posted February 22, 2015 09:21 PM            

Clearly I activated his relationship house stuff (although with hard aspects!) but they were still aspects, and rather tight/exact ones!
So then why?

Could it be the squared Moons? Our inner natures weren't compatible I guess. He's wild, crazy, extroverted, and immature. I'm more introverted, sensitive and cautious.

He was the one who always chased me and wanted to meet me for so long. I was rather shy and distant.
But he ditched me for another girl, fooled around with her for about half a month, now they broke up LOL.

I mean, we've been good friends for 4 years. We never had any fights or arguments, ever. Our friendship was very sweet, loving and caring. We shared our problems with eachother and were there for one another. He told me he cared about me deeply and that his life wasn't the same after meeting me. God knows what he meant by that. But I still can't believe he'd do this to me...

Synastry, he's on the inside, I'm on the outside.

Composite.

Btw, I find it funny that he had to end the relationship with his temporary side chick when tr. Venus/Mars were conjunct his natal Moon.
One would think that things would have gotten more serious between them, but apparently not.

He's also going through Tr. Pluto opposite his n. Venus exact now, as well as Tr. Uranus square his n. Venus.

Seems as though the boy is going through quite a big transformation regarding his love life.

posted February 22, 2015 09:34 PM            

We were friends online and met in person last October. We got along great, and he was really into me but I wasn't, not at first. Then a week or so went by and I found myself developing feelings for him, while he became hot and cold. At times he'd be super sweet and talkative, then he'd become distant and cold, not replying to my messages for days. And he'd switch back and forth.

We would make plans to meet again several times, but something would come up and it'd just never end up happening.
A month or so after he started to warm up again and would text me daily, and our friendship grew.

We were going to meet again just before Valentine's Day, because he was moving, but I cancelled plans and asked if he'd like to meet another day instead. He never replied back. Instead, he went after some other girl and they drove across the border to my city (he's from the US, I'm Canadian).

They spent the night here at a hotel, then left. He didn't even tell me. I was totally heart broken.
So I texted him as soon as my friend saw on his Facebook that this "new girl" of his was checking into places from here LOL.
I texted him that I was free if he wanted to meet up. He didn't reply. I texted him again and he finally replied by saying he didn't have the time and was going to spend the remaining days he had with family. He didn't even mention his gf or that they were here! Lol

I lost my cool. I told him to get his butt over here and he couldn't just leave like this without seeing me again. He said he was really sorry but ran out of time and sold his car too. Wtf?! Lol. Excuses, excuses. I knew he was with his new gf and they were on their way back to the US. She was updating her status and tagging him every few minutes LOL.

So then I decided to just come clean about everything and lay it all out on the line.
I thanked him for coming into my life and making me so happy in the short amount of time we spent together. He replied back by thanking me and said that his life won't be the same if it weren't for me ~ whatever the hell he meant by that.

Then I asked him if he ever had feelings for me and told him to answer me honestly.
He said he cared about me deeply, but knew nothing could happen because our cultures were so different. (I mentioned to him when he was here that I came from a very conservative background and never drank or smoked and such, but I was open to it. I'm 20 btw, just in my "blossoming" stage now lol, he's 19.)
Maybe that turned him off. I don't know, but that's just stupid if he'd leave me just because of that. :/

Then I confessed my feelings to him. I wasn't even thinking straight. I told him how anything could have been possible if he had just opened up to me. He said there were a lot of shocking things I didn't know about him but he didn't want to tell me because they were private.

After that I ended everything with him, deleted his number and blocked him on all social media. I don't think he saw that coming LOL.

But I think it was good that I did that, because it helped me get over him more quickly.
The first week following that incident was absolutely dreadful and painful for me. I couldn't eat or sleep and fell into a depression.
But I got through it and I'm doing a lot better now. I'm still hurting a bit but I know things will get better.

Honestly, I think he was just scared of his feelings. He's a little boy, he's still immature and didn't know how to deal with it.
And he was only using that girl to get over me.

Just yesterday I found out they broke up LOL.
Whatever they had didn't even last a month.
They untagged one another from every picture and post on Facebook and took their relationship status down. I find that hilarious. I kinda figured it wasn't anything serious.

But I don't want him now. My feelings for him aren't what they used to be. The damage is already done, so if he were to want something with me now or in the future, I won't take him.
I know now he's not the kind of person I would want for a serious, mature, stable relationship with. No thank you haha. Plus I don't trust him anymore. But he's great to have as a fun-loving friend.

I have a feeling he feels really bad about what happened between us. I am willing to forgive him if he owned up to his immaturity, but I won't ever forget what he did. I unblocked him now but he remains deleted from my friends list.

posted February 22, 2015 10:28 PM            

His Venus parallel my Mars 0'
His Venus contra-parallel my Uranus 0'
His Venus contra-parallel my Vertex 0'
His Moon parallel my Mercury 0'
His ASC parallel my Chiron 0'
His NN parallel my Venus 0'

his ASC quindecile my Saturn (DESC co-ruler) 1'
his DESC quindecile my Sun (ASC ruler) 1'
his Neptune (DESC-ruler) quindecile my Moon 0'
his Neptune (DESC-ruler) quindecile my Mars (IC co-ruler) 0'
his Saturn (5th house ruler) quindecile my Sun (ASC ruler) 1'
his Uranus quindecile my ASC 0'
his NN quindecile my SN 0'

his Vertex conjunct my Saturn (DESC co-ruler) 1'
his Vertex opposite my Sun (ASC ruler) 2'
his Vertex opposite my Chiron 3'
his Vertex trine my Moon 2'
his Vertex trine my Mars (IC co-ruler) 0'
his Vertex trine my Jupiter (5th house ruler, 8th house co-ruler) 0'
his Vertex quindecile my Mercury 1'

posted February 23, 2015 12:41 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
jerks do not come with astrology aspects .... they come with free will

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posted February 23, 2015 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by page one:
I can't second unknown's response strongly enough. That said, I'm looking at the composite, which contains the "palace" configuration. Moon/Amor and Chiron are at its base, and Uranus/Neptune are at the apex.

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posted February 23, 2015 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by page one:
I can't second unknown's response strongly enough. That said, I'm looking at the composite, which contains the "palace" configuration. Moon/Amor and Chiron are at its base, and Uranus/Neptune are at the apex.

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posted February 23, 2015 02:30 AM            

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(I mentioned to him when he was here that I came from a very conservative background

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I agree with your take on him - that he is immature.
It's not surprising since you're both young.
He is probably interested in sexual experiences now... maybe he wants something more casual.

posted February 23, 2015 04:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I agree with your take on him - that he is immature.
It's not surprising since you're both young.
He is probably interested in sexual experiences now... maybe he wants something more casual.

He thought you saying you were "conservative" - meant that you weren't going to have sex with him casually... and that you wanted something serious, that he is probably not ready for.
If you had met (or if you *will* meet) at a future point in time.. when you're in your 30s/40s... I think this relationship would've worked out much better.

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posted February 23, 2015 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
What does that entail?
I'm not that familiar with the effects of aspect configurations, other than the basic ones (grand trines, kites, yods).

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The "palace" is supposed to be a configuration of strength, but the main thing that got my attention was the Uranus/Neptune conjunction. I've heard that it has twin flame connotations, but I feel it suggests "mirage" more than anything.

posted February 23, 2015 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I agree with your take on him - that he is immature.
It's not surprising since you're both young.
He is probably interested in sexual experiences now... maybe he wants something more casual.

He thought you saying you were "conservative" - meant that you weren't going to have sex with him casually... and that you wanted something serious, that he is probably not ready for.
If you had met (or if you *will* meet) at a future point in time.. when you're in your 30s/40s... I think this relationship would've worked out much better.

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posted February 23, 2015 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by page one:
The "palace" is supposed to be a configuration of strength, but the main thing that got my attention was the Uranus/Neptune conjunction. I've heard that it has twin flame connotations, but I feel it suggests "mirage" more than anything.

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Oh no he's definitely not my twin, thank God for that lol.

Although funnily he has a lot of qualities that are similar to my twin. When I met him, it blew me away as to how much this guy reminded me of him.
But they are farrrr in maturity and evolution, as well as energy-wise.
My twin feels more familiar. I just know him and sense that he is so much like myself.
But it's not like that with this kid.

I think the reason it appears in my composite with him is because we both have a Uranus-Neptune conjunction in our natals, as he's 10 months younger than me, so it could be a generational thing.

posted February 23, 2015 08:22 PM            

Haha... Well great.
It hurts, but what can I do.