posted March 16, 2015 03:54 AM            

He & I are still getting to know each other but we have a strong psychic connection and when we have to separate for any reason (arguments, etc.) it takes a huge emotional toll on me.

Also...I feel an INTENSE amount of passion for him...if the chart shows why, can anyone tell me if he should be feeling the same way for me?

Is there anything in our charts about our sexual and emotional relationship? According to the charts would we be good marriage partners, lovers or jut friends?

I'm also interested in knowing if there are any karmic ties or soul mate/soul family connections visible in the chart.

I'm on the inside. Thanks so much in advance! This relationship has me losing sleep sometimes. But when it's good it's SO GOOD!!

Not sure how to upload this chart so it's visible...I'll try a couple ways so here goes:

posted March 16, 2015 05:46 PM            

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 16, 2015 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It's an intense emotional/romantic/erotic synastry...what is the orb between the Gemini Moon and Mercury, in opposition?

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I'm new to this kind of thing but I looked up our lovers compatibility on grupovenus & it says his moon is in opposition to my mercury with an orb of 3 degrees.

posted March 16, 2015 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Theres a moon pluto and venus pluto conjunction between you two must be mutually obsessive. And his sun in your 7th makes him ideal for you.

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posted March 16, 2015 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by pandoraX:
Thx LexusVirgo! I hope he's as obsessed as me...because I feel truly obsessed with him. He occupies my thoughts from wake to sleep. I'm just trying to figure out WHY because on the surface we're opposites in many ways. Some even see us as an "odd" couple.

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Obsession is the illusion worn by insecurity in order to create human bonding. There's a desperation seeking to be satisfied; it's important to reflect upon what creates it.

Relationships cannot be built upon obsession, however. It is illusion, after all -- and worse -- insecurity. Should that insecurity be satisfied, true attachment can begin. That's a proper foundation for long-term bonding.

posted March 16, 2015 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Obsession is the illusion worn by insecurity in order to create human bonding. There's a desperation seeking to be satisfied; it's important to reflect upon what creates it.

Relationships cannot be built upon obsession, however. It is illusion, after all -- and worse -- insecurity. Should that insecurity be satisfied, true attachment can begin. That's a proper foundation for long-term bonding.

Ask first: what are you afraid of? What is it you need which you're not getting? Let the current SATURN Retrograde help you identify, and then meditate upon, the answers.

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Hi Aubyanne! Thx for this insight! I'm not sure if I'm afraid of anything...just really trying to find out why this man is on my mind so much. It's something I've never experienced on this level even though I've had several relationships.

I've been single for years, without interest in a relationship (I'd been in a horrible relationship for some years before & decided I needed a break) but then this guy comes along & even tho we're different he's been like a lightening bolt in my life. It's strange to me so...just trying to figure out some possible reasons why I'm feeling so strongly for him so soon.

posted March 16, 2015 08:34 PM            

I think what I'm trying to say is that obsession is simply rooted in insecurity, which is based in fear. The trick is to understand the fear.

Astrologically-speaking, your obsession is indicated by the close MOON conjunct PLUTO, in which you're the MOON. VENUS conjunct PLUTO is going on on his end, but men have a much harder path to their VENUS than women (generally) do to their MOON, and thus, unless he's 'at home' with his VENUS, that may be a more subtle influence.

MOON/PLUTO can certainly bind two people, but the purpose is to develop emotional honesty. It will strip you of any ability to strategise, manipulate, and emotionally game-play. Why? Because they blow up in your face. They fail to achieve the desired outcome, because the intention is to build a foundation of raw, emotional honesty.

You can imagine, how well this goes is largely dependent upon the emotional maturity level of the individuals involved. If one's prone to playing games, it's going to be a rough transition. On the other hand, if they tend to be straightforward and genuine with their emotions, the bonding will be smoother rather than volatile, with less misunderstandings and 'mixed signals' being sent and received.

Once emotional security is achieved between you, the obsession wanes, becoming a greater attachment. Hence, why obsession is ultimately rooted in a sense of imbalance and insecurity.

posted March 16, 2015 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
The fact that we become preoccupied with, 'does he feel it, too?' and 'who's feeling it more?' means we're inherently uncertain, invested, and nervous that our emotions aren't being requited; that our investment may fail to provide the returns we're hoping for. Essentially.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I love his JUPITER on your VENUS.

BTW, where's your PRIAPUS? (h22) It can be incredibly revealing in these sorts of interactions.

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I wasn't sure which asteroids to include so I just included some random ones i read were good in relationship synastry. Here is a new chart with the Priapus. I'm interested to see what it reveals.

posted March 17, 2015 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by pandoraX:
OMG...that must be it. That's my fear. That he won't return the same feelings because he's the first man I've felt this intense amount of emotion for in a long time. And the chemistry is unbelievable. Wow you're good!!

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Thanks, pandora. My clients think so, too, sometimes. (I'm also a therapist).

It's a tough spot. When we've had joy, or -- even worse -- when we've longed for, but never quite tasted it -- that first time we find it, we become so desperate to hang onto it. We can become quickly obsessed with seeking the certainty we lack.

Think instead of the inherent lesson of MOON conjunct PLUTO. As the MOON, we're challenged to be as naked, raw, and honest as we can with our emotions. It's rough -- even painful. We're so vulnerable and exposed. And they seem so damned protected and guarded. It's both horribly frustrating and devastatingly sexy.

posted March 17, 2015 01:34 AM            

I never understood PRIAPUS until Ceridwen explained to me what's happening from the perspective of Earth, when the MOON is at perigee: how huge it appears to us here. Almost overwhelming. It's as if it can't be ignored. I think it's only 'phallic' per its mythological roots, in the sense that it so desperately seeks to merge -- and humanity has chosen sex to be the most easily understood physical way to achieve that.

So I've found the PRIAPUS is a point of extreme desire and longing for physical union. Merging. Naturally, it also tends to be a point of submission -- but not for a desire of masochism, or a need of degradation. It simply yearns to merge with such potency it's willing to submit in pursuit of it.

posted March 17, 2015 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
The aspects to your PRIAPUS are interesting. I've never really studied the squares, only the conjunctions. But, providing the orbs are within range, there are some definite ones here: to his VENUS and PLUTO, I believe; EROS is too far. I'd count VENUS, but not PLUTO.

I never understood PRIAPUS until Ceridwen explained to me what's happening from the perspective of Earth, when the MOON is at perigee: how huge it appears to us here. Almost overwhelming. It's as if it can't be ignored. I think it's only 'phallic' per its mythological roots, in the sense that it so desperately seeks to merge -- and humanity has chosen sex to be the most easily understood physical way to achieve that.

So I've found the PRIAPUS is a point of extreme desire and longing for physical union. Merging. Naturally, it also tends to be a point of submission -- but not for a desire of masochism, or a need of degradation. It simply yearns to merge with such potency it's willing to submit in pursuit of it.

Powerful stuff, really, and tends to be the makings of obsession. That's why I explore it in sexual synastry; especially where obsession is a major feature.

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Wow. That would explain why I feel this way about him. The desire to merge is definitely there!! Thank you so much for explaining this!