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posted February 18, 2015 03:31 PM            

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Which one of the big trifecta would have the greater impact on how he acts in terms of relationships? I know Mars is important because it shows the man's propensity for fidelity once he's in a long-term relationship, but which one will show if he's even likely to WANT or be able to sustain a long-term relationship more; Moon, or Venus?

Please share your thoughts! All insights and examples welcome!

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posted February 18, 2015 03:33 PM            

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I'm currently interested in a man who has moon and Mars in earth, but Venus is in Sagittarius.

So I don't know how this will play out.

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posted February 18, 2015 05:48 PM            

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@aqua: are you like your Mars, moon, venus or sun your relationship?

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posted February 18, 2015 06:49 PM            

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I kind of have a theory that one's 7th house ruler and its aspects to other planets determines what that person is like in relationships.

For example, my ex boyfriend's 7th house ruler is Mercury and he had Venus conjunct Mercury. I really think he acted like his Venus in Leo.

I am a female and I act like my Venus, which is my 7th house ruler.

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posted February 19, 2015 09:21 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I kind of have a theory that one's 7th house ruler and its aspects to other planets determines what that person is like in relationships.

For example, my ex boyfriend's 7th house ruler is Mercury and he had Venus conjunct Mercury. I really think he acted like his Venus in Leo.

I am a female and I act like my Venus, which is my 7th house ruler.

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Could you please explain? Do you mean people will act like the sign that their 7th house ruler is in?

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posted February 19, 2015 09:47 PM            

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Really, I think all three are critically important regardless.
As we get deeper into relationships, in love, and closer to a person. ALL things in their chart come out, good and bad.

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posted February 19, 2015 10:02 PM            

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Venus in Sag can commit.

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posted February 19, 2015 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Venus in Sag can commit.

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Seconded!
It might feel unstable if you have a fixed venus sign or something. (Coming from a Venus in Scorp) It's a very 'go with the flow' placement in my experience, but with genuine interest in the possibility of commitment. As long as it stays fun and positive, they will continue with you

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posted February 20, 2015 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Really, I think all three are critically important regardless.
As we get deeper into relationships, in love, and closer to a person. ALL things in their chart come out, good and bad.

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You know what... you're right.

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posted February 20, 2015 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

Could you please explain? Do you mean people will act like the sign that their 7th house ruler is in?

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I think the person acts like their 7th house ruler, including the sign it's in and its placement/aspects.

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posted February 20, 2015 03:45 AM            

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My SO is like Pisces Venus when he wants to escape from society, like his Cap Mars when I pi** him off and like his Taurus Moon when he his all around content. He can be very, very cold if his Saturn is activated (Saturn is ruler of his Aries Sun) but also very, very kind and soft-it all depends on what his Pisces Venus and Asc picks up from surroundings. His Moon is also conjunct Saturn so yeah, he can be freezing cold :-/

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posted February 20, 2015 10:33 AM            

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i have venus and mars in capricorn, placements described as attracting reliable money makers ...

I have been thinking a lot about this and I am mostly drawn towards emotional mess .... I also have pluto in 7th in scorpio

I am increasingly not certain about what all of my placement means when it comes to people I attract.

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