posted March 19, 2015 02:44 PM            

My Virgo Saturn is conjunct his Venus (exact) and his Mars

His Scorpio Saturn is opposite my Taurus Moon

I've read good and bad things about Saturn in synastry, but it mostly sounds like the bad medicine you need to take in order to make things work long term. I read words like binding, stuck, attached...those are the good words...

But could Saturn make you feel so connected to someone, so familiar with someone, that you would venture outside of your usual (perhaps cautious and selective) sexual nature and sleep with someone you barely know?

My life is too complicated for a relationship right now, but if this man were to pursue a committed long term relationship with me, it would happen.

In this way Saturn seems to be inspiring spontaneity, maybe recklessness in me...

We have a few hot asteroid contacts like his Amor conjunct my Eros in Pisces, and I definitely experienced that during sex, but that's not what got me in bed with him. We discussed it. He was the pursuer. I submitted. Although I can be quite passive in relationships, I am also very guarded and self protective. Here I just went all in, and I'm not disappointed I did.

Was this Saturn?

posted March 19, 2015 03:08 PM            

i recently faced a wannabe affair: moon opposite saturn, node/saturn conjunct sun, saturn trine sun/asc.

She was like "okay, he's the only one I wouldn't feel disgusted when having sex with him immediately and only"

posted March 19, 2015 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
interesting

i recently faced a wannabe affair: moon opposite saturn, node/saturn conjunct sun, saturn trine sun/asc.

She was like "okay, he's the only one I wouldn't feel disgusted when having sex with him immediately and only"

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lol. That's funny. I can kind of relate to the way she was thinking. I appreciate his work ethic, his understanding of his responsibility to the people in his life. Even though I don't consider myself a part of his life, he makes me feel safe. In fact he was after a relationship- something I can't do right now...

Who was Moon and was Saturn? Could you distinguish this aspect from the others? Do you mind sharing what that felt like and what signs those planets were in?

I think I can identify Moon Saturn where I'm the Moon, but I can't tell about Saturn (me) Venus/Mars (him)

posted March 19, 2015 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Spontaneity & Saturn in the same sentence does not compute to me lol

There has to be something else going on in the synastry that's giving you that *I'd jump in head first* feeling. Some Uranus???

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That's the thing! Uranus is a major player in my life. It's a 4th house Scorpio Uranus and after Mercury my chart ruler, Uranus is second most influential. My Uranus is completely unaspected!

posted March 19, 2015 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
That's the thing! Uranus is a major player in my life. It's a 4th house Scorpio Uranus and after Mercury my chart ruler, Uranus is second most influential. My Uranus is completely unaspected!

I know, I know- lol. Saturn and spontaneity (?), say what???

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posted March 19, 2015 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
lol. That's funny. I can kind of relate to the way she was thinking. I appreciate his work ethic, his understanding of his responsibility to the people in his life. Even though I don't consider myself a part of his life, he makes me feel safe. In fact he was after a relationship- something I can't do right now...

Who was Moon and was Saturn? Could you distinguish this aspect from the others? Do you mind sharing what that felt like and what signs those planets were in?

I think I can identify Moon Saturn where I'm the Moon, but I can't tell about Saturn (me) Venus/Mars (him)

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Sure:

her saturn/node in virgo in 2nd does conjunct his sun in virgo in 11h and opposes his moon in pisces in 5h

His saturn in scorpio in 2nd house does trine her sun/asc in cancer

posted March 19, 2015 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Sure:

her saturn/node in virgo in 2nd does conjunct his sun in virgo in 11h and opposes his moon in pisces in 5h

His saturn in scorpio in 2nd house does trine her sun/asc in cancer

Either they escape from each other or they will stay together for a while

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posted March 20, 2015 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
The uranus is what starts the engine, but the saturn is what keeps it on the road, minus a few pit-stops (lessons) :-)

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posted March 20, 2015 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
All I know is I hate Saturn sq Venus in synastry and you two don't have it!

That's pretty much the extent of my personal Saturn experiences in Synastry

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Koho, do you not like Venus squaring your Saturn? Their Venus square your Saturn would also mean their Venus is squaring your Moon...

posted March 20, 2015 03:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I think Saturn synastry aspects, will depend on how each person handles it from their own natal.

Me personally I don't do well with heavy Saturn synastry.
There's a whole generation with Saturn in Leo, I have met many men who's Saturn conjunct my sun,moon,mercury. It was way to much for me.. A relationship never developed between me and this generation.
To heavy, I was completely not interested in these men.

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I think this is true. I'm new to astrology so Saturn in synastry is something I haven't had the opportunity to pay attention to. Pluto brought me to astrology and to this forum. Pluto is everywhere, but when I'm not caught up in Pltuo, I am usually close to, involved with, attracted to a Capricorn, and I love that energy. It usually feels like a relief and comfort after a Pluto episode.

posted March 20, 2015 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:

It's more this than anything. SATURN is determination, drive, and dedication. So if you're on a runaway train launched by URANUS, then SATURN is going to keep it going.

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Excellent point Aubyanne.

About Moon Osiris, I noticed that too.

It does look out of orb, but my Moon is conjunct his Osiri/DSC by 1 degree. His Moon is conjunct my Osiri by 2.

What does "exploring 'the divine masculine'" mean? I have read this online, but I just can't grasp a clear understanding of what that could possibly mean.

posted March 20, 2015 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I think Saturn synastry aspects, will depend on how each person handles it from their own natal.

Me personally I don't do well with heavy Saturn synastry.
There's a whole generation with Saturn in Leo, I have met many men who's Saturn conjunct my sun,moon,mercury. It was way to much for me.. A relationship never developed between me and this generation.
To heavy, I was completely not interested in these men.

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Dito.

I natally have venus sextile saturn and my 7h is ruled by saturn. I don't mind Saturn contacts in synastry but they mustn't be too heavy.

posted March 20, 2015 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Koho, do you not like Venus squaring your Saturn? Their Venus square your Saturn would also mean their Venus is squaring your Moon...

Or is it their Saturn to your Venus? I know you like your Venus to be handled a certain way, lol.

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Good questions! I hate their Saturn squaring my Venus. It just slows down the fun times too much or stops it earlier than expected. I've been through that energy so many times that I know not to bother with the process.

My Saturn square their Venus, never had that. But it would be harder to feel since Saturn is hanging around with 3 other planets so that Venus would square 3 generational placements and my Moon

I like the way you put it My Venus definitely like to be handled a certain way. And overwhelmingly it seems the Air Mars know what's up. Gemini Mars taking the lead, Libra Mars 2nd, and the occasional Aquarius Mars. I'm a true believer of Mars-Venus especially when the man is the Venus. It'll be very hard to convince me this is not the number 1 indicator of attraction.

posted March 20, 2015 08:45 AM            

Saturn sq Moon (I am Saturn)

Saturn trine Moon (I am Moon)

Saturn conj SNodes DW

Saturn conj Jupiter (I am Jupiter)

Saturn opp. Uranus (I am Uranus)

Saturn sq Vertex (I am Vertex)

posted March 20, 2015 09:29 AM            

I've been Venus in Mars square Venus. That's hard for me to identify because my Pluto also squaring natal Venus was conjunct his Mars...

Lol. Mars square Mars is supposed to be the worst in synastry...but Virgo and Gemini are both ruled by Mercury. Even if they square each other, I would think they find some compatibility... In general I like Virgo Mars. I think Virgo and Gem Mars should be able to get on the same kinky page. I think outside of sex I like Virgo's drive and intention, and I dont mind being instructed (about how to do things more efficiently) as long as the advice is good.

posted March 20, 2015 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I currently have:

Saturn sq Moon (I am Saturn)

Saturn trine Moon (I am Moon)

Saturn conj SNodes DW

Saturn conj Jupiter (I am Jupiter)

Saturn opp. Uranus (I am Uranus)

Saturn sq Vertex (I am Vertex)

No other Saturn aspects.

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Hey Charlie. That's quite a few aspects. How are those Moon Saturn aspects for you?

posted March 20, 2015 11:09 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Hey Charlie. That's quite a few aspects. How are those Moon Saturn aspects for you?

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Well, I would be lying if I said that my Uranus (all over chart ruler) isn't bucking and kicking at all the Saturn :-/ But I have been a wild child for over 30 years and need the stability he offers. It's very heavy at times and all I want to do is break free. Some days I have to try HAAAAAAAAARD :-/

My Saturn sq his Moon is quite hidden I think, seeing as his moon is opposite my Uranus.

He calls me an untameable horse and it is true but I am learning.

posted March 22, 2015 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:

Now, if only his Aries Sun would take a chillpill or 6 things would be real swell.

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lol!

Thanks for sharing Charlie.