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Topic: Before I do something really stupid, help me!
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Queen Salome
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 17, 2015 05:53 AM
  
I have "it's complicated" relationship with A guy. But now I'm abroad on my student exchange program (which turned to very stressful instead of enjoyable, thanks to the invasion of transiting planets on my 12th house) and I met this cute B guy that seems to be interested in me. But I'm not sure should I trust this guy at all.
Please help me, because I'm risking a lot.
What do you think, which relationship is better for me? And what do you in synastry with B guy- affair, abuse, marriage or just nothing? Should I trust him at all?Synastry chart with A guy (me inside)
 Composite chart with A guy  Synastry chart with B guy!
His birth time is assumed , I'm inside/blue, he is outside/red!
For those who love asteroids, notice his asteroid Toro on my DSC and my Pholus on his Sun!
PLEASE HELP ME!
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Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2794
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 01:26 PM
I get that it's complicated with A, but it's your best shot for soul growth and the ultimate sense of true bonding. Everything is 11H in your composite, including a huge stellium of SUN, MOON, and some outers. In some cases, it can denote a profound soul connexion. I do wish that VENUS were involved, but there may be reasons underlying that.To understand the differences between A and B, let's break it down into what's hitting your NNODE. In A, it's URA. With B, it's MARS. However, with A, your SATURN is hitting his NNODE. There's a mutual relationship here surrounding the antagonistic energies of URA and SAT; order versus chaos. Ultimately, bringing them into harmonious alignment. The reason you're somewhat taken aback by this fellow? His VENUS is near to yours, possibly a wide conjunction. In the synastry with A, it's PALLAS. VENUS versus PALLAS is love and attraction aesthetics versus strategy and emotional detachment. PALLAS has to be cautious when in aspect to love points; it can be unintentionally cold or distant. I don't consider TORO a love asteroid. Or PHOLUS. His SUN does 'illuminate' issues regarding your PHOLUS, however. You may be feeling that you need that at the moment. IP: Logged |
Queen Salome
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posted March 17, 2015 04:41 PM
Thank you.
THe problem is that I feel that relationship with A is squeezed (we know each for many years, there is no passion at all from my side, I feel that we maybe should move to another people), while relationship with B will not last 
Besides, I am afraid of reaction of A guy.IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 17, 2015 05:05 PM
If you're gonna add love asteroids I'd stick with the typical Eros, Psyche, Valentine, Vesta and Amor they're the most consistent to me. Throw in Lust, lilith, and Priapus if your concerned with the sexual aspect.
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Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
If you're gonna add love asteroids I'd stick with the typical Eros, Psyche, Valentine, Vesta and Amor they're the most consistent to me. Throw in Lust, lilith, and Priapus if your concerned with the sexual aspect.
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Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 17, 2015 05:11 PM
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Originally posted by Queen Salome:
Thank you.
THe problem is that I feel that relationship with A is squeezed (we know each for many years, there is no passion at all from my side, I feel that we maybe should move to another people), while relationship with B will not last
Besides, I am afraid of reaction of A guy.
Ahhh. That explains your PALLAS conjunct his VENUS. IP: Logged |
Queen Salome
Knowflake Posts: 342
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 19, 2015 06:28 PM
OK, I just destroyed both relationship. I'm such a ***** . Tomorrow is Solar Eclipse in my 12th house.IP: Logged | |
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