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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted March 19, 2015 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnastasiyaEnchanted     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I recently met a guy that I like. I got his birth info and was shocked to see we have the following:

venus square venus
his venus square my mars
my venus square his mars
mars square mars
my Jupiter square his venus
my Jupiter square his mars

All these aspects are nearly exact (under 3 degrees).
How should I feel about this. I wouldn't say that I feel a lot of sexual tension. Is this too many squares between sexual planets? I am kind of worried that all this tension will result in fighting or competition. Has anyone had any experience with something similar to this?

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astra7
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posted March 19, 2015 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you or does he have many squares in natal chart? Venus sq Mars DW is nice. Not sure what Jupiter sq Mars means though.

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geminigal2805
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posted March 19, 2015 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi!
I share Mars square Jupiter dw with my husband. Im no expert but we feel we can achieve anything in this world. Maybe this aspect brings over confidence in us as a couple.There are times when we disagree about our planned moves/decisions.But so far no major disagreements. End of the day our outlook is always positive. I dont look at it as a negative aspect : )
But then I was reading about Pluto opp Sun, Saturn conjunct Pluto,pluto- moon dw which are considered difficult aspects. I have them with my husband.
We dont have power struggles. All I would say is let the relationship blossom on its own. Love is so magical. It can make any two hearts stay together. Give yourself a great chance at happiness.
We also have mars square venus.His mars squares my Venus.Lucky me! My Venus is in Aries. This is the only time in my dating life during the getting to know period I didnt aggressively lead the relationship.
We also have mars trine mars.

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astra7
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posted March 19, 2015 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, thanks geminigirl. You have some heavy-duty aspects with your hubby but nice to hear a success story! Do you mind my asking how long you've been together?

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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted March 19, 2015 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnastasiyaEnchanted     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by astra7:
Do you or does he have many squares in natal chart? Venus sq Mars DW is nice. Not sure what Jupiter sq Mars means though.

I have conjunctions between Jupiter-mars-venus in my chart. But he has venus opposite mars, and Saturn, Neptune, and Uranus square the venus and mars. Not sure what that would mean. Perhaps he would be comfortable with that energy?

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geminigal2805
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posted March 19, 2015 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminigal2805     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by astra7:
wow, thanks geminigirl. You have some heavy-duty aspects with your hubby but nice to hear a success story! Do you mind my asking how long you've been together?

Yeah, those must be some heavy aspects. We also have some good aspects like angle-nodes- vertex alignments, angle ruler- angle ruler aspects, planets -vertex/anti vertex,moon-venus dw, moon-neptune dw, mars-mars, jupiter-jupiter, moon-pluto dw etc. Along with basic compatability like fire sun-moon, air sun-moon combinations : ) Also Leeloo told me we have some major pattern completion in our synastry like mystic rectangles, kites along with a cardinal cross involving our axis/nodes.
Sorry I almost didnt answer your question. We been together since march 2008, which is the day we met. Got married in june 2009 : )


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Aubyanne
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posted March 19, 2015 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I recently met a guy that I like. I got his birth info and was shocked to see we have the following:

venus square venus
his venus square my mars
my venus square his mars
mars square mars
my Jupiter square his venus
my Jupiter square his mars


None of those are a problem, to be honest. Squares get a bad rap even though they're very common in sexual synastry.

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LexusVirgo
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posted March 20, 2015 05:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I did with a capricorn. It was hot.. but the other 23 hrs in a day were just arguments.

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Ceridwen
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posted March 20, 2015 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Aubyanne. Those squares do not seem that bad. Well of course the intensity with squares is higher than with some trines, but all in all it is pretty maneagable.

Personally I love the vibration of Jupiter squares to Mars (or even Venus).

But my Mars is in Sagittarius square Jupiter natally, plus my parents share a mars-Jupiter-opposition in their synastry, so I grew up with being showered by that vibration I suppose.

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astra7
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posted March 20, 2015 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by astra7:
[b]wow, thanks geminigirl. You have some heavy-duty aspects with your hubby but nice to hear a success story! Do you mind my asking how long you've been together?


Yeah, those must be some heavy aspects. We also have some good aspects like angle-nodes- vertex alignments, angle ruler- angle ruler aspects, planets -vertex/anti vertex,moon-venus dw, moon-neptune dw, mars-mars, jupiter-jupiter, moon-pluto dw etc. Along with basic compatability like fire sun-moon, air sun-moon combinations : ) Also Leeloo told me we have some major pattern completion in our synastry like mystic rectangles, kites along with a cardinal cross involving our axis/nodes.
Sorry I almost didnt answer your question. We been together since march 2008, which is the day we met. Got married in june 2009 : )

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wow and well done!
Sounds like you have strong ties both with hard and harmonious aspects. I think Vertex/Nodes/Asc, Sun-Moon are really important. Asteroids are interesting but when you add 10-20 asteroids into the chart, something bounds to hit! lol But I like the traditional, basic aspects and get answer from that.

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