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Topic: Why the damn hell am i obsessed with this girl?
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piscesearthed Newflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 10:46 PM
http://i284.photobucket.com/albums/ll5/judasjones1/astro_61gw_01_02_earthed_girl.11967.62236_zpswoafq7nv.gif I dated her for about a month. Now it's been nine months since and i can't take her out of my mind. Funny, cause our synastry doesn't seems good. Anyway, i'm still interested in her, but she doesn't like me anymore. Please, solve this for me! (I'm the inside one, she's the outsider). IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6753 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 03, 2015 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by piscesearthed: http://i284.photobucket.com/albums/ll5/judasjones1/astro_61gw_01_0 2_earthed_girl.11967.62236_zpswoafq7nv.gif I dated her for about a month. Now it's been nine months since and i can't take her out of my mind. Funny, cause our synastry doesn't seems good. Anyway, i'm still interested in her, but she doesn't like me anymore. Please, solve this for me! (I'm the inside one, she's the outsider).
It's moon/Pluto it's an azz kicker.. Read up on it. I've been going through my moon/Pluto experience for 6 yrs now, still can't get over it. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 2165 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 11:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: It's moon/Pluto it's an azz kicker.. Read up on it. I've been going through my moon/Pluto experience for 6 yrs now, still can't get over it.
But it's her pluto...shouldn't she be the one who's obsessed? IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 894 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 03, 2015 11:07 PM
the planet person gets obsessed. now try having all your planets conjunct someone's pluto we go crazy IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6753 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 03, 2015 11:18 PM
Normally the Pluto person has the upper hand, however anything can happen, when humans are concerned Nothing is completely set in stone. Also look at the natal's, you have Pluto in h7 so your more likely to feel the Pluto in relationships. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 2165 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 11:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: the planet person gets obsessed.
Really? I always experienced it the other way around IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4915 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 03, 2015 11:53 PM
Her Sun conjuncts your 5H exact - Her very ego is extremely attractive to you. She expresses everything you want as far as love and romance.Sun opposite Sun + Venus opposite Venus Your Moon opposite her Pluto - Bingo! In my opinion, this is the most powerful aspect in Synasty. Unfortunately, in your case it's one-sided because your Pluto does not aspect any of her personal planets. Her Mars square your Neptune - ouch, this can be an extremely sexually frustrating aspect for the Mars person. It's all about having fantasies that the neptune person can never seem to fulfill. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5126 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 04, 2015 12:13 AM
Sometimes obsession is a personal issue, and related to the natal chart. It's not always the synastry - or *just* the synastry, that explains it.I know a guy who is also a Pisces with an exact Mars/Saturn conjunction in Capricorn. He was obsessed with me for months and months. My impression was that - he generally gets what he wants and he is used to never giving up. So he couldn't deal with me rejecting him, even though we were friends and I was extra nice about it. Mars/Saturn in Cap is a strong aspect. The person who has this can be very stubborn and decisive. They are clear on their goals, including romantic goals - and they don't stop until they achieve them. I compared him to a steamroller lol Romantically it can be a bit much though. My Moon in Capricorn was on this conjunction - so I felt like he came on too strongly. In your case - you have Mars/Saturn opposite her Moon in Cancer (and her Venus)... She might just be too sensitive for your approach. Maybe if you took things slowly - very very slowly... she would warm up to you again. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4915 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 04, 2015 12:38 AM
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6753 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 04, 2015 12:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: @Lioness March - Hastur (reserved) You may experience a blow to the ego this month. Someone could try to continuously bring you down to lift themselves up or you will feel decevied by someone close to you.April - Three of Man (reserved) This is a month for self-fullfillment, where you worry less about others and spend time treating yourself. Some may view this as selfish but there's nothing wrong of making yourself happy for once. May - Ten of Sites (reserved)try to avoid making false promises this month for it may hurt your reputation. You may feel stressed because you have someone who is counting on you, but you are not sure if you will be able to give them everything they hoped for. June - continued.
Thanks. I'll be extra cautious.
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4915 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 04, 2015 12:54 AM
Sorry, wrong forum lolIP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Lily of The Valley Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 04, 2015 01:44 AM
I see others saying moon/pluto is why you can't stop thinking about her. I'm going through the same thing too with my ex but it's his Moon on my Pluto. BUT we have pluto conj pluto and I have a couple personal planets hitting his Pluto. Can you believe I've had my eye on only one guy for almost 10 years? My patient taurus self has been getting weary of it though.Try and see if she has a lot of her Pholus hitting your planets too. I've recently found out he had a lot of his pholus aspecting mine. If you don't know pholus, it just means that the planet person has a lot of influence on you and changes your life in a tremendous way. He sure did on me. All the best. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 2549 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 01:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: the planet person gets obsessed. now try having all your planets conjunct someone's pluto we go crazy
Not necessarily. I've seen plenty of obsessiveness from the PLUTO side as well. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2026 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 04, 2015 08:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Try and see if she has a lot of her Pholus hitting your planets too. I've recently found out he had a lot of his pholus aspecting mine. If you don't know pholus, it just means that the planet person has a lot of influence on you and changes your life in a tremendous way. He sure did on me.
The Pholus person has influence over the planet person and changes their life or the opposite?
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 5621 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 04, 2015 01:07 PM
I think someone who is Pluto dominant can handle Pluto energy better, I have Pluto conjunct Venus, Venus is my chart ruler and 8th house ruler. I never feel my Pluto when it's conjunct someone's planets...my moon conjunct their Pluto, it's new to me and I love that it's addictive. I've had my Venus exact on someone's Pluto and didn't feel that hardly at all, probably because my Venus is already conjunct it.
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tilanburov Newflake Posts: 14 From: stockholm, sweden Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 03:27 PM
does your sun/moon midpoint conjuncts her mars in aries i think that would burn some flames in you and like all other sun/moon midpoint angles it would be one-sidedIP: Logged |
page one Knowflake Posts: 494 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 04, 2015 03:49 PM
There's also Sun opp Sun involving the nodes, and your Moon/Venus conjunction opposing her stellium of Venus, Mars, and Saturn. It's never just one thing.IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 489 From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~ Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 04:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by page one: There's also Sun opp Sun involving the nodes, and your Moon/Venus conjunction opposing her stellium of Venus, Mars, and Saturn. It's never just one thing.
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Peluches Knowflake Posts: 489 From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~ Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 04:08 PM
Moon/Pluto, for one, is a biggie. I only have the trine, not even exact, and I fell for him two and a half years ago. Not fading.I don't think you should consider one aspect alone, though. Your Venus/Mars midpoint, your Venus, Mars (7th house ruler) and Saturn oppose her Moon/Venus ; three of her planets fall in your 8th house. Her Sun opens your 5th house, her Pluto opens your 7th house (conjunct your DSC) of relationships. Her Uranus and Saturn from your 8th are opposite your Jupiter, 8th house ruler, and sextile your Mercury, 5th house ruler. Have you checked asteroids ? IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 489 From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~ Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 04:18 PM
I am still sceptical about the Pluto person feeling the obsession rather than the planet person -- especially the Moon. I know the aspect needs to be tight, but Pluto is still generational. I have an exact Venus/Pluto square natally, and yet I have never felt anything like the Moon/Pluto I'm currently experiencing, or any other Plutonian energy with people my age.IP: Logged |
piscesearthed Newflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 06, 2015 11:10 AM
Thank all you guys for the answers!@Lioness, thanks for the Pluto insight. I'm a beginner in Pluto's subjects still. @Moonfish, do you think these aspects you pointed out relate only to me, or she feels it too? Btw, about her Mars squaring my Neptune, she implied that our sex was great, i was one of her bests, if not the best, blablabla. @Odette, i really liked the comparison to a steamroller eheheh I really came on too strongly this time, based on her Aries Mars - since i thought she would like the chase (as a matter of fact, i ended up knowing that she at least appreciated it, like she was THE girl. you know, it's a nice boost for our ego etc). @Einfühlung, i checked it quickly now, and no ones Pholus aspects anything at all, altought they're pretty close (i don't know if they conjunct). @Gabby, tilanburov, page one, Peluches, everybody: So tell me ppl, do you think this damn thing is really one sided or do you see anything at all that she could have felt too? Also, and i know i haven't told the story behind it yet, it's quite odd, why do you guys think she's keeping me so distant now, rejecting every atempt i try, even if these tries are only friendly tries, nothing romantic intended?
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piscesearthed Newflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 08, 2015 01:03 PM
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