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Topic: So I met someone new...
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Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 12, 2015 08:08 PM
We instantly clicked and felt comfortable with one another from the start. We both recently went through heartbreaks and could therefore sympathize with one another. And what's interesting is that as a result of those heartbreaks, we both came up with a list of the qualities we both wanted in an ideal partner, and it fits us both. I told myself I wanted someone who is more mature, real, trustworthy, knew what he wanted and did no beating around the bush. Someone who was just as pure as me, conscious, deep, genuine, loyal, etc. And he embodies all those traits! I'm not saying we're soulmates or anything or meant to be together, I don't want to make the same mistake of being deluded again like I did in the last. So I'm just taking it slow for now, not allowing myself to get too attached or carried away. But I'm just curious as to what the reason for this connection could be. But were both just shocked as to how much we resonate with one another. We found we shared many similarities and just get one another's essence. There were no feelings of having walls up or any shyness, etc. and we both admitted to not opening up to the opposite sex that easily. But this time is felt so free-flowing. We both feel very comfortable sharing deep things. We've been in touch everyday since first talking, and we're always texting now, 24/7. But it gets kind of suffocating for me at times because I'm not that used to it. I need my space lol (Aquarius DESC). Not that I don't enjoy talking to him though, I very much do and appreciate how harmoniously we connect. We're not in a romantic relationship btw, although I can sense some interest from him. I'm not attracted to him like that however, but I appreciate the kind of man he is. He's different from any guy I've interacted with in the past. He's real, genuine, sympathetic, supportive, receptive and on my wavelength. It feels refreshing and comforting how we are so agreeable and alike when it comes to most things. But I feel like things may be loving too quickly between us that is scares me... I mean we opened up so easily to eachother and shared so much. I feel vulnerable but he's a trustworthy and reliable guy. I know I shouldn't let my past hurts influence my now spoil my future. But he's helping me heal in a way. Although I am not dependant on him. Anyhow, Just curious as to what your opinions are on our synastry and composite. How would you say our relationship could develop in the future? He's on the outside, I'm inside. IP: Logged |
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 182 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 13, 2015 12:11 PM
I don't like the look of:-- Nessu conj. IC. Inside person will bring abuse into your home. - Saturn conj. DC. You are already feeling the restriction! - Moon/Mars opp. Uranus - Pluto sq Venus! IP: Logged |
Vajra Moderator Posts: 827 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 13, 2015 02:05 PM
I like the synastry! He seems like a very good match to you in terms of personality. Many close beneficial aspects between personal planets and luminaries is always a good sign, and you have compatible AC signs as well. Sun-Sun trine, Moon-Moon sextile and Sun-Moon DW (opp./trine) is really, really good. Moon-Jupiter DW is also a very nice thing to have, especially given Jupiter is his AC ruler and your 5th House ruler. The Moon/Mars opp. Uranus listed in the post above is very inexact, so most people wouldn't count that (rather, there's an opposition of Moon/Mars to the other's Sun). Your Mercuries, though not in aspect, are in compatible signs which is very good for communication. The house overlays are also nice; Sun in the other's 5th and Sun in the other's 8th house, for example. His Saturn conj. your DC is a classic relationship longevity aspect so I wouldn't see that as negative; we must also take into account that Saturn is his Sun sign ruler. On top of this, his Saturn seems to be square your nodal axis which enhances that theme. And your Saturn is sextile his Moon and Sun so there's a nice balance to the Saturn theme between your charts. All in all I honestly think this is an exceptionally good synastry - there's always a little tension somewhere, but here there's very little (mostly Venus-related which might actually be good for spark & chemistry), and nothing that looks too difficult to handle. How it will play out is for the two of you to decide, but in terms of basic compatibility I'd say def. go for it and give it a try! At the very least you might gain a valuable friend. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 14, 2015 01:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by astra7: I don't like the look of:-- Nessu conj. IC. Inside person will bring abuse into your home. - Saturn conj. DC. You are already feeling the restriction! - Moon/Mars opp. Uranus - Pluto sq Venus!
Hi astra7, thanks for your reply. Nessus is also generational so I doubt it could effect us so personally. He's born in '93 and I'm born in '94, so everyone around our age group will have Nessis conj my IC. Plus were at a point in our lives in which were both purging and healing, were helping one another with that in fact. So our relationship currently is pretty healthy, supportive, and mature. I've actually experienced Saturn-DESC with someone else before, it felt very binding actually. I wanted to be committed and devoted to them and just them only. Can't say anything for the other felt though. We never met lol. But yes from my end it felt like it was karma/destiny to experience a close relationship with him. As for the other aspects, can't say for sure. Our relationship is still pretty fresh so those aspects haven't really showed themselves yet lol. I'll let you know how it effects us in the near future. Although that Venus/Pluto square IS slowly making its energies felt. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 14, 2015 01:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Vajra: I like the synastry! He seems like a very good match to you in terms of personality. Many close beneficial aspects between personal planets and luminaries is always a good sign, and you have compatible AC signs as well. Sun-Sun trine, Moon-Moon sextile and Sun-Moon DW (opp./trine) is really, really good. Moon-Jupiter DW is also a very nice thing to have, especially given Jupiter is his AC ruler and your 5th House ruler. The Moon/Mars opp. Uranus listed in the post above is very inexact, so most people wouldn't count that (rather, there's an opposition of Moon/Mars to the other's Sun). Your Mercuries, though not in aspect, are in compatible signs which is very good for communication. The house overlays are also nice; Sun in the other's 5th and Sun in the other's 8th house, for example. His Saturn conj. your DC is a classic relationship longevity aspect so I wouldn't see that as negative; we must also take into account that Saturn is his Sun sign ruler. On top of this, his Saturn seems to be square your nodal axis which enhances that theme. And your Saturn is sextile his Moon and Sun so there's a nice balance to the Saturn theme between your charts. All in all I honestly think this is an exceptionally good synastry - there's always a little tension somewhere, but here there's very little (mostly Venus-related which might actually be good for spark & chemistry), and nothing that looks too difficult to handle. How it will play out is for the two of you to decide, but in terms of basic compatibility I'd say def. go for it and give it a try! At the very least you might gain a valuable friend.
Hi Vajra! Wow thank you so much for the detailed reply! I really appreciate you taking the time and effort! Yes, the Sun/Sun, Sun/Moon DW was felt right from the start. We just click and are on one another's wavelength. It's incredible. So far were both really happy and everyday we find in connect in newer more profound ways. It's a very empowering and free-flowing connection we have. We bring the best out in one another. It's interesting, I'm not clingy with him either and not do I feel insecure with him or jealous/possessive, as I have been with others in the past. Maybe my past hurts that have taught me better, lessons on self empowerment and such. So that could be another reason as to why I feel more in control now and it just feels easy, harmonious, like were growing together. I feel like I manifested this as a result of the past contrast I went through and I am so greatful. We both feel the same way. Thanks again! IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1392 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 14, 2015 01:49 AM
Anyone else care to give their opinion on the composite too maybe? IP: Logged | |