posted March 07, 2015 12:08 PM            

Here's our midpoint composite chart. I love the aspect mandala! Just one point short of a Grand Sextile.

posted March 07, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
You are looking for someone about 45 years younger than yourself? Ok...

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Vajra, are you really OK? What is your point in calling attention to age gap romantic choices? Is this what you do as a "moderator"? I don't appreciate your judgmental attitude. Just a gentle suggestion: why not examine the synastry comparison and composite relationship without bias--and provide some meaningful and constructive feedback.

posted March 07, 2015 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
What would be the point of meeting someone like this, comdoc?

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I don't understand your question. Are you asking about the qualities of the native with this birthchart? Thanks for clarifying.

posted March 07, 2015 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Wait, you're serious, comdoc? 45 years? What on earth could you have in common? Emotional bonding is the basis of a romantic relationship. On what could you possibly emotionally bond with such a tremendous disparity?

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Aubyanne, yes, I'm serious. Again, I sense the judgmental attitude regarding age gap romantic relationships. I'm not here to debate this subject. If you all are interested in doing so, why not start another thread? I have no interest in dialogue about personal romantic preferences--so would not participate in that thread. Please don't post any more about that here. Thanks to you all for your consideration.

posted March 07, 2015 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Aubyanne, yes, I'm serious. Again, I sense the judgmental attitude regarding age gap romantic relationships. I'm not here to debate this subject. If you all are interested in doing so, why not start another thread? I have no interest in dialogue about personal romantic preferences--so would not participate in that thread. Please don't post any more about that here. Thanks to you all for your consideration.

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posted March 08, 2015 04:36 AM            

I'd be interested in knowing how you came up with this particular birthdate/time. Are there aspects that you are looking for? What is the theory behind this?

Or is this a real person and I'm confused.

posted March 08, 2015 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'd be interested in knowing how you came up with this particular birthdate/time. Are there aspects that you are looking for? What is the theory behind this?

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posted March 08, 2015 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:

It's a calculation, Lucie, rather than anyone he knows. I'm also very curious how he arrived at it.

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Yes. I see that now. Thanks.

What I'd like to know is what made him/her decide that was the person s/he wants to meet. What are the aspects that s/he wants in the synastry? How s/he arrived at this particular "person". Why this particular "person"/relationship? What is it going to bring him/her?

I think that's all the questions I have for the moment.

posted March 08, 2015 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yes. I see that now. Thanks.

What I'd like to know is what made him/her decide that was the person s/he wants to meet. What are the aspects that s/he wants in the synastry? How s/he arrived at this particular "person". Why this particular "person"/relationship? What is it going to bring him/her?

I think that's all the questions I have for the moment.

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posted March 08, 2015 10:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I have no issue with 'gap romances', as you put it. But I'm not sure LL is the place for you to be seeking fantasy partners. I understand the theory behind your experiment here, but, perhaps you ought to approach exploring actual synastry here, and take out a classified for your desired 23 year old.

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Actually my favored age range is 20's. Obviously my match must be open to age gap romance with a much older partner. My motivation is to refine my romantic Point of Attraction to include only the best possible candidates. Then search for those in real life. I've advertised extensively in the past via print media and Internet. It's a jungle out there! *LOL*

posted March 08, 2015 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Astrologically-speaking, it doesn't even strike me as Soulmate synastry. SUN/EROS square MARS is a dicey aspect anyway, without very, very emotionally mature partners, it can be extremely aggressive. MOON conjunct ASC can swing both ways. CHIRON conjunct ASC is complicated, too. I don't like SATURN opposite SATURN-PLUTO-MARS, conjunct the far Midpoint, either.

I'm curious as to why you like this synastry so much, however. I'm just not feeling it.

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What appeals to me in synastry comparison is when inner planets are all in favorable aspect to my natal positions. I love powerful aspect mandalas like Mystic Rectangle and Grand Sextile in synastry and midpoint composite. I'm not afraid of challenging aspects like oppositions and squares, as long as there are mitigating factors to help resolve challenges. My preference is for smooth easy flow between mates. I realize there is no perfect match in the real world; nevertheless, I want the best possible willing and available life partner.

posted March 08, 2015 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Peluches:
Hi comdoc !

Is this person real or is it just an experiment to find a soulmate ? Also, did you post this thread for synastry analysis purposes or do you just wish to meet someone born that day ?

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HI Peluches! Of course this person is real. But I've not met her (yet). I posted this thread for synastry and composite analysis purposes. My goal is ultimately to meet and marry the best willing and available lifemate/partner.

posted March 08, 2015 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yes. I see that now. Thanks.

What I'd like to know is what made him decide that was the person he wants to meet. What are the aspects that he wants in the synastry?

My process begins by searching for periods of synastry resonance between inner planets: Mars, Sun, Venus, Mercury. That takes me to particular years and month when these alignments happened. For example, in August 1987 there was Sun, Mars, Venus, Mercury in LEO.

Within those periods, scan for favorable Moon positions. Then search for best Ascendants within those Moon periods. Finally, consider major and love asteroids. Somewhere in my process, I look at NN, Jupiter, Saturn, outer planets.

Here are my favorite positions in a mate.

Sun: Leo, Sagittarius, Libra
Moon: Libra, early Taurus and Gemini, Virgo, late Sag, early Pisces.
ASC: Leo, Sag, Libra, Aries
Venus: Libra, late Leo, Sag, early Taurus or early Pisces
Mercury Leo, Sag
Mars: early Gemini, Leo
NN: late Aries, early Gemini, late Leo, late Sag

How he arrived at this particular "person". Why this particular "person"/relationship? What is it going to bring him/her?

My goal is a highly resonant overall mutual life partners "happily ever after" marriage and family. I favor ease and flow harmonic resonance. Generally, trine and sextile aspects, and beneficial conjunctions.

I think that's all the questions I have for the moment.

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Good questions!

posted March 08, 2015 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
My goal is ultimately to meet and marry the best willing and available lifemate/partner.

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This makes me sad, comdoc. My mind immediately flies to the awful childhood you must have had, and how you've ended up with such unattainable standards.

posted March 09, 2015 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
This makes me sad, comdoc. My mind immediately flies to the awful childhood you must have had, and how you've ended up with such unattainable standards.

It reminds me of my Twin, actually. I wonder if he'll go through his entire life deciding nothing was 'good enough'.

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Aubyanne, I appreciate your sentiments. You're not the first to call attention to my high standards. FYI I've definitely become more selective over the years. I'm simply no longer willing to compromise (been there, done that; "good enough" wasn't). Seeking mutual benefits, and a win--win partnership.

Regardless of any past personal history, my sovereign intention is to be with the best possible willing and available highly resonant lifemate. My heart will not be satisfied with anything less. My goal is not unattainable. I affirm that my optimum soulmate is already in my Vortex! My task is simply to refine my search parameters, and align with the best willing and available compatible life partner.

I welcome and appreciate any insights regarding my questions. My mind and heart are open to constructive input. I'm willing to use any effective means to manifest my life partner in the real world. Thanks to everyone here for their responses.

posted March 09, 2015 04:59 PM            

Is the age factor important in this?

Because if it is, it looks more like a fetish than a soulmate. You can't choose your soulmate, BTW

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 11, 2015 11:05 AM            

My next question (sorry! ) Have you considered this individual's natal chart? Does it indicate that she may be interested in having a relationship with an older person? Perhaps you should move her Saturn to the 7th? Or find another date/time that places your partners Saturn in 7th? I think if you met someone who was born in the southern hemispher (like Sydney Australia) you'd get a bigger 7th house that would almost put her Saturn in there. It would put it on the DSC if not quite in the 7th.

Personally, I don't have a problem with age gaps. I always like older men. I was in love with a 50 year old when I was 25. And my uncle married a woman 30 years younger than him when he was in his 60s. though 45 years might be a bit too much. Your other thread seems more reasonable. Though I'm not here to judge.

Anyway, good luck! I'd be interested to see how it turns out should you meet one of the people you've outlined.

posted March 11, 2015 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by page one:
"Because if it is, it looks more like a fetish than a soulmate. You can't choose your soulmate, BTW "

Then what's the point?

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posted March 16, 2015 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
wow...first time I see this ...I wasn't aware of this, comdoc...so it's more like a fantasy?

This is no fantasy. I'm refining my romantic Point of Attraction.

Is the age factor important in this?

Of course it is! You should be aware of outer planet movements, and generational influences. I'm strongly attracted to Capricorn Uranus Neptune individuals.

Because if it is, it looks more like a fetish than a soulmate. You can't choose your soulmate, BTW

Looks are deceiving. My motivation is simple: the most highly resonant life partner. You evidently have a narrower concept of what a soulmate is than I do. A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, friendship, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust. (Wikipedia) If you don't agree with the commonly accepted terminology, what do you suggest instead?

I like the term romantic soul connection.

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