PM            

Some of the aspects I've noticed are supposed to be bad for long term.

We have:
Sun squaring: Saturn, uranus, pluto and chiron
Moon square Neptune
Venus square Mars
and also the planets are scattered about.

His sun makes no aspects to my moon.

posted February 12, 2015 02:13 PM              

Hard aspects are not neccessarily bad signs either, it depends WHAT planets are being connected, and frankly I have seen more long lasting marriages and relationships WITH Saturn squraes, conjunctions, oppositions to the personal planets or angles than WITHOUT.

posted February 12, 2015 04:00 PM              

My parents do have the DW of Mars-Saturn-conjunction and in composite their Mars-Saturn-conjunction falls onto the SN. My Mum`s Saturn is also conjunct my Dadīs SN.
For THEM it was certainly a "builder" aspect. And conversely to what is being said, they are very affectionate with each other (let`s not forget both planets have relation to the physical sphere).

But first of there are other aspects as well, and secondly they could be termed Saturnian.
With my Dad?s chartruler being in Capricorn, and Saturn actually exactly on his ASC.
My Mom has Capricorn on her DESC and Moon on her Venus/Saturn-mp.

posted February 12, 2015 04:23 PM              

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Personally I think people interprete the composite wrong anyway.
After all it is not a natal chart in fact it is made of midpoints, and we use the hard aspects for midpoints anyway.
So what makes sense to me in terms of composite is:
a) aspect configurations
b) hard aspects (conjunction, square, opposition)
c) conjunctions/Oppositions of composite planets to natal ones.

Hard aspects are not neccessarily bad signs either, it depends WHAT planets are being connected, and frankly I have seen more long lasting marriages and relationships WITH Saturn squraes, conjunctions, oppositions to the personal planets or angles than WITHOUT.

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posted February 12, 2015 08:12 PM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
I've just had a look at my composite with my husband. We're living apart now, but we have been together for 28 yrs, married for 24.

Some of the aspects I've noticed are supposed to be bad for long term.

We have:
Sun squaring: Saturn, uranus, pluto and chiron
Moon square Neptune
Venus square Mars
and also the planets are scattered about.

His sun makes no aspects to my moon.

As I get deeper into studying this it seems as if in my life synastry shows so much more of a true reflection of things than composite.
My composites are rarely good.
Does anyone else notice the same thing in their own?

Thanks Ceri, but what do you think about Mars Sq Saturn?

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Abbreviated....

Sun sq. Saturn-
problematic because it indicates your lives are presently at cross purposes to each other. May indicate you get in each other's way and then are not flexible enough to let each other do what you each need to do individually. Ones likely to become a repressive influence on the other, criticizing and condemning. Hard time accepting each other as you are.

Sun sq. Uranus-
the relationship will be a source of many surprises, some of which will be quite difficult. Problem with instability making both feel restless, impatient and behave in ways that fly in the face of tradition. In this relationship you cannot be possessive you must give each other maximum freedom. If this results in one drifting away to someone else, that's how it must be.

Sun sq. Pluto-
the relationship will have profound effects but they will not be easy. Power struggles. One has a desire to transform the other into something that they are not. Even if the change is called for the style in which it is done will provoke the other partners opposition. Serious conflict of life directions. Avoid all ego games.

Moon sq. Neptune-
creates danger that one or both will deceive yourselves or each other, either about the nature of the relationship or about outside matters that affect it.
Potentially situation like, one can come to "help" the other with a difficult psychological problem such as alcohol or drugs. But the so called helper is often motivated by the desire to escape from some personal problem by relating to someone whose problems appear to be worse. Savior/Victim relationship can be quite unhealthy because the real issues are never faced.

Venus sq. Mars-
good n bad
Good for sex and attraction.
Issue is sex can become a device for one person to dominate the other. Hard to find balance between your individual egos and your desire to relate to each other. Competitiveness can interfere with cooperation.

posted February 12, 2015 10:38 PM            

My marriage ended bc my husband was a cheater and couldn't keep a job. I wonder if that falls under the effects of saturn, uranus or pluto. Maybe a combo of all of them?

posted February 12, 2015 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
Hmmm. That's very interesting Gabby. Thank you for posting these. Do you recommend that book?

My marriage ended bc my husband was a cheater and couldn't keep a job. I wonder if that falls under the effects of saturn, uranus or pluto. Maybe a combo of all of them?

Also I find composites of people born close together hard to read. And we were born 22 days apart.

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I would say the lack of holding a job would Saturn/Sun square. There's no self identity/ego that's being built by being responsible...saturn only feels stifling to the ego, no positive reinforcement between the 2 planets.

Cheating I would think would fall under the Sun/Uranus. Any type of traditional marriage roles/rules would feel like it's stifling to the ego, the relationship would feel to controlling and constrictive to one partner. What does a marriage restrict? Being with other ppl! A relationship becomes real when your exclusive, monogamous right? In order to rebel from the relationship you go against it's foundation, the thing that makes it real, what it's about just happens to be the same thing that creates restriction that Uranus wants to break free from.

posted February 13, 2015 12:23 AM            

My new guy and I have uranus/sun aspects too.
His sun sextile my uranus and his uranus trines my venus. His uranus squares my merc.

I don't seem to be able to avoid pluto, uranus and saturn stuff. But those 3 planets square my sun and venus in natal, so that could be why.

posted February 13, 2015 04:01 AM            

This is the aspect I fear the most when I look at any composites... it just really seem to be a bad aspect
It will be a big challenge no matter what!

I am not a fan of sun square pluto either. Whenever pluto is very involved the relationship is always gonna be about powerstruggles at some point. One trying to dominate the other, and no one likes this in long therm... it's also like a minor problem that could have been solved if both people where being rational, is going to make both people want their vengeance and revenge, and not able to move on from certain things. They get destructive and eventually the relationship will blow up because both parts are unable to see through their possessiveness and jealousy...