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Topic: Need advice on gay friend
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 901 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 09, 2015 06:51 PM
I can post her chart if that will help. She is lesbian. She is very young 23 years old. she has never had a relationship ever. So she is always trying to hit on straight women.. and i know it must be very hard for her because she feels like she's a man in a woman's body. But she hits on straight women, hangs out with them and expects maybe they will like her eventually.. she keeps setting herself up to be hurt each and everytime by doing this.. i am trying to be gentle with her but i tell her honestly they are straight... She always wants me to read the person if they like them and well they don't because they are straight so i kindly tell her this.. but anyway. if you can look at the chart and maybe give me some pointers on what i can do to help. her birthday is oct 21 1991 12:15p.m baltimore md IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 901 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 09, 2015 08:35 PM
our composite chart http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=x7qfileqYlDgy-u1422996758&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=427864&nho2=12520340&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday=10&smon=3&syr=2015&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=1221 IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Newflake Posts: 6 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 09, 2015 11:14 PM
I'll take a shot at this.Her hard Saturn aspects and Venus/Nep, Venus/Uranus placements might be why she goes after unavailable women. Also, her Aries moon likes a challenge.. Throw in the square to Uranus and that could further contribute to the problem. IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 901 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 10, 2015 01:13 AM
Can you explain why those aspects create that thanx youIP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Newflake Posts: 6 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 10, 2015 03:50 PM
Saturn is about restriction and not going after what you want. You feel like you don't deserve the best, so maybe she goes after people that she can't be with because she feels like she doesn't deserve to be with someone who loves her back.Uranus aspects, specifically hard ones, are linked to unstable relationships and people with these aspects can attract emotionally unavailable people. Venus/Neptune likes to dream and fantasize about love. So she might meet these girls and even though they don't like her in that way, she might convince herself otherwise.. She's not very realistic when it comes to love.. Preferring to live in a fantasy world. Just what I've read and experienced. IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 901 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 10, 2015 05:36 PM
yeah she's like that. lol very accurate.. esp the part of being in a dream world.. but she's so young only 23 IP: Logged |