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posted February 16, 2015 07:12 PM            

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Things aren't going well right now. I have limited knowledge of astrology but from what I gather this composite chart doesn't look promising

-Neptune in 7th house
-pluto in 5th house
-moon square sun
-moon square mercury
-no 8th house planets
-only one planet in 7th house
-moon square mars
-north node in 12th
-saturn square venus
-saturn square jupiter
-venus conjunct uranus
-uranus square saturn
-sun conjucnt neptune
-full 6th house (incl. sun and venus)
-lots of scorpio

I'm sure there are more difficult placements that I am missing.

Can anyone offer some opinions?

Thanks
http://s1319.photobucket.com/user/twinflame1914/media/astro_621gw_01_ 02_t_m670056614_zps76b5e567.gif.html

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posted February 16, 2015 09:17 PM            

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Is this the composite with your Twin? I forget.

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posted February 16, 2015 09:47 PM            

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Yes, it is the same guy.

Things aren't going well and I don't know what to do...

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posted February 17, 2015 02:11 AM            

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Breathe. Everything is fine.

What sort of issues are you having?

It's even 11:11 as I write this. Heh.

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posted February 17, 2015 10:34 AM            

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When it comes to emotions everything is one big power struggle. He can't connect to his emotions, blames me for them, doesn't respect my feelings or processes when we fight. Tells me that how Im feeling is my issue if i get triggered ( I agree) yet makes me accountable for his. Everything is so logical and black and white with him. He isn't controlling of me but he needs to be in control, needs to ' win ' during arguments, and won't take accountability for his words/actions. He really can't seem to understand emotions or emotional patterns, or take control of his own emotions.

Now i feel myself shutting off to him. There are a lot of external factors making this relationship difficult (he's got three kids) and i don't know if it's worth it

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posted February 19, 2015 11:56 PM            

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Bump

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posted February 23, 2015 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by twinflame1914:
When it comes to emotions everything is one big power struggle. He can't connect to his emotions, blames me for them, doesn't respect my feelings or processes when we fight. Tells me that how Im feeling is my issue if i get triggered ( I agree) yet makes me accountable for his. Everything is so logical and black and white with him. He isn't controlling of me but he needs to be in control, needs to ' win ' during arguments, and won't take accountability for his words/actions. He really can't seem to understand emotions or emotional patterns, or take control of his own emotions.

Now i feel myself shutting off to him. There are a lot of external factors making this relationship difficult (he's got three kids) and i don't know if it's worth it

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Wow what's with the psychological analysis? Just love each other: talk, touch, smile, do.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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posted February 23, 2015 10:58 AM            

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When I've been in relationships where I'm spending all my time worrying about what they are not doing, of course I'm miserable...but what I've found helps is to work on making myself happy. Instead of analyzing them I start analyzing myself to find ways I can meet the needs in me that he isn't. Honestly it's not his responsibility to take care of my needs, it's mine.

After spending years of doing this, what I discovered is I had become to reliant on others to make me happy. I had not learned how to or held myself responsible for making me happy.
Well that was just stupid of me because I have no control over others actions...but I do have control over mine.
It's so much easier to adjust yourself than to try to force others to adjust to you. The amazing thing is once you start focusing on yourself, the ppl that didn't care about your needs before sudden you see a new independence in you...it's kind of attractive to most ppl and for some reason they try harder. I guess they know your not so caught up in them anymore and they see they don't want to lose you.

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